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Psychology of Customer Success

The Human Problem with Customer Success

Psychology of Customer Success · 2026-02-04 · 42 min

Substance score

35 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density9 / 20
Originality9 / 20
Guest Caliber8 / 20
Specificity & Evidence6 / 20
Conversational Craft3 / 20

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

9 / 20

A handful of useful CS ideas (designing for humans not computers, success = customer's business outcome not just renewal, motivating end users/stakeholders/sponsors, habit-formation applied to adoption) but heavily diluted by extended gym and broccoli analogies and repetition.

adoption isn't even listed in the traditional customer journey
just because a person wants an outcome does not mean they're going to do the work to get there

Originality

9 / 20

The 'humans aren't computers' framing and schema/perception angle is a moderately fresh lens for CS, but the core habit content is explicitly borrowed from well-circulated books rather than original thinking.

if you haven't read James Clear's Atomic Habits, I doubt I'm the first person to mention it to you
Charles Doohigg, the Power of Habit also really a great book

Guest Caliber

8 / 20

Solo episode with no guest; host is a CS leadership coach with hands-on implementation claims across several companies, giving practitioner relevance but no senior operator at scale on the mic.

I'm Rachel Provan, cs Leadership Coach, award-winning CS strategist and certified psych nerd
And I've done this at, you know, I don't know how many companies now five, six

Specificity & Evidence

6 / 20

Almost entirely abstract with personal gym/parenting analogies; the only concrete data is vague self-reported retention ranges with no named companies, products, or verifiable figures.

I often saw, you know, like 80% retention
when I would implement this it would go up to 90% retention. 95% retention

Conversational Craft

3 / 20

A pure monologue with no guest, no questions, no follow-ups or challenge; rhetorical questions to the listener and a heavy closing call for five-star reviews substitute for any real dialogue.

so please go to Apple, rate it five stars
I need my little hit of dopamine

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the verbal tics along the way.

Filler words

you know91like64so60right40kind of16actually15sort of9I mean6basically3anyway2honestly1

Episode notes

Wouldn't it be nice if customers would just do what we tell them to do so they can get what they say they want? Unfortunately, humans don't work that way. For better and worse, we're much more complicated. Dive into the fascinating fields of behavioral economics, neuroscience, and cognitive behavioral psychology to understand why people do the things they do, what motivates them, and how to use that to create positive outcomes for your customers, your company, and yourself. BY THE TIME YOU FINISH LISTENING, YOU’LL KNOW: Why your customers can't absorb all the information you're giving them The reason many Founder/CEOs struggle to understand the value of Customer Success. How to drive adoption by understanding Dopamine and Habit Formation OTHER LINKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Mini Habits - Steven Guise Atomic Habits - James Clear The Power of Habit - Charles Duhigg ++++ ATTENTION++++ Ready to stop figuring out CS leadership the hard way?

