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Middle Management Meltdown: Are They Breaking?

The Digital Transformation Playbook · 2026-07-01 · 39 min

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Key moments - from our scoring

Substance score

34 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density8 / 20
Originality7 / 20
Guest Caliber6 / 20
Specificity & Evidence5 / 20
Conversational Craft8 / 20

Middle managers face mounting pressure to lead, communicate, manage performance, and develop their teams - yet most were never actually taught how to do any of these things. This episode challenges the assumption that experienced hires should already possess foundational leadership skills like giving feedback, running effective meetings, and having difficult conversations. Kieran Gilmurray and Laura explore why organizations promote people into management roles without equipping them with essentials, then blame them for performance gaps. They discuss the core definition of a manager (getting work done through others while developing people), the mismatch between expectations and training, and why 'soft skills' training via off-the-shelf programs fails when not measured or embedded into daily practice. The conversation also touches on decision-making, time management (McKinsey data shows managers spend 35-40% on non-people tasks), and how clarity - not just communication - drives engagement. B2B operators managing middle management initiatives, L&D leaders building manager competencies, and executives wondering why their leadership bench isn't performing will find specific, actionable diagnosis here.

Key takeaways

  • →Most middle managers were never formally trained in critical skills like giving feedback, having difficult conversations, or managing their time effectively, yet organizations expect these capabilities innately.
  • →Middle managers spend 35-40% of their time on non-people related tasks like meetings, reporting, and admin, leaving little capacity for the coaching and development work that now drives performance and retention.
  • →Communication training often fails because the real problem is lack of clarity on priorities, decisions, and expectations - more communication without better thinking just produces polite conversations without clarity.
  • →Organizations need to embed skill development into day-to-day practices through bite-sized, on-the-job training rather than off-the-shelf programs where people attend once and tick a box.
  • →Managers must take personal responsibility for constructing their working week around what adds value rather than relying on HR oversight, shifting from activity-based to outcome-based work.

In this episode

  1. 1The Crisis of Overworked Middle Managers
  2. 2Fundamental Skills Gap in Leadership
  3. 3Defining the Modern Manager's Role
  4. 4Critical Skills for 2026: Coaching and Difficult Conversations
  5. 5Breaking the Parent-Child Dynamic of Training and Assessment
  6. 6Clarity Over Communication: The Real Problem

Mentioned

Kieran GilmurrayDeloitteMcKinseyWorld Economic ForumElon Musk

Guests

Laura

Topics in this episode

decision-making frameworksdifficult conversationsMiddle manager burnoutPerformance management conversationsFeedback and coaching skillsTime management and prioritizationMcKinsey research on manager time allocationDeloitte research on managerial capabilitiesAI and communicationCore skills training programs

Questions this episode answers

Why do middle managers avoid having performance management conversations?

Most middle managers were never formally taught how to give feedback or conduct difficult conversations, so they lack the skills confidence to do it well - not because they don't care, but because the fundamentals were never built, even though organizations assume these capabilities are already present in hired or promoted leaders.

What percentage of time do middle managers spend on non-people-related tasks?

According to a McKinsey report cited in the episode, middle managers spend 35-40% of their time on non-people-related tasks like meetings, reporting, and administration, which prevents them from focusing on developing their teams and delivering value.

What's the difference between communication skills and clarity in management?

Communication training often focuses on tone, phrasing, and frameworks, but doesn't guarantee clarity; the real issue is often that priorities are unclear, decisions are vague, or expectations inconsistent. More communication alone doesn't fix poor thinking or decision-making.

Should organizations assess whether managers apply the leadership training they receive?

The episode debates this: one perspective argues managers should take responsibility for applying what they learn without HR checking on them (to avoid parent-child dynamics), while the other notes that communication, coaching, and difficult conversations are so underdeveloped that some measurement and embedded practice is necessary to drive real behavior change.

What core skills will managers need from 2026 onward?

Critical skills include coaching and people development (which directly affect performance, engagement, and retention), difficult conversation capability, decision-making, and the ability to stop non-value activities - shifting from activity-based schedules to outcome-focused work.

