Your Next Clear Move · 2026-06-19 · 9 min
Being great at your job can actually hold you back once you become the leader. I learned that the hard part of leadership is rarely the work itself. It’s the people side: different personalities, different priorities, different communication styles, and the uncomfortable truth that what seems obvious to me may not be obvious to someone else. I tell a story from early in my career managing a large project on a ranch, where two capable leaders could not have been more different. One tested limits and stirred things up, the other led with grounded, values-first calm. Both cared deeply about the work, yet their differences felt like a “problem” until I realised I was expecting them to operate like me. That insight reshaped how I think about leadership development, emotional intelligence, and the real job of a manager: translating across perspectives so the team can move together. We also unpack a common trap for high-performing new leaders: becoming the bottleneck. When we jump in to solve, answer, and rescue, we accidentally train our teams to depend on us. It feels efficient at first, then it becomes exhausting, and it keeps others from growing.
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