Full transcript

42 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

1 00:00:02,525 --> 00:00:04,610 Speaker 1: Humans don't think or behave like computers. 2 00:00:04,610 --> 00:00:07,346 You can't just run a command and get them to do what you want 3 00:00:07,346 --> 00:00:07,807 them to do. 4 00:00:07,807 --> 00:00:12,608 So why are you still basing your CS strategy based solely on 5 00:00:12,608 --> 00:00:13,029 logic? 6 00:00:13,029 --> 00:00:17,106 I'm Rachel Provan, cs Leadership Coach, award-winning 7 00:00:17,146 --> 00:00:19,472 CS strategist and certified psych nerd. 8 00:00:19,472 --> 00:00:23,088 I teach CS leaders how to build and scale world-class CS 9 00:00:23,128 --> 00:00:26,164 departments using a combination of strategy, leadership and 10 00:00:26,204 --> 00:00:29,350 mindset, using my secret weapon, psychology. 11 00:00:29,350 --> 00:00:33,033 Come join me every Wednesday for Psychology of Customer 12 00:00:33,052 --> 00:00:36,243 Success, where we'll dive into why people do the things they do 13 00:00:36,243 --> 00:00:39,631 , what motivates them and the effect that has on your CS 14 00:00:39,651 --> 00:00:42,305 strategy, team dynamics and executive presence. 15 00:00:42,305 --> 00:00:46,329 We'll dig into subjects like the helper personality, how 16 00:00:46,368 --> 00:00:49,848 thought errors like it's just easier if I do it keep your 17 00:00:49,889 --> 00:00:53,521 department stuck in reactive mode, and how cognitive bias can 18 00:00:53,521 --> 00:00:56,484 really screw up your customer journey, plus much more. 19 00:00:56,484 --> 00:01:00,289 Make sure to subscribe on Apple Spotify or wherever you listen 20 00:01:00,329 --> 00:01:03,628 to podcasts and make sure to share it with your CS bestie. 21 00:01:03,628 --> 00:01:06,248 Talk soon and here's to your success. 22 00:01:10,980 --> 00:01:15,222 Welcome to Psychology of Customer Success, and today I 23 00:01:15,283 --> 00:01:19,691 want to go into kind of the basis of what this podcast is 24 00:01:19,751 --> 00:01:20,112 about. 25 00:01:20,112 --> 00:01:25,956 So I think one of the biggest mistakes that happens in CS not 26 00:01:25,975 --> 00:01:30,207 just by customer success leaders but sort of everyone who's 27 00:01:30,287 --> 00:01:34,721 perceiving CS as a whole is thinking it's going to be a lot 28 00:01:34,781 --> 00:01:39,403 simpler than it actually is, and I think that's because we're 29 00:01:39,463 --> 00:01:40,989 expecting it to make sense. 30 00:01:40,989 --> 00:01:44,248 You know we're expecting humans to make sense. 31 00:01:44,248 --> 00:01:48,709 We're designing our CS strategies as though they're 32 00:01:48,750 --> 00:01:53,022 going to be straightforward, when it's kind of like we're 33 00:01:53,042 --> 00:01:54,846 trying to design it for a computer. 34 00:01:54,846 --> 00:01:59,280 You know something that's repeatable and predictable the 35 00:01:59,340 --> 00:02:02,090 same thing is going to happen every time you write that same 36 00:02:02,150 --> 00:02:04,819 kind of code for any computer. 37 00:02:04,819 --> 00:02:07,948 It all speaks the same language , it all behaves the same way. 38 00:02:07,948 --> 00:02:10,944 You know garbage in, garbage out, you put good code in, 39 00:02:11,064 --> 00:02:11,769 you're going to get. 40 00:02:11,769 --> 00:02:14,823 You know you're going to get the result you want if you know 41 00:02:14,862 --> 00:02:15,364 how to code. 42 00:02:15,364 --> 00:02:17,128 But it's predictable. 43 00:02:17,128 --> 00:02:22,895 And we're trying to create a strategy for our customers that 44 00:02:22,995 --> 00:02:26,860 is predictable, that gets predictable results, and there 45 00:02:26,941 --> 00:02:28,829 definitely are ways to do that. 46 00:02:28,829 --> 00:02:31,247 Yes, there will be some margin of error, but there are ways to 47 00:02:31,307 --> 00:02:31,729 do that. 48 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:35,709 But we're not considering a lot of different factors. 49 00:02:35,709 --> 00:02:40,288 You know computers even though they might not seem that way to 50 00:02:40,329 --> 00:02:44,409 those who you know aren't engineers, like I'm not doesn't 51 00:02:44,449 --> 00:02:48,485 seem particularly simple to me, but compared to humans, honestly 52 00:02:48,485 --> 00:02:52,399 they're not that sophisticated and there's not as many things 53 00:02:52,438 --> 00:02:53,644 you have to take into account. 54 00:02:53,644 --> 00:02:59,640 For example, computers don't have hidden motivations, they 55 00:02:59,721 --> 00:03:03,683 don't get tired, they don't have fear, they aren't resistant to 56 00:03:03,764 --> 00:03:06,991 new lines of code or they're not self protective like, oh, 57 00:03:07,120 --> 00:03:09,421 you've never done that with me before, I don't know if that's 58 00:03:09,442 --> 00:03:12,610 going to make me self destruct, so no, not going to run that 59 00:03:12,669 --> 00:03:13,230 line of code. 60 00:03:13,230 --> 00:03:18,776 I'd imagine it would probably be be more difficult to create 61 00:03:18,816 --> 00:03:20,521 programs and such if that were the case. 62 00:03:20,521 --> 00:03:26,231 And they also don't lie or basically mislead. 63 00:03:26,231 --> 00:03:27,544 They don't tend to mislead. 64 00:03:28,219 --> 00:03:32,129 A lot of the times we will take what our customers say as face 65 00:03:32,210 --> 00:03:32,570 value. 66 00:03:32,570 --> 00:03:34,125 You can do that with a computer . 67 00:03:34,125 --> 00:03:37,387 You can't necessarily do it with a human, because a human 68 00:03:37,828 --> 00:03:39,050 will tell you what you want to hear. 69 00:03:39,050 --> 00:03:42,187 A computer will absolutely not do that. 70 00:03:42,187 --> 00:03:45,586 Input equals output every time with a computer. 71 00:03:47,379 --> 00:03:48,945 Humans are a lot more complicated. 72 00:03:48,945 --> 00:03:51,621 They have different perspectives, they have 73 00:03:51,640 --> 00:03:53,086 different schemas. 74 00:03:53,086 --> 00:03:59,028 So schemas are basically the way that your brain builds 75 00:03:59,109 --> 00:04:01,734 itself to make shortcuts Right. 76 00:04:01,734 --> 00:04:05,770 So it's, it kind of creates if this than that in computer speak 77 00:04:05,770 --> 00:04:05,770 . 78 00:04:05,770 --> 00:04:09,645 But it becomes very sure about these things. 79 00:04:09,645 --> 00:04:15,137 So you know, based on the way you were raised, the things that 80 00:04:15,137 --> 00:04:16,781 you learned, the things that you saw. 81 00:04:16,781 --> 00:04:22,476 Different things became objectively true for you than 82 00:04:22,497 --> 00:04:25,625 they did for me, than they did for someone you know in a 83 00:04:25,685 --> 00:04:29,779 different political part of the country than they did of, 84 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:34,250 perhaps, someone of a different gender perspective is everything 85 00:04:34,250 --> 00:04:40,108 with humans, and it's entirely possible for two people to have 86 00:04:40,149 --> 00:04:43,382 a completely different perspective and for them both to 87 00:04:43,382 --> 00:04:43,942 be right. 88 00:04:43,942 --> 00:04:49,261 Given the background and the way they're looking at it, they 89 00:04:49,300 --> 00:04:52,557 just might not be able to communicate to the other exactly 90 00:04:52,557 --> 00:04:54,002 what it looks like from their point of view. 91 00:04:54,002 --> 00:04:57,007 So schemas are your view of the world. 92 00:04:57,007 --> 00:05:02,649 Now, for various reasons, mainly having to do with wanting 93 00:05:02,649 --> 00:05:07,845 to feel safe and secure, your brain has billions of bits of 94 00:05:07,904 --> 00:05:10,911 information coming to it at every single moment. 95 00:05:10,911 --> 00:05:15,762 Right, it can't possibly take all of that in, so it takes in 96 00:05:15,963 --> 00:05:18,170 only what it considers to be relevant. 97 00:05:18,170 --> 00:05:20,908 Now, it's only going to consider something to be 98 00:05:21,009 --> 00:05:25,781 relevant if it fits into those existing schemas, and it has a 99 00:05:25,841 --> 00:05:31,838 tendency to filter, delete or distort things that fall outside 100 00:05:31,838 --> 00:05:35,208 of those schemas because they don't fit into the world view 101 00:05:35,509 --> 00:05:36,511 that your brain has. 102 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:41,600 This is all happening without your ever realizing it, and I 103 00:05:41,682 --> 00:05:45,350 actually do a little bit of an experiment on my son sometimes 104 00:05:45,410 --> 00:05:48,584 to show him how this works because I'll tell him, like you 105 00:05:48,625 --> 00:05:51,641 can see something and not really see it, like it won't register 106 00:05:51,682 --> 00:05:55,088 with you or you will have seen it a different way. 107 00:05:55,088 --> 00:05:56,913 And you know he's eight. 