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

8 / 20

The episode contains a handful of usable observations - most notably the distinction between communication problems and clarity/thinking problems, and framing overload rather than capability as the core performance issue - but much of the 39 minutes is circular, repetitive, and padded with banter and vague calls to action. The insight-per-minute rate is low.

more communication doesn't necessarily necessarily fix for poor thinking
Overload is the real performance issue, not capability

Originality

7 / 20

There are a couple of fresher framings - 'if the role is broken, stop training it' and the 'strategic subtraction' concept - but the dominant narrative (managers are undertrained, soft skills need embedding, AI frees up time) is well-worn HR consulting orthodoxy with no genuinely contrarian or first-principles argument sustained throughout.

if the role is broken, stop training it. Stop sending your managers on courses instead of fixing the job you've designed
more communication doesn't necessarily necessarily fix for poor thinking

Guest Caliber

6 / 20

Laura is an anonymous L&D/HR consultant whose primary credential in the transcript is running workshops and working with 'a really great group of middle managers.' There is no indication of operating at scale, holding a senior line role, or building and managing large organisations; this feels like two consultants talking to each other.

I was working recently with a really, really great group of middle managers. They were super capable, really bright, really experienced
I come from the background where we had the soft skills, we had the core skills

Specificity & Evidence

5 / 20

Evidence is almost entirely absent: one vaguely attributed McKinsey statistic, a passing Deloitte reference with no detail, and an unsourced '34% of us are emotionally intelligent' claim. No named companies, no dollar figures, no timelines, and anecdotes are deliberately kept anonymous and generic.

the McKinsey report that was released there recently shows that they spend up to, I think it was about 35 to 40 percent of their time on non-people related tasks
34% of us are emotionally intelligent

Conversational Craft

8 / 20

Kieran does attempt genuine pushback - challenging whether adults need to be taught to talk and pressing on who actually implements the proposed solutions - but his questions are frequently long, multi-part monologues that let Laura off the hook, and the episode contains considerable mutual agreement, jokes, and unresolved circularity where strong follow-ups were warranted.

Really? You're telling me that I need to teach a manager to talk.
So who's gonna do that though? Because at worst here, Laura, I'm hearing I need a tick box that says this is what a good meeting looks like

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.

Most-used words

skills40managers27coaching25kieran23speaker20training20gilmurray19manager18back17communication16capability14feedback13organizations12teach12technology12role11

Episode notes

Middle managers get blamed for everything, yet we keep setting them up to fail. Kieran Gilmurray and Laura Lawless promote smart, capable people into leadership roles, then pile on performance management, feedback, meetings, reporting, and “just one more responsibility” without ever teaching the fundamentals or redesigning the job. No wonder even experienced managers admit they avoid the hard conversations until they absolutely have to.

Full transcript

39 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

1 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Last time we talked, we talked about retiring 2 - > the term HR. 3 - > This time we're going to talk about middle managers. 4 - > Now, maybe there's the initial challenge if we're expecting 5 - > middle managers to be here. 6 - > We may be slightly mistaken.

7 - > Only on the basis that we seem to be putting a tremendous 8 - > amount of pressure on is it underprepared, undercooked, 9 - > overcooked, overworked middle managers? 10 - > Where are that group sitting today, Laura? 11 - > SPEAKER_00: And I think that's that's the key word for me, 12 - > Kieran, is the overworked or certainly the perception or 13 - > feeling of being overworked. 14 - > And we have continued, you know, this isn't a new phenomenon.

15 - > We continue to expect people to lead, communicate, prioritize, 16 - > you know, manage performance, give feedback. 17 - > But the reality continues to be is that most people were never 18 - > actually taught how to do any of these things. 19 - > And we surprisingly have a we never taught people how to work 20 - > properly problem. 21 - > You know, I was working recently with a really, really great 22 - > group of middle managers.

23 - > They were super capable, really bright, really experienced, 24 - > technically really, really strong in their area. 25 - > And we got into a conversation about performance management, 26 - > which, as we all know, and certainly from my own 27 - > experience, as soon as the term performance management is so 28 - > much as referenced, people have the ick. 29 - > The back is up, people don't want to know about it. 30 - > But we don't we weren't talking about the system, we were 31 - > talking about the actual conversations, and people tend 32 - > to get kind of hooked up on the systems, and that's what they 33 - > focus on.

