When the Mask Drops: Why Leadership’s Strongest Often Suffer in Silence with Nicole DuBois

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Send us Fan Mail What happens when the one holding it all together starts to fall apart? In this powerful episode, we’re joined by Nicole DuBois—HR exec, mom, author, and walking proof that vulnerability is leadership. Nicole takes us behind the scenes of her journey: managing a chronic illness, surviving divorce, raising a child, and leading a people function—all while hiding behind a mask. We talk about why HR is often the least psychologically safe team in the org, how culture and identity shape what we’re allowed to show at work, and what happens when a leader finally says: “This is me.” Whether you’re burnt out, breaking down, or just tired of pretending, this episode will hit deep. The cost of masking in senior leadership Nicole’s journey from pseudonym to public truth Chronic illness, identity, and workplace culture Co-creation, compassion, and redefining strength