108 00:05:56,913 --> 00:05:59,485 So he'll be like, no, no, that's not, that's not possible. 109 00:05:59,485 --> 00:06:00,990 I remember everything, I see everything. 110 00:06:00,990 --> 00:06:04,168 Okay, you know we'll be walking down the street and I'll say 111 00:06:04,208 --> 00:06:05,802 what was the color of that door? 112 00:06:05,802 --> 00:06:06,625 Three doors back. 113 00:06:06,625 --> 00:06:08,322 You saw it. 114 00:06:08,322 --> 00:06:10,404 You know, we walked right past it. 115 00:06:10,404 --> 00:06:11,242 I saw you look at it. 116 00:06:11,242 --> 00:06:13,204 Actually, what color was it? 117 00:06:13,204 --> 00:06:18,901 And he'll break out into a smile because he has no idea. 118 00:06:18,901 --> 00:06:22,218 And the reason he has no idea is because the brain decided 119 00:06:22,598 --> 00:06:26,769 that little bit of information was insignificant, he didn't 120 00:06:26,829 --> 00:06:27,009 need it. 121 00:06:27,009 --> 00:06:30,495 There's enough that is going to be going on in his brain. 122 00:06:30,495 --> 00:06:35,504 So it immediately disregarded it, deleted it and wasn't there 123 00:06:35,543 --> 00:06:35,845 anymore. 124 00:06:35,845 --> 00:06:37,877 Yes, he saw it and now it's gone. 125 00:06:37,877 --> 00:06:43,420 And that really colors our perception of the world and, 126 00:06:43,440 --> 00:06:48,839 what's important, so does things like fear and the survival 127 00:06:48,860 --> 00:06:49,321 mechanism. 128 00:06:50,290 --> 00:06:55,536 Now, when your customers are looking at the software that you 129 00:06:55,536 --> 00:06:59,161 want them to be paying attention to, you want them to 130 00:06:59,262 --> 00:07:03,531 install it, their attention isn't locked there, right, like 131 00:07:03,653 --> 00:07:07,247 you've seen a PowerPoint or you've seen somebody try and 132 00:07:07,266 --> 00:07:07,990 teach you a software. 133 00:07:07,990 --> 00:07:11,507 You don't retain every single bit of information the way a 134 00:07:11,567 --> 00:07:15,516 computer would, even though you heard it, unless your memory is 135 00:07:15,557 --> 00:07:16,218 very special. 136 00:07:16,218 --> 00:07:18,702 You're not going to retain absolutely everything you hear. 137 00:07:18,702 --> 00:07:21,531 Like you can listen to this podcast again, you'll probably 138 00:07:21,571 --> 00:07:25,218 get more out of it the second time because there will be bits 139 00:07:25,398 --> 00:07:28,283 that your brain just went off and la, la, la and for a little 140 00:07:28,302 --> 00:07:30,634 bit and you missed a couple of things. 141 00:07:30,634 --> 00:07:32,579 And that's fine, that's how it works. 142 00:07:32,579 --> 00:07:38,160 But these things have to be factored in when you're setting 143 00:07:38,180 --> 00:07:39,122 your CS strategy. 144 00:07:40,089 --> 00:07:44,341 A lot of CS doesn't take the human element into consideration 145 00:07:44,341 --> 00:07:44,341 . 146 00:07:44,341 --> 00:07:48,632 You know they wanted the product, they bought the product 147 00:07:48,632 --> 00:07:48,632 . 148 00:07:48,632 --> 00:07:49,935 We showed them how to use the product. 149 00:07:49,935 --> 00:07:53,394 Success right and not quite. 150 00:07:53,394 --> 00:07:57,367 You know, adoption isn't even listed in the traditional 151 00:07:57,406 --> 00:07:58,009 customer journey. 152 00:07:58,009 --> 00:07:59,812 It's all just assumed. 153 00:07:59,812 --> 00:08:03,860 It goes from onboarding to maybe optimization, but often 154 00:08:03,901 --> 00:08:08,990 not just like usage, and then renewal, expansion, advocacy, 155 00:08:09,793 --> 00:08:13,754 all definitely going to happen, right and it just. 156 00:08:13,754 --> 00:08:15,560 It's not quite that easy. 157 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:20,458 But you know the traditional customer success model and what 158 00:08:20,538 --> 00:08:23,803 I'm still hearing from so many startups of what they're 159 00:08:23,843 --> 00:08:29,321 expecting their CS department to do is, you know, onboarding, 160 00:08:29,401 --> 00:08:33,033 focus on onboarding, which I agree very important, but focus 161 00:08:33,094 --> 00:08:33,654 on onboarding. 162 00:08:33,654 --> 00:08:38,404 Then have QBRs with the bigger clients, have some sort of 163 00:08:38,485 --> 00:08:40,950 digital strategy for the smaller clients or do nothing with them 164 00:08:40,950 --> 00:08:40,950 . 165 00:08:40,950 --> 00:08:42,918 They should be fine. 166 00:08:44,453 --> 00:08:48,927 But you know, onboarding QBRs and then QBRs can be for upsell 167 00:08:48,947 --> 00:08:50,009 and renewal. 168 00:08:50,009 --> 00:08:55,398 That is all very much based on what the company wants for 169 00:08:55,437 --> 00:08:59,884 itself, but it has nothing to do with what the customer wants 170 00:09:00,264 --> 00:09:00,946 for themselves. 171 00:09:00,946 --> 00:09:04,216 This is one of the reasons that I get very cranky when people 172 00:09:04,256 --> 00:09:07,644 talk about changing the name of customer success, because often 173 00:09:07,684 --> 00:09:11,176 when they do that, they take the customer right out of it and 174 00:09:11,397 --> 00:09:13,990 it's all right there in the name , right, customer success. 175 00:09:13,990 --> 00:09:17,875 We are there to make the customer successful with our 176 00:09:17,916 --> 00:09:22,884 product, not successful by our terms, successful by their terms 177 00:09:22,884 --> 00:09:22,884 . 178 00:09:22,884 --> 00:09:28,642 So what I mean by that is achieving their business outcome 179 00:09:28,642 --> 00:09:28,642 . 180 00:09:28,642 --> 00:09:34,945 So basically, yes, the results of customer success are renewal, 181 00:09:34,945 --> 00:09:38,455 expansion and advocacy, absolutely, but they're not 182 00:09:38,554 --> 00:09:39,037 automatic. 183 00:09:39,037 --> 00:09:44,918 They are the results of getting the customer their desired 184 00:09:45,057 --> 00:09:48,283 outcome, their business outcome that they were looking for when 185 00:09:48,303 --> 00:09:49,065 they bought the product. 186 00:09:49,304 --> 00:09:51,568 Because they didn't get a product, because, oh, that looks 187 00:09:51,568 --> 00:09:55,801 cool and you know, I want to use that as much as I possibly 188 00:09:55,841 --> 00:09:56,000 can. 189 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,816 I want all the bells and whistles and I just want to be 190 00:09:58,855 --> 00:10:02,510 able to do all the things that that product can do, as cool as 191 00:10:02,552 --> 00:10:05,099 it may be, people just don't buy products for that reason. 192 00:10:05,099 --> 00:10:10,320 They buy products to solve a problem or to take advantage of 193 00:10:10,340 --> 00:10:11,160 an opportunity. 194 00:10:11,160 --> 00:10:15,418 Typically, that's going to be save money, make money, increase 195 00:10:15,418 --> 00:10:16,019 efficiency. 196 00:10:16,019 --> 00:10:18,591 You know, an increasing efficiency is really just 197 00:10:18,831 --> 00:10:22,115 another way to increase the amount of money you have, 198 00:10:22,756 --> 00:10:27,543 because the efficiency is you know the amount of time that the 199 00:10:27,543 --> 00:10:29,645 people you're paying are spending on something. 200 00:10:29,645 --> 00:10:33,576 You're not spending as much time on something that dollar 201 00:10:33,636 --> 00:10:36,522 per hour can be spent on something else and you can be 202 00:10:36,562 --> 00:10:37,524 accomplishing more. 203 00:10:37,524 --> 00:10:42,375 So the way I like to look at it and the way I like to explain 204 00:10:42,394 --> 00:10:48,082 it to people is the renewal, expansion advocacy. 205 00:10:48,283 --> 00:10:52,812 All that is what your company wants, because as a CS leader 206 00:10:53,393 --> 00:10:59,701 and as a CSM as well, you have to hold in equal weights what 207 00:10:59,721 --> 00:11:02,644 the customer wants and what your company wants. 208 00:11:02,644 --> 00:11:08,418 They both have needs right and you have to find a way to meet 209 00:11:08,458 --> 00:11:09,721 them both at the same time. 210 00:11:09,721 --> 00:11:11,716 It's not a zero sum game. 211 00:11:11,716 --> 00:11:14,456 It's not where somebody is going to win and somebody is 212 00:11:14,476 --> 00:11:18,437 going to lose, and if you look at it that way, that is very 213 00:11:18,496 --> 00:11:19,580 dangerous for your career. 