34 - > But in talking about the conversations, one of these 35 - > middle managers said really openly, I avoid these 36 - > conversations unless I really absolutely have to. 37 - > And it's not because they didn't care or because they weren't 38 - > capable, but nobody had really shown them how to do it really, 39 - > really well. 40 - > And when we dug into it, it wasn't just performance 41 - > conversations, it was prioritizing, giving feedback, 42 - > running meetings, all the things that actually make work work.

43 - > And Kieran, you and I have spoken about this before, where 44 - > you know, we're certainly in the the my clients that that often 45 - > it can feel for me that that it's very basic, the kind of 46 - > skills and the kind of information that we share with 47 - > people, and they lap it up. 48 - > They want to know more about it. 49 - > And and it does come down to that because those things that 50 - > make work work, we haven't been teaching people how to do. 51 - > And it really struck me, you know, we promote people, we 52 - > expect a huge amount from them, but we rarely stop and say, Have 53 - > we equipped them with the fundamentals to do that really 54 - > well?

55 - > And it is that word, fundamentals, and often we can 56 - > perceive that as I suppose the dirty part of work, right? 57 - > It's not that people aren't capable, but it's we're 58 - > expecting a capability from them that was never built. 59 - > So when we talk about performance issues, engagement, 60 - > or even you know, leadership gaps, it is the question what's 61 - > wrong with people, or is it what have we never actually taught 62 - > them? 63 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Have we hired the wrong people?

64 - > Like dig go back a little bit here because again, I worry that 65 - > we're now having to uh mother or parent or father or they uh a 66 - > group of highly paid adults who should know these things or 67 - > should they? 68 - > SPEAKER_00: Well, organizations don't teach these skills for 69 - > that assumption, they assume adults already have those 70 - > skills. 71 - > You know, so you're experienced, you've been promoted, you've 72 - > been hired based off uh you know an amazing job description, uh 73 - > an amazing capability framework or core skills.

74 - > You should know how to do this. 75 - > But the reality is that most people were never taught how to 76 - > give feedback, they were never taught how to have difficult 77 - > conversations, how to manage time reactively, and that can 78 - > confuse activity with effectiveness. 79 - > So we promote people into leadership roles and expect 80 - > capabilities that were never really developed. 81 - > You know, so should they be developed, or are we hiring 82 - > people on the assumption that that skill set is there without 83 - > actually measuring or checking that it is?

84 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Well, we we've jumped in. 85 - > So let's step back a little bit. 86 - > What should what is a manager? 87 - > If uh God forbid we have to go back to the very fundamentals, 88 - > but what is a manager?

89 - > What do we expect them to do? 90 - > Because this middle management group have had a kicking for 91 - > years, you know, the the the best thing ever, because we got 92 - > the board and then we got the front line and we need someone 93 - > to interpret it the worst thing ever because they're getting in 94 - > the way of of the instruction and the actual real work. 95 - > So draw back a little bit. 96 - > What is a middle manager?

97 - > What are we saying they're doing? 98 - > And then what are we saying the skills they need are in 2026 to 99 - > 2020 thirty? 100 - > Because I'll I'll talk about World Economic Forum and what I 101 - > think they need, but let's draw back a little bit before we kick 102 - > them any further. 103 - > SPEAKER_00: Okay, well, I think you know, in a very, very simple 104 - > version, when we look at what a manager is and defining what it 105 - > is, a manager is or should be someone responsible for getting 106 - > work done through other people.

107 - > Kieran Gilmurray: So are we just very people? 108 - > Are we well let's let's stay a little bit on that. 109 - > So it a manager today won't know all the things that their team 110 - > knows. 111 - > And therefore, when I take it from a digital and AI 112 - > perspective, I have leaders all the time who haven't got a clue 113 - > what the word vibe coding means, what a prompt is, and therefore, 114 - > if they're getting work done through their team, they're 115 - > telling them what they should be doing in 2023, not 2026.

116 - > And uh the second thing is the proposition that a manager is 117 - > there, you know, to mind a team, grow a team, develop a team, 118 - > coach a team, you know, remove obstacles, but not actually do 119 - > the work themselves. 120 - > Is that not something as well? 121 - > Because that's maybe the conflicting bit. 122 - > Because do I know what it means to be a manager?

123 - > In other words, what's expected of me? 124 - > Maybe that's not clear here at all. 125 - > SPEAKER_00: Yeah, but do I need to be told what that is and what 126 - > the expectations are, or should I innately know that? 127 - > And I think that's the argument that that we we are having and 128 - > that we need to be having because the assumptions are 129 - > being made without those questions being asked.

130 - > And we know that, like if we look at research from Deloitte, 131 - > you know, we could you mentioned coaching, coaching and 132 - > developing people is now one of the most critical capabilities 133 - > of managers. 134 - > It really affects performance, it directly affects indeed 135 - > performance, engagement, and retention. 136 - > So managers are not no longer judged by just what they 137 - > deliver, but it's how well their people perform and grow. 138 - > So to your point there, that's that is part of the expectation 139 - > or the the new or current definition of what a manager is.

140 - > But are we telling people? 141 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Well, go back to what you're saying there, 142 - > because I've seen, and maybe this is slightly biased 143 - > experience, because I adore coaching, I'm a qualified 144 - > executive coach, I made sure I was. 145 - > Uh, when the rubber hits the road, it's can you please stop 146 - > coaching and just get more output? 147 - > You know, I I see a lot of that.

148 - > And and we're talking about soft skills here, or what was 149 - > traditionally called soft skills. 150 - > Are we talking about still needing soft skills? 151 - > Are we talking about operational skills? 152 - > What are what are the skills that we think managers need 153 - > today to allow them and their teams to be successful?

154 - > And ultimately the organization. 155 - > SPEAKER_00: Well, I think we need to reframe how we define 156 - > those skills because historically we've always 157 - > referred to those types of skills as soft skills or core 158 - > skills. 159 - > And they've become, in a lot of particularly bigger 160 - > organizations, what we would describe as like off-the-shelf 161 - > training programs where, you know, aligned to a core skills 162 - > program, we have you know communication skills and 163 - > delegating skills, and and I select to attend one of those, I 164 - > tick that box, and that's great.

165 - > I now have that skill, but we're not actually measuring any of 166 - > those skills. 167 - > So, in terms of the bigger picture and what matters to the 168 - > organization, if we can't track those skills or we can't measure 169 - > those skills, are they really important? 170 - > So I think moving forward when we're looking from you know 2026 171 - > and beyond, you know, the coaching piece and people 172 - > development, that's one of the critical skills that we will 173 - > need.

174 - > The also basic skills around communication and difficult 175 - > conversations. 176 - > Difficult conversations are one of the biggest gaps, and they've 177 - > been identified as one of the biggest gaps for managers. 178 - > And if we're looking at, say, that that concept that you 179 - > mentioned at the start, the dirty world of work, you know, 180 - > the most basic leadership skill of all is conversation, and it's 181 - > still the least developed. 182 - > So that is a skill that we will require going into 2026 and 183 - > beyond, but it's a skill that we need to think about how we are 184 - > turning the dial on that skill.

185 - > So instead of having those off-the-shelf training programs, 186 - > we look, we need to look at how we can embed that skill 187 - > development into our day-to-day practices. 188 - > And you know, we know that people say attention span has 189 - > reduced significantly. 190 - > So, what are we doing to amend our interventions in order to 191 - > get the most bang for our book? 192 - > You know, and a lot of organizations are turning to 193 - > bite-sized modules, whereby you're looking at on-the-job 194 - > training for 60 to 90 minutes or online bite-sized pieces of 195 - > training that people can digest at a time that suits them.

196 - > The other areas that we look at are the likes of decision 197 - > making. 198 - > And, you know, we know that our middle managers are they've been 199 - > getting it kicking for years. 200 - > They are drowning in meetings and reporting and admin. 201 - > You know, the McKinsey report that was released there recently 202 - > shows that they spend up to, I think it was about 35 to 40 203 - > percent of their time on non-people related tasks.