214 00:11:19,580 --> 00:11:21,332 You have to find a way. 215 00:11:21,332 --> 00:11:25,200 Ok, how do we make the customer successful and how do we make 216 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:26,582 that a win for us as well? 217 00:11:27,652 --> 00:11:31,893 So it's finding that sort of compromise and what I found is 218 00:11:33,056 --> 00:11:37,102 the whole first part of that customer journey that post sale 219 00:11:37,123 --> 00:11:40,990 customer journey, is sort of the hard part on our side. 220 00:11:40,990 --> 00:11:45,360 It's the efforting part where we have to understand what they 221 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:45,662 want. 222 00:11:45,662 --> 00:11:48,960 We have to teach them how to use the product, the onboarding. 223 00:11:48,960 --> 00:11:55,578 We've got to get them to an initial point of success, that 224 00:11:55,599 --> 00:11:59,424 first value, where they feel like it's worth continuing to 225 00:11:59,485 --> 00:12:01,648 put in the effort to. 226 00:12:01,648 --> 00:12:02,970 You know like this is going to work. 227 00:12:02,970 --> 00:12:04,897 I see the reason I'm onboard. 228 00:12:04,897 --> 00:12:08,677 I'm going to keep using it until I get the results I want, 229 00:12:08,717 --> 00:12:10,662 because I see that that's possible right. 230 00:12:10,662 --> 00:12:14,139 And then once they hit that result that they want, that they 231 00:12:14,139 --> 00:12:15,923 get the result they were looking for when they bought the 232 00:12:15,923 --> 00:12:16,384 product. 233 00:12:16,384 --> 00:12:17,990 That's sort of like when they get to the top of the mountain. 234 00:12:17,990 --> 00:12:21,366 You got to spend all that time climbing up the mountain to get 235 00:12:21,386 --> 00:12:23,485 them to their desired outcome and then you get to ski down the 236 00:12:23,485 --> 00:12:23,788 other side. 237 00:12:25,221 --> 00:12:28,374 The rest of it becomes really easy the renewal, the expansion, 238 00:12:28,374 --> 00:12:32,179 the advocacy, because you've proven that you deliver value 239 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:36,386 and that continuing to invest in you or investing more in you 240 00:12:36,847 --> 00:12:38,009 will continue to deliver value. 241 00:12:38,009 --> 00:12:44,259 And even more than that, the second order revenue of people 242 00:12:44,318 --> 00:12:47,724 telling others about how fantastic you are, you know, 243 00:12:47,823 --> 00:12:48,845 drives new customers. 244 00:12:48,845 --> 00:12:51,428 It almost becomes new sales and marketing for you. 245 00:12:51,428 --> 00:12:52,009 That's free. 246 00:12:52,009 --> 00:12:56,554 So there's tons of value in CS. 247 00:12:56,554 --> 00:13:01,520 But to assume that there's no real effort on our side where we 248 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:04,323 have to meet the customer halfway there, that's where I 249 00:13:04,384 --> 00:13:05,706 think a lot of people miss it. 250 00:13:36,023 --> 00:13:40,674 Now, where it gets even more tricky is there's not just one 251 00:13:40,735 --> 00:13:42,117 outcome, right? 252 00:13:42,117 --> 00:13:44,302 I mean, maybe there is. 253 00:13:44,302 --> 00:13:49,052 If you have a very simple product and you're maybe dealing 254 00:13:49,052 --> 00:13:54,491 with one type of customer solving one type of problem, but 255 00:13:54,491 --> 00:13:58,462 you're probably not necessarily like a SaaS model, then you're 256 00:13:58,482 --> 00:14:01,490 probably a very inexpensive B2C. 257 00:14:01,490 --> 00:14:06,171 So in traditional customer success, you're most likely 258 00:14:06,271 --> 00:14:09,463 going to have to deal with not just one outcome. 259 00:14:09,463 --> 00:14:12,445 We think of the outcome of the executive sponsor, because of 260 00:14:12,506 --> 00:14:13,528 course, that's important. 261 00:14:13,528 --> 00:14:17,847 But in order to get that, you also have to get the outcomes of 262 00:14:17,847 --> 00:14:21,242 the key stakeholders, because they're going to want something 263 00:14:21,283 --> 00:14:21,625 different. 264 00:14:21,625 --> 00:14:25,209 It's going to take something different for them to be 265 00:14:25,309 --> 00:14:29,262 motivated to show up and prioritize your product every 266 00:14:29,343 --> 00:14:30,606 day in their life. 267 00:14:31,679 --> 00:14:33,124 So we've got the executive sponsor. 268 00:14:33,124 --> 00:14:35,250 They want something, probably financial. 269 00:14:35,250 --> 00:14:39,927 The key stakeholder wants something else, probably for 270 00:14:39,947 --> 00:14:43,342 their department to do things more quickly or to look good to 271 00:14:43,382 --> 00:14:48,228 their boss and your end users, the people who have to actually 272 00:14:48,408 --> 00:14:49,170 use the product. 273 00:14:49,170 --> 00:14:52,019 They probably don't particularly care. 274 00:14:52,019 --> 00:14:54,266 I mean, I'm sure they care about the bottom line of the 275 00:14:54,286 --> 00:14:57,425 company, but they probably don't see how it's in any way tied to 276 00:14:57,425 --> 00:14:58,980 your product and to them. 277 00:14:58,980 --> 00:15:02,968 It's probably just kind of annoying to have to figure out 278 00:15:03,028 --> 00:15:08,288 something, figure out a new tool that they don't see, a real 279 00:15:08,367 --> 00:15:09,891 reason that they have to learn. 280 00:15:09,959 --> 00:15:13,081 It was easier to just do what they were familiar with, so 281 00:15:13,742 --> 00:15:15,868 there has to be something in it for them as well. 282 00:15:15,868 --> 00:15:19,267 There has to be a way that it's making their life easier, their 283 00:15:19,267 --> 00:15:20,030 job easier. 284 00:15:20,030 --> 00:15:22,947 What can it do that they couldn't do before without the 285 00:15:22,986 --> 00:15:24,309 tool or with a different tool? 286 00:15:24,309 --> 00:15:29,410 So you have to actually almost work backwards. 287 00:15:29,410 --> 00:15:32,430 You have to work first with the end user, because if they're 288 00:15:32,491 --> 00:15:36,125 not using it, you're probably not going to get the rest of the 289 00:15:36,125 --> 00:15:36,586 results. 290 00:15:36,586 --> 00:15:41,230 So you have to be able to be clear in your messaging to the 291 00:15:41,350 --> 00:15:46,179 end user of how this is going to make their life better, and you 292 00:15:46,179 --> 00:15:49,448 have to be coordinating with the key stakeholder of yes, 293 00:15:49,488 --> 00:15:52,485 we're working towards the outcome that your boss wanted, 294 00:15:53,279 --> 00:15:55,721 here's what we've been doing with it, here's what you can 295 00:15:55,761 --> 00:16:00,218 tell him or her that's going so well, and what you had to do 296 00:16:00,259 --> 00:16:02,786 with it to solve the greater business problems. 297 00:16:02,786 --> 00:16:06,909 And again, the outcome is never going to be. 298 00:16:06,909 --> 00:16:09,881 I want this program so I can use all the fun bells and 299 00:16:09,901 --> 00:16:10,242 whistles. 300 00:16:11,480 --> 00:16:16,113 If we don't get the outcome that the customer wants, we will 301 00:16:16,173 --> 00:16:21,267 fail to get the results that we need as a company, from CS, from 302 00:16:21,267 --> 00:16:22,110 those customers. 303 00:16:22,110 --> 00:16:29,519 The whole point of CS is to systematize those outcomes and a 304 00:16:29,519 --> 00:16:32,887 predictable way to get that customer from here, where they 305 00:16:32,928 --> 00:16:36,105 started, to there, that result they want, where they want to be 306 00:16:36,105 --> 00:16:36,105 . 307 00:16:36,105 --> 00:16:41,307 And it goes beyond just teaching them okay, here's how 308 00:16:41,347 --> 00:16:42,370 you get from here to there. 309 00:16:42,370 --> 00:16:45,665 This is what success plans really are. 310 00:16:45,665 --> 00:16:50,390 It's the combination of okay, this is what you physically do, 311 00:16:50,679 --> 00:16:53,828 it's the how to in our product to get from here to there. 312 00:16:53,828 --> 00:16:59,021 But it's also motivating people , staying on top of them, almost 313 00:16:59,021 --> 00:17:04,373 project managing it and keeping everybody on track, because 314 00:17:05,421 --> 00:17:07,247 there's going to be resistance to do that. 315 00:17:07,247 --> 00:17:09,125 But here's where the problems come in. 316 00:17:09,125 --> 00:17:15,289 So, just because a person wants an outcome does not mean 317 00:17:15,309 --> 00:17:17,153 they're going to do the work to get there. 318 00:17:18,343 --> 00:17:19,307 Now let me tell you what I mean. 319 00:17:19,307 --> 00:17:22,848 So I'm going to use the embarrassing example of me and 320 00:17:22,868 --> 00:17:27,303 the gym here, because I just, you know, it's something that I 321 00:17:27,384 --> 00:17:28,689 battled with most of my life. 322 00:17:28,689 --> 00:17:30,427 I do not like going to a gym. 323 00:17:30,427 --> 00:17:35,556 I have found ways that I like to exercise, well enough, but 324 00:17:35,615 --> 00:17:37,263 it's just, you know, not my favorite thing. 325 00:17:37,263 --> 00:17:44,793 So, that said, every you know January, I get targeted between, 326 00:17:44,793 --> 00:17:48,565 you know, december 25th and January 1st. 327 00:17:48,980 --> 00:17:50,426 The algorithms know me so well. 328 00:17:50,426 --> 00:17:53,654 They're like she's going to be thinking about what she wants to 329 00:17:53,654 --> 00:17:56,346 do next year and what she wants to change and how her life is 330 00:17:56,365 --> 00:17:56,968 going to be better. 331 00:17:56,968 --> 00:18:00,867 We're going to show her lots of ads for gyms, you know, 332 00:18:01,108 --> 00:18:05,507 especially ones in her area, and you know I get sitting there 333 00:18:05,586 --> 00:18:06,209 and seeing them. 334 00:18:06,209 --> 00:18:08,721 Things are going to be different this year, and here's 335 00:18:08,761 --> 00:18:09,986 why they're going to be different this year. 336 00:18:09,986 --> 00:18:13,081 Reason number one, two, three, whatever, I don't know, like I'm 337 00:18:13,081 --> 00:18:14,125 using a different hair dye this year. 338 00:18:14,125 --> 00:18:14,625 I don't know. 339 00:18:14,625 --> 00:18:18,368 You know, for me this year it's like oh well, my business is in 340 00:18:18,368 --> 00:18:21,103 a different place than it was last year, so maybe it'll be a 341 00:18:21,143 --> 00:18:22,527 little bit less hectic. 342 00:18:22,527 --> 00:18:26,946 You know, never mind, it's me that is the one that makes it as 343 00:18:26,946 --> 00:18:27,749 hectic as it is. 344 00:18:27,749 --> 00:18:33,228 But you know, every year I buy that gym membership or not every 345 00:18:33,228 --> 00:18:37,082 year, but plenty of years I have bought that gym membership 346 00:18:37,944 --> 00:18:40,108 and you know it's because I. 347 00:18:40,308 --> 00:18:41,070 You know there are reasons. 348 00:18:41,070 --> 00:18:43,944 I wanted, I want to feel healthier, I want to look better 349 00:18:43,944 --> 00:18:49,168 , I want to just have more energy and you know, I'm not 25 350 00:18:49,208 --> 00:18:49,550 anymore. 351 00:18:49,550 --> 00:18:53,061 I got to take care of my body, like there's lots of reasons for 352 00:18:53,061 --> 00:18:55,423 me to do this and I do want the results of it. 353 00:18:55,423 --> 00:19:00,113 But here's the thing it's cold in January. 354 00:19:00,113 --> 00:19:01,268 It's also dark. 355 00:19:01,268 --> 00:19:05,595 This is not the most motivating thing in the world. 356 00:19:05,595 --> 00:19:08,072 So for me it looks something like this. 357 00:19:08,745 --> 00:19:13,375 So the first week or two I go I'm like, oh, this is so cool. 358 00:19:13,375 --> 00:19:17,265 Look at me, I'm doing the thing , I'm getting up early, I'm 359 00:19:17,285 --> 00:19:24,036 going, and then maybe after two weeks or so, it's like I have 360 00:19:24,076 --> 00:19:27,129 specific days that I go, right, you know, three, four times a 361 00:19:27,150 --> 00:19:32,614 week, and then one day, you know I won't want to get up, for 362 00:19:32,653 --> 00:19:34,137 whatever reason, I'll feel more tired. 363 00:19:34,137 --> 00:19:35,038 I stayed up late. 364 00:19:35,038 --> 00:19:40,171 Oh, I have such a busy day today and I'm not the best at 365 00:19:40,230 --> 00:19:41,013 motivation. 366 00:19:41,013 --> 00:19:46,114 I don't make the best decisions when I'm like half asleep and 367 00:19:46,153 --> 00:19:47,317 trying not to get out of bed. 368 00:19:47,317 --> 00:19:51,233 But I'll be sitting there thinking, you know like well, 369 00:19:51,373 --> 00:19:52,836 you know today's a really big day. 370 00:19:52,836 --> 00:19:55,312 You know, the body really does need rest. 371 00:19:55,312 --> 00:19:57,271 That's when muscles repair themselves. 372 00:19:57,271 --> 00:20:01,515 So it will actually be better for me if I don't go to the gym 373 00:20:01,555 --> 00:20:01,855 today. 374 00:20:01,855 --> 00:20:04,406 I will be getting fitter by not going to the gym today and it 375 00:20:04,426 --> 00:20:06,871 will be good for work because you know, I've got a lot on my 376 00:20:06,911 --> 00:20:09,096 plate today and it'll be fine. 377 00:20:09,096 --> 00:20:11,525 I'll just go tomorrow. 378 00:20:11,525 --> 00:20:12,288 And then tomorrow comes. 379 00:20:12,288 --> 00:20:16,747 And you know, yesterday was a really big day, it was really 380 00:20:16,807 --> 00:20:19,511 busy and also it's sleeting now. 381 00:20:19,511 --> 00:20:24,735 I mean, that's, I don't want to get sick and not be able to go 382 00:20:24,755 --> 00:20:28,250 to the gym, right, so just probably just better to put it 383 00:20:28,351 --> 00:20:28,451 off. 384 00:20:28,451 --> 00:20:32,571 And then the next day my kid is sick and has the sniffles 385 00:20:32,653 --> 00:20:36,667 because he went out in, you know , in the sleet, right, and it 386 00:20:36,707 --> 00:20:37,851 just seems to go that way, right . 387 00:20:39,005 --> 00:20:41,393 And then all of a sudden you're kind of out of the habit. 388 00:20:41,393 --> 00:20:44,473 I mean to be honest, like it kind of hurts. 389 00:20:44,473 --> 00:20:49,536 It takes a while to enjoy exercise and you're not enjoying 390 00:20:49,536 --> 00:20:49,937 yourself. 391 00:20:49,937 --> 00:20:54,192 It isn't making any difference, that you can see, and even 392 00:20:54,213 --> 00:20:57,910 though I know intellectually that, no, I'm not going to have 393 00:20:57,971 --> 00:21:00,808 a sex pack in two weeks and if you are hush, I don't want to 394 00:21:00,849 --> 00:21:05,329 hear from you because I am not and it still just kind of feels 395 00:21:05,349 --> 00:21:08,848 like you know I'm putting a lot of effort in here and it doesn't 396 00:21:08,848 --> 00:21:11,054 really feel like it's doing anything. 397 00:21:11,054 --> 00:21:15,735 So why am I going to continue to torture myself? 398 00:21:15,735 --> 00:21:20,439 You know, and once you're out of the habit like that one 399 00:21:20,479 --> 00:21:24,903 little week of you know things getting in my way it's far, far 400 00:21:25,110 --> 00:21:30,386 too easy to just drop it rather than have to face the mental 401 00:21:30,426 --> 00:21:35,925 hurdles of I don't want to do this, I don't enjoy this, it's 402 00:21:35,945 --> 00:21:39,594 not convenient for me, but I still really want the results. 403 00:21:39,594 --> 00:21:44,213 Right Now that's going on with a lot of your clients. 404 00:21:44,213 --> 00:21:50,433 That said, this is for something that I saw out myself 405 00:21:50,494 --> 00:21:55,169 personally and I wanted the results and I felt really 406 00:21:55,209 --> 00:21:56,052 frickin motivated. 407 00:21:57,165 --> 00:22:00,834 Have you in your life to think if there's a time where you've 408 00:22:00,954 --> 00:22:05,471 ever tried to get someone else to change something, a habit, a 409 00:22:05,511 --> 00:22:09,865 way they behave, something that they do maybe a spouse, maybe a 410 00:22:09,884 --> 00:22:14,667 partner, heck, maybe even a pet How'd that go, because I can 411 00:22:14,707 --> 00:22:17,894 tell you in my experience, trying to change another person, 412 00:22:17,894 --> 00:22:22,350 if it wasn't their idea and they're not super motivated, 413 00:22:23,312 --> 00:22:25,417 it's not very likely going to happen. 414 00:22:25,417 --> 00:22:30,917 People don't tend to change very easily and it really has to 415 00:22:30,917 --> 00:22:34,488 be their idea and it's going to take a lot. 416 00:22:34,488 --> 00:22:39,596 Now we're not even trying to change ourselves. 417 00:22:39,596 --> 00:22:43,815 We're not even trying to change someone that happens to love us 418 00:22:43,815 --> 00:22:43,815 . 419 00:22:43,815 --> 00:22:50,766 We're trying to change people who owe us nothing, these end 420 00:22:50,865 --> 00:22:51,307 users. 421 00:22:51,307 --> 00:22:53,714 They personally haven't paid us anything. 422 00:22:55,005 --> 00:22:58,355 What's in it for them to spend their time learning a new 423 00:22:58,394 --> 00:22:58,836 software? 424 00:22:58,836 --> 00:23:03,215 That's probably not what their KPIs are, what they're going to 425 00:23:03,235 --> 00:23:03,936 be measured on. 426 00:23:03,936 --> 00:23:09,235 It's probably something that helps a part of their job, but 427 00:23:09,475 --> 00:23:11,667 it's unlikely that it is their whole job. 428 00:23:11,667 --> 00:23:16,956 Why are they going to be efforting and spending their 429 00:23:17,016 --> 00:23:20,267 time on this instead of, I guarantee you, the thousand 430 00:23:20,307 --> 00:23:22,272 other things that are on their plate that day? 431 00:23:22,272 --> 00:23:28,132 It's hard when you start to look at it that way and then 432 00:23:28,192 --> 00:23:31,269 having to do this for the end users, for the key stakeholder, 433 00:23:31,369 --> 00:23:34,903 for the executive sponsor, and motivating all these people and 434 00:23:34,923 --> 00:23:38,573 getting them to change, and oh my gosh, how are we going to do 435 00:23:38,633 --> 00:23:43,692 that you start to really get a sense of what you're up against 436 00:23:43,753 --> 00:23:43,933 here. 437 00:23:43,933 --> 00:23:47,474 The other aspect that a lot of people don't think about 438 00:23:47,975 --> 00:23:51,769 consciously is that there's a resistance to this. 439 00:23:51,769 --> 00:23:55,652 I just told you about this and you might not be jumping for joy 440 00:23:55,652 --> 00:23:55,652 . 