204 - > So it's not just like basic time management, it's deciding what 205 - > actually matters and stopping the rest and having the scope or 206 - > the being given the permission almost to stop doing that the 207 - > rest and focus on what actually matters. 208 - > And it's something that that goes on. 209 - > Kieran Gilmurray: So let me challenge you. 210 - > And again, that's my role in this.

211 - > I know, I know. 212 - > That's my role in this protocol. 213 - > You bring the brains every challenges and the offerness. 214 - > SPEAKER_00: I don't know if we've got this balance right 215 - > yet, Kieran.

216 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Yeah, we have. 217 - > So we mentioned a moment ago, we need to teach people 218 - > communication skills. 219 - > Really? 220 - > You're you're telling me that I need to teach a manager to talk.

221 - > And the second one was we then need to assess it. 222 - > What why the hell am I assessing this at all? 223 - > I've given you the training, go and do the training. 224 - > If I have to tell you and check in that you're doing the 225 - > training, it becomes very parent child.

226 - > You know, whereas if I put the right individual in the first 227 - > place who uh I hope can communicate effectively in some 228 - > shape, form, or other, I give them guidance and training. 229 - > They should do it themselves without me having to check. 230 - > And ultimately, you know, you control whether you're in the 231 - > meetings or not. 232 - > Elon Musk says if you're not adding value, just walk out.

233 - > Then surely we need to take a lot more responsibility here for 234 - > actually taking what we've learned and putting it into 235 - > shape without HR having to go back and check that we've 236 - > actually done it, because that that now becomes parent-child. 237 - > The second thing is it's up to you to construct your own 238 - > working week to make sure that you're actually delivering 239 - > things that add value, not putting yourself into meetings 240 - > and other routines that fill the week and feel comfortable 241 - > because that's called activity, it's not called you know 242 - > directed action or outcome-based.

243 - > SPEAKER_00: Uh, I love how you frame that. 244 - > Despite your challenging uh position, I I I love how you 245 - > frame that because you used, and I don't know if you noticed, you 246 - > used the word should pretty regularly. 247 - > Kieran Gilmurray: I don't even listen to me, so I'm not 248 - > expecting anybody else to, so don't worry. 249 - > SPEAKER_00: Okay, uh my my uh antenna went up for the word 250 - > should because you you did refer to that quite a lot.

251 - > And yes, absolutely, they should be taught communication because 252 - > we know that it underpins performance, collaboration, 253 - > trust, all that great stuff that we need to have. 254 - > But yet the research still tells us that it's one of the top 255 - > drivers of disengagements. 256 - > So we know that managers who communicate will drive higher 257 - > performance and retention. 258 - > So if this you know, the standard answer is always going 259 - > to be of course we need communication skills.

260 - > Everything runs through conversation. 261 - > We know that, but maybe the problem isn't communication, it 262 - > could be the clarity because you'll often hear things like, 263 - > oh, we need better communication. 264 - > But what we actually mean is maybe priorities are unclear, 265 - > decisions are vague, you know, expectations are inconsistent or 266 - > haven't actually been made clear. 267 - > So people communicate more, great, but nothing really 268 - > improves.

269 - > So more communication doesn't necessarily necessarily fix for 270 - > poor thinking. 271 - > So a lot of training focuses on, you know, and I've delivered 272 - > training on this myself around tone, phrasing, and you know, 273 - > frameworks, more frameworks and more models, but avoids maybe 274 - > saying the hard thing or being direct or making clear 275 - > decisions. 276 - > So we ultimately end up with polite conversations and a lack 277 - > of clarity. 278 - > And, you know, it can be sometimes a courage gap.

279 - > People don't have the courage to speak up. 280 - > They should have, but they don't, you know, and that I 281 - > think is probably where AI is also, and I know we weren't 282 - > going to maybe mention that, but AI is changing what good 283 - > communication looks like as well, because AI can now, and we 284 - > we've all been on the receiving end, or we've all been on the 285 - > attempted drafting. 286 - > I love when you talk AI because you lose me completely, but 287 - > we've all attempted to use AI to draft emails or to structure 288 - > feedback and suggest wording, you know, and the value might 289 - > shift to how well you can write or phrase to how clearly you can 290 - > think.

291