441 00:23:58,725 --> 00:24:03,558 Let's say that we know that the customer bought our software not 442 00:24:03,558 --> 00:24:07,592 because they just happened to love pressing buttons, but 443 00:24:07,932 --> 00:24:11,123 because they're trying to achieve a business outcome, like 444 00:24:11,123 --> 00:24:16,254 they want to make more money in their campaigns by using our 445 00:24:16,294 --> 00:24:16,715 software. 446 00:24:16,715 --> 00:24:22,172 But wait a minute, I can't guarantee our software will do 447 00:24:22,211 --> 00:24:23,415 that. 448 00:24:23,415 --> 00:24:28,052 It might help, but there's other factors I can't control, 449 00:24:28,173 --> 00:24:28,413 right? 450 00:24:28,413 --> 00:24:32,775 What if I can't see if it's doing what they need them to do? 451 00:24:32,775 --> 00:24:35,066 I don't have insights into their financials, I don't have 452 00:24:35,105 --> 00:24:37,651 insights into the inner workings of their company, and I'm not 453 00:24:37,692 --> 00:24:43,730 going to If I can't see whether that's actually doing what they 454 00:24:43,750 --> 00:24:44,733 need it to or not. 455 00:24:44,733 --> 00:24:50,896 I don't want to admit that, because what if I admit that and 456 00:24:50,896 --> 00:24:53,509 the C-suite says well then, what the hell are you doing here 457 00:24:53,509 --> 00:24:53,509 ? 458 00:24:53,509 --> 00:24:55,976 You're saying we have to achieve these outcomes and then 459 00:24:56,016 --> 00:24:58,369 you're saying we can't know if we're achieving these outcomes. 460 00:24:58,369 --> 00:25:01,992 It all gets pretty scary, right . 461 00:25:01,992 --> 00:25:07,975 So it's a lot easier to just say yes, sir or ma'am, and just 462 00:25:08,015 --> 00:25:13,091 be like okay, onboard QBRs, and you're still not going to get 463 00:25:13,532 --> 00:25:15,375 the results that you're hoping for that way. 464 00:25:15,375 --> 00:25:20,976 Now the C-suite is most likely to be resistant in their own 465 00:25:21,017 --> 00:25:26,048 ways to this idea, because a lot of them actually do think like 466 00:25:26,069 --> 00:25:28,657 computers, especially if you have a founder CEO. 467 00:25:28,657 --> 00:25:29,599 Okay. 468 00:25:29,599 --> 00:25:35,658 So To them, hearing that there's going to be new ons and 469 00:25:35,718 --> 00:25:39,149 it's you know, frankly, it's not going to be as easy as they'd 470 00:25:39,209 --> 00:25:40,372 hoped it was going to be. 471 00:25:40,372 --> 00:25:43,705 It's going to take longer, it's going to take more work, it's 472 00:25:43,725 --> 00:25:45,892 going to be more complicated than they initially thought. 473 00:25:45,892 --> 00:25:48,769 That's going to cause some disappointment. 474 00:25:49,565 --> 00:25:52,692 A lot of people hope that CS is going to be this magic bullet, 475 00:25:53,195 --> 00:25:53,997 especially right now. 476 00:25:53,997 --> 00:25:58,320 They're kind of hoping like oh well, we can't get any new 477 00:25:58,521 --> 00:26:00,590 customers right now, or we're having trouble getting new 478 00:26:00,630 --> 00:26:03,045 customers right now, but we can sell to our existing customer 479 00:26:03,146 --> 00:26:03,668 base, right? 480 00:26:03,668 --> 00:26:05,249 Isn't that what CS does? 481 00:26:05,249 --> 00:26:07,470 Right, you can fix the economy right? 482 00:26:07,470 --> 00:26:12,094 You know you're not part of the same economy that we're part of 483 00:26:12,094 --> 00:26:13,596 with trying to get new logos. 484 00:26:13,596 --> 00:26:17,757 Surely our current customers aren't experiencing any of the 485 00:26:17,888 --> 00:26:20,715 economic tech troubles that anyone else is. 486 00:26:20,715 --> 00:26:22,719 It can be disappointing. 487 00:26:22,719 --> 00:26:25,471 It's actually something you have to be a little bit careful 488 00:26:25,532 --> 00:26:29,329 with when you talk about, because otherwise the C-suite 489 00:26:29,690 --> 00:26:33,625 can then say, well, if you can't fix things right away, then you 490 00:26:33,625 --> 00:26:37,673 know, kind of never mind, because we don't know how much 491 00:26:37,734 --> 00:26:39,016 runway we have left. 492 00:26:39,016 --> 00:26:46,055 And that's not a great strategy either, because CS is a 493 00:26:46,134 --> 00:26:47,518 long-term growth strategy. 494 00:26:47,518 --> 00:26:50,551 It's not that sexy. 495 00:26:52,105 --> 00:26:53,993 It's eating your broccoli, right ? 496 00:26:53,993 --> 00:26:58,550 Yeah, it's fine, you know, but it's just not necessarily going 497 00:26:58,570 --> 00:27:00,194 to be the most exciting part of the meal. 498 00:27:00,194 --> 00:27:04,755 But it is what is going to make you strong. 499 00:27:04,755 --> 00:27:08,894 It is going to have like nutrients and, you know, fiber 500 00:27:09,036 --> 00:27:14,290 and it has sure antioxidants and all these things that we need 501 00:27:14,350 --> 00:27:15,073 to stay healthy. 502 00:27:15,073 --> 00:27:20,555 Now you can't wait until you know it's something that you 503 00:27:20,595 --> 00:27:23,027 can't just do it once and you're done. 504 00:27:23,027 --> 00:27:25,596 It's something that you have to do consistently. 505 00:27:25,596 --> 00:27:28,608 That's kind of annoying, kind of like the exercise that you 506 00:27:28,649 --> 00:27:32,436 just have to do consistently because that is how you stay 507 00:27:32,496 --> 00:27:33,398 healthy long-term. 508 00:27:33,398 --> 00:27:34,929 That's one of the parts of it. 509 00:27:34,929 --> 00:27:40,774 You can't wait until you're really sick or you have cancer 510 00:27:40,794 --> 00:27:45,028 or something, and then start chowing down on broccoli and 511 00:27:45,089 --> 00:27:46,132 thinking it's going to help you. 512 00:27:46,132 --> 00:27:49,986 It's too late for broccoli at that point, you know. 513 00:27:49,986 --> 00:27:51,919 Yes, there are other things that can help you, but you know, 514 00:27:51,919 --> 00:27:54,551 relying on broccoli at the time , for that has probably passed. 515 00:27:54,551 --> 00:28:03,730 Now no one really wants to be broccoli, so we need to explain. 516 00:28:03,730 --> 00:28:07,518 You know, hey, we're the broccoli, but we also have some 517 00:28:07,577 --> 00:28:09,669 chocolate on the side of that. 518 00:28:09,669 --> 00:28:11,634 Or you know, we're broccoli with cheese. 519 00:28:11,805 --> 00:28:14,509 You know there's some benefits, there's some immediate benefits. 520 00:28:14,509 --> 00:28:17,692 It's going to we're going to get some sort of pleasure out of 521 00:28:17,692 --> 00:28:18,355 this right away. 522 00:28:18,355 --> 00:28:23,675 So there are benefits at every stage of customer success, even 523 00:28:23,715 --> 00:28:26,167 when you're starting out, even when you're in that reactive 524 00:28:26,207 --> 00:28:26,528 stage. 525 00:28:26,528 --> 00:28:31,727 Even just putting bodies on the accounts is going to reduce 526 00:28:31,787 --> 00:28:35,661 churn because people are going to get some of their problems 527 00:28:35,701 --> 00:28:39,611 solved that before they wouldn't and will talk to customers who 528 00:28:39,651 --> 00:28:43,458 maybe aren't that happy but they're not gone Right. 529 00:28:43,458 --> 00:28:46,192 So customer success has an immediate benefit. 530 00:28:46,192 --> 00:28:47,971 You can always be very clear on that. 531 00:28:48,725 --> 00:28:54,019 But when it comes down to actual customer success, actually 532 00:28:54,120 --> 00:28:59,455 getting that result that people need and I'm making this as hard 533 00:28:59,455 --> 00:29:03,907 as it can possibly be, but it's to show you what you're really 534 00:29:04,008 --> 00:29:06,711 dealing with here you know all you have to do is get people a 535 00:29:06,752 --> 00:29:07,997 result, get them from A to B. 536 00:29:07,997 --> 00:29:12,711 But there is going to be some resistance from them, from you, 537 00:29:13,073 --> 00:29:18,817 from the C suite, and you've got to motivate these people and 538 00:29:19,017 --> 00:29:22,127 have it be at the top of their list to do what you're asking 539 00:29:22,147 --> 00:29:25,355 them to do, even when it's not fun, even when it's boring, even 540 00:29:25,355 --> 00:29:27,252 when they have more important things to do. 541 00:29:27,252 --> 00:29:31,733 So you have to first speak to. 542 00:29:31,733 --> 00:29:33,477 Here's the way we're actually going to fix this. 543 00:29:33,477 --> 00:29:35,611 Here's how you're actually going to address it with 544 00:29:35,651 --> 00:29:36,073 customers. 545 00:29:36,965 --> 00:29:40,054 This is kind of like change management, which sounds really 546 00:29:40,094 --> 00:29:40,495 scary. 547 00:29:40,495 --> 00:29:45,317 Right, it sounds like we need a management consulting firm and 548 00:29:45,498 --> 00:29:50,070 people who wear really expensive suits and have briefcases need 549 00:29:50,090 --> 00:29:51,554 to come in and do things. 550 00:29:51,554 --> 00:29:58,987 And we have to motivate the right people, as I said, the end 551 00:29:58,987 --> 00:30:02,797 users, the key stakeholders and the executive sponsors. 552 00:30:02,797 --> 00:30:07,348 Now, we all have too much to do , every single one of us. 553 00:30:07,348 --> 00:30:09,900 That is kind of the curse of the modern world. 554 00:30:09,900 --> 00:30:13,992 You have to be able to come up with a reason why adopting your 555 00:30:14,052 --> 00:30:16,076 product should be at the top of their list. 556 00:30:16,884 --> 00:30:22,296 So understand what about this product could get them promoted. 557 00:30:22,296 --> 00:30:26,573 What are the key initiatives that their company is trying to 558 00:30:26,613 --> 00:30:27,475 work on right now? 559 00:30:27,475 --> 00:30:32,194 Most likely, save money, make money, improve productivity or 560 00:30:32,234 --> 00:30:33,055 increase security. 561 00:30:33,055 --> 00:30:37,633 Those tend to be the things that people talk about at 562 00:30:37,774 --> 00:30:39,076 quarterly planning meetings. 563 00:30:39,076 --> 00:30:43,989 Those tend to be the OKRs the big rocks If you can tie your 564 00:30:44,069 --> 00:30:48,979 product to that, showing how it ties into that, you are already 565 00:30:48,999 --> 00:30:51,431 out of the game because you are going to have a way to motivate 566 00:30:51,632 --> 00:30:52,113 these people. 567 00:30:52,113 --> 00:30:56,903 Marketing is something that you know. 568 00:30:56,903 --> 00:30:58,628 I feel like we already have too much to do in CS. 569 00:30:58,628 --> 00:31:03,007 But learning, not even marketing, but copywriting 570 00:31:03,548 --> 00:31:06,498 understanding how to motivate people to do what you want them 571 00:31:06,538 --> 00:31:10,493 to do through your words, through talking about benefits 572 00:31:10,553 --> 00:31:14,367 rather than features, through understanding what pain points 573 00:31:14,427 --> 00:31:18,430 to highlight and show people how their lives could be different 574 00:31:18,641 --> 00:31:23,192 through using your product that can have a huge impact on 575 00:31:23,403 --> 00:31:26,489 whether your customers actually take action and learn it. 576 00:31:26,489 --> 00:31:32,825 So the way we're going to break this down is it's really just 577 00:31:32,904 --> 00:31:33,727 habit formation. 578 00:31:33,727 --> 00:31:38,571 And you know, once you know what you want them to do and you 579 00:31:38,571 --> 00:31:42,525 can get them motivated to do it , actually getting them to make 580 00:31:42,586 --> 00:31:45,816 it part of their life and make it part of their everyday 581 00:31:45,855 --> 00:31:50,627 business processes is a matter of habit formation. 582 00:31:51,676 --> 00:31:56,043 Now, if you haven't read James Clear's Atomic Habits, I doubt 583 00:31:56,103 --> 00:31:58,728 I'm the first person to mention it to you. 584 00:31:58,728 --> 00:32:03,623 Go read it, but I'm going to summarize it here, but it's 585 00:32:03,643 --> 00:32:05,407 still definitely worth a read. 586 00:32:05,407 --> 00:32:09,224 I read a lot about habit formation and how that works in 587 00:32:09,244 --> 00:32:09,705 the brain. 588 00:32:09,705 --> 00:32:13,803 Charles Doohigg, the Power of Habit also really a great book 589 00:32:13,844 --> 00:32:18,100 to check out, and I'll have a link to both of those in the 590 00:32:18,140 --> 00:32:22,048 comments, as well as many habits by Stephen Geiss. 591 00:32:22,048 --> 00:32:27,483 That's a really good one too, but the basics of it are to 592 00:32:27,543 --> 00:32:29,105 create any habit, you have to have a cue. 593 00:32:29,615 --> 00:32:32,849 You have to have something that's going to tell people oh, 594 00:32:32,950 --> 00:32:36,461 now's the time for me to do that thing, that thing that is this 595 00:32:36,522 --> 00:32:36,984 new habit. 596 00:32:36,984 --> 00:32:38,340 So you need something. 597 00:32:38,340 --> 00:32:41,175 You have to tie it to something that already is a part of their 598 00:32:41,175 --> 00:32:43,915 life, something that they're already doing every day, you 599 00:32:43,935 --> 00:32:44,517 know like. 600 00:32:44,517 --> 00:32:50,433 You know, if you want to, you know, start meditating, try 601 00:32:50,474 --> 00:32:51,659 meditating while you brush your teeth. 602 00:32:51,659 --> 00:32:52,999 You're going to be doing it anyway. 603 00:32:52,999 --> 00:32:54,660 It's a cue, right. 604 00:32:54,660 --> 00:32:56,317 So it's. 605 00:32:56,317 --> 00:33:00,817 Having the cue is the first thing, and then the next thing 606 00:33:01,238 --> 00:33:08,129 is make it as easy and small as possible and tie it to a reward. 607 00:33:09,295 --> 00:33:13,904 A lot of what we run up against when we're learning something 608 00:33:13,946 --> 00:33:16,137 new or building a new habit is overdoing it. 609 00:33:16,137 --> 00:33:19,586 You know and that's one of my key problems at the gym, you 610 00:33:19,625 --> 00:33:23,364 know, at the end I'm tired, I'm hurting, it sucks, I want to go 611 00:33:23,403 --> 00:33:25,819 home, it's. 612 00:33:25,819 --> 00:33:28,853 You know, it takes a lot to put your shoes on when you know 613 00:33:28,893 --> 00:33:31,963 you're going to go and work your body hard for an hour, hour and 614 00:33:31,963 --> 00:33:32,344 a half. 615 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:37,931 It's not so hard when you know you're going to go and you know 616 00:33:38,292 --> 00:33:41,075 walk for five minutes on treadmill and go home it. 617 00:33:41,075 --> 00:33:45,156 You know it's kind of a bit of a ways to drive to do that, but 618 00:33:45,176 --> 00:33:46,862 you know that's it's not a big deal. 619 00:33:47,415 --> 00:33:51,263 You have to make it so that the activation of using your product 620 00:33:51,263 --> 00:33:54,639 there, those first things, those first steps they have to 621 00:33:54,679 --> 00:33:59,415 do, are really easy and simple to do, so that they get an 622 00:33:59,555 --> 00:34:03,004 immediate win which will tie it to dopamine. 623 00:34:03,004 --> 00:34:07,202 And dopamine is sort of like a reward chemical that gets 624 00:34:07,263 --> 00:34:08,125 released in your brain. 625 00:34:08,125 --> 00:34:12,586 Our phones are very much designed to release dopamine. 626 00:34:12,586 --> 00:34:15,856 Same with like the notifications to let you know 627 00:34:15,916 --> 00:34:18,423 that like, oh, someone thinks I'm interesting, someone wants 628 00:34:18,503 --> 00:34:18,704 me. 629 00:34:18,704 --> 00:34:20,840 You know there's possibility here. 630 00:34:20,840 --> 00:34:22,860 People are approving of what I said. 631 00:34:22,860 --> 00:34:24,922 All of that ties into dopamine. 632 00:34:24,922 --> 00:34:27,581 So dopamine is just like a little win. 633 00:34:27,581 --> 00:34:31,344 You get dopamine with a little win and that can be like a burst 634 00:34:31,344 --> 00:34:34,460 of confetti on the screen being like yes, you've done step one, 635 00:34:34,460 --> 00:34:39,096 you've signed in, you're fantastic Doing something like 636 00:34:39,136 --> 00:34:44,552 that where they get a little reward, they get celebrated for 637 00:34:44,933 --> 00:34:49,846 doing something relatively mundane, makes your product more 638 00:34:49,846 --> 00:34:50,528 addictive. 639 00:34:51,210 --> 00:34:55,583 Because we don't get a whole lot of gold stars for what we do in 640 00:34:55,583 --> 00:34:58,482 life, right, we all have too much to do and we're not getting 641 00:34:58,482 --> 00:35:02,617 the validation and the appreciation that we want most 642 00:35:02,637 --> 00:35:03,059 of the time. 643 00:35:03,059 --> 00:35:06,882 So if your product is something that gives them validation for 644 00:35:07,002 --> 00:35:11,721 doing something doable for them, that's going to be very 645 00:35:11,761 --> 00:35:12,223 appealing. 646 00:35:12,223 --> 00:35:15,580 So you're going to build on those over time. 647 00:35:15,580 --> 00:35:18,956 You know it doesn't have to take forever, but just make sure 648 00:35:18,956 --> 00:35:21,815 that it's small enough bites that it feels easy and there's 649 00:35:21,875 --> 00:35:26,565 some sort of acknowledgement that they've taken the next step 650 00:35:26,565 --> 00:35:26,565 . 651 00:35:26,565 --> 00:35:30,942 You know like a little smiley face that comes on a checkbox on 652 00:35:30,942 --> 00:35:32,666 a to-do list they get to check off. 653 00:35:32,666 --> 00:35:36,281 You know, on one side of the screen, people like checking 654 00:35:36,521 --> 00:35:37,644 things off a to-do list. 655 00:35:37,644 --> 00:35:38,646 It's satisfying. 656 00:35:38,646 --> 00:35:42,682 So give them those wins, acknowledge their progress. 657 00:35:42,682 --> 00:35:48,462 And I've done this at, you know , I don't know how many 658 00:35:48,522 --> 00:35:54,242 companies now five, six and it has increased adoption massively 659 00:35:54,242 --> 00:35:58,501 , like before where we were just going from, you know, 660 00:35:58,781 --> 00:36:00,424 onboarding to QBRs. 661 00:36:00,424 --> 00:36:04,719 I often saw, you know, like 80% retention. 662 00:36:04,719 --> 00:36:09,297 You know, maybe 75% retention and when I would implement this 663 00:36:09,759 --> 00:36:12,585 it would go up to 90% retention. 664 00:36:12,585 --> 00:36:15,839 95% retention, right, and upsells would go up too. 665 00:36:15,839 --> 00:36:21,543 So another way to look at it and to see how this sort of tiny 666 00:36:21,543 --> 00:36:26,217 , tiny habit or atomic habit type of thing builds up. 667 00:36:26,659 --> 00:36:31,214 Going back to the fitness model of it, I got in the best shape 668 00:36:31,315 --> 00:36:34,023 of my life by doing one set up a day. 669 00:36:34,023 --> 00:36:39,605 No, I didn't do one set up a day forever, but I made that my 670 00:36:39,666 --> 00:36:39,946 goal. 671 00:36:39,946 --> 00:36:42,502 All right, set up crunch, whatever you want to call it. 672 00:36:42,502 --> 00:36:48,466 I made it my goal that if I did one set up a day, I win at my 673 00:36:48,507 --> 00:36:49,107 fitness goals. 674 00:36:49,107 --> 00:36:52,821 That is all I have to do to mark it off on my list and say I 675 00:36:52,821 --> 00:36:53,163 did it. 676 00:36:53,163 --> 00:36:54,565 Now, why? 677 00:36:54,565 --> 00:36:55,447 Why one set up? 678 00:36:55,447 --> 00:37:01,885 Well, because on my worst day, like if I have the flu, if 679 00:37:02,065 --> 00:37:05,079 someone breaks up with me, you know, am I going to want to do 680 00:37:05,119 --> 00:37:05,159 it? 681 00:37:05,159 --> 00:37:08,862 No, but I still can, and I did. 682 00:37:09,474 --> 00:37:13,043 And the funny thing is, when I had gotten on the floor already 683 00:37:13,444 --> 00:37:16,181 to do my one set up, most of the time when I was there, I was 684 00:37:16,201 --> 00:37:18,538 like, well, I'm here already, I might as well, you know, do a 685 00:37:18,637 --> 00:37:20,382 set or a couple, you know. 686 00:37:20,382 --> 00:37:25,158 So I do 10, 20, whatever, and then, over time, I was like what 687 00:37:25,158 --> 00:37:28,496 if I did a push up, since I'm already on the floor, you know? 688 00:37:28,496 --> 00:37:32,056 And then it became set up some push ups and then, all right, 689 00:37:32,197 --> 00:37:35,446 well, how about when I get up, I do some squats. 690 00:37:35,446 --> 00:37:38,822 And before I knew it I was doing, you know, like a 30, 40 691 00:37:38,862 --> 00:37:42,177 minute routine that built up over the course of a year. 692 00:37:42,177 --> 00:37:46,167 You know, even if you just did, you know, one set up, one 693 00:37:46,214 --> 00:37:51,355 crunch, one push up, and you upped that by one a week by the 694 00:37:51,475 --> 00:37:55,103 end of the year, you still have a really solid, kind of long, 695 00:37:55,864 --> 00:38:00,420 probably, routine that feels like nothing, that felt like no 696 00:38:00,579 --> 00:38:04,228 effort to add each week because you're adding one right. 697 00:38:04,795 --> 00:38:07,567 So, whether it's the activation energy of just getting started 698 00:38:07,606 --> 00:38:11,562 with something or just starting with the tiniest bite and being 699 00:38:11,603 --> 00:38:15,135 able to say that's when I did that, I got it, I don't have to 700 00:38:15,175 --> 00:38:19,857 do anymore to make it a win for the day, that was a hell of a 701 00:38:19,897 --> 00:38:24,545 lot more effective and a lot less expensive than going to the 702 00:38:24,545 --> 00:38:25,487 gym for me. 703 00:38:25,487 --> 00:38:31,001 So, look, there will be resistance to this, because it 704 00:38:31,061 --> 00:38:35,989 is more work than just onboard, plus QBR, plus a renewal 705 00:38:36,028 --> 00:38:39,963 conversation, but it's also a lot more effective. 706 00:38:39,963 --> 00:38:43,324 So do the same thing for yourself. 707 00:38:43,324 --> 00:38:48,906 Take this step by step, bite by bite, and reward yourself. 708 00:38:48,906 --> 00:38:54,464 You don't have to do this entire mapping out of every 709 00:38:54,504 --> 00:38:56,969 single step that everybody needs all at once. 710 00:38:56,969 --> 00:39:01,679 Just pick one stage, pick onboarding what's the very first 711 00:39:01,679 --> 00:39:02,501 thing they need to do. 712 00:39:02,501 --> 00:39:05,221 You know what's the very first thing we need to do. 713 00:39:05,221 --> 00:39:08,123 Just do that in an hour. 714 00:39:08,755 --> 00:39:15,145 You know I'm constantly telling the people that I coach, whether 715 00:39:15,145 --> 00:39:19,820 it's in one-on-one or in CS Leadership Academy just take one 716 00:39:19,820 --> 00:39:25,562 hour a day to work on strategic work like this and that's all 717 00:39:25,603 --> 00:39:25,943 you need. 718 00:39:25,943 --> 00:39:28,281 Need to be working on this eight hours a day? 719 00:39:28,281 --> 00:39:29,043 You can't be. 720 00:39:29,043 --> 00:39:31,860 You probably feel like you don't have any time to work on 721 00:39:31,900 --> 00:39:34,666 this, even if it's a half an hour a day. 722 00:39:34,666 --> 00:39:39,228 Just small bites, and pat yourself on the back when you do 723 00:39:39,228 --> 00:39:41,234 it or check something off on a list. 724 00:39:41,234 --> 00:39:45,926 Just small bites plus rewards is what gets it done. 725 00:39:46,975 --> 00:39:51,702 Now, if you want to actually have time to do this, you are 726 00:39:51,762 --> 00:39:56,148 going to have to stop saying yes to every little bit of work 727 00:39:56,188 --> 00:39:56,889 that comes your way. 728 00:39:56,889 --> 00:40:00,605 You can't keep on taking on unnecessary work. 729 00:40:00,605 --> 00:40:05,005 Now you may be thinking I don't take on unnecessary work. 730 00:40:05,005 --> 00:40:06,840 Every bit of my work is very necessary. 731 00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:07,635 Thank you very much. 732 00:40:07,635 --> 00:40:09,623 That's fine. 733 00:40:10,315 --> 00:40:13,860 Tune in next time and you know, see if you still agree with that 734 00:40:13,860 --> 00:40:18,428 on the next episode of Psychology of Customer Success, 735 00:40:18,548 --> 00:40:21,702 called it's Just Easier If I Do it. 736 00:40:21,702 --> 00:40:23,899 Never thought that before. 737 00:40:23,899 --> 00:40:27,182 Right, I'm certainly guilty of it anyway. 738 00:40:27,182 --> 00:40:33,686 So if you liked this, please go to Apple, rate it five stars, 739 00:40:33,846 --> 00:40:34,908 give a little review there. 740 00:40:34,908 --> 00:40:37,574 Even if it's just, you know, one or two words, that would 741 00:40:37,594 --> 00:40:38,094 mean the world to me. 742 00:40:38,980 --> 00:40:41,234 I know all these podcasts ask you to do that. 743 00:40:41,234 --> 00:40:42,002 There's a reason. 744 00:40:42,002 --> 00:40:46,181 It makes a huge difference and I need to know if you want me to 745 00:40:46,181 --> 00:40:48,866 keep doing this, because it's a lot of work. 746 00:40:48,866 --> 00:40:51,143 I'm really excited about it. 747 00:40:51,143 --> 00:40:54,234 I want to do it, but you know I need my little hit of dopamine. 748 00:40:54,234 --> 00:40:57,739 So if you enjoyed this, if you want me to keep doing it, you 749 00:40:57,779 --> 00:40:58,240 want more? 750 00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:04,916 Go click that five stars, say a word or two, you know, and and 751 00:41:04,956 --> 00:41:07,164 let me know what your thoughts were, how you liked it. 752 00:41:07,164 --> 00:41:08,860 I hope this was helpful. 753 00:41:08,860 --> 00:41:10,016 You know. 754 00:41:10,016 --> 00:41:13,906 Tune in next time for Psychology of Customer Success. 755 00:41:13,906 --> 00:41:17,329 Take care of yourself, get some rest and make sure to share 756 00:41:17,350 --> 00:41:17,993 this with your CS. 757 00:41:17,993 --> 00:41:21,561 Bestie, I'll see you next time and here's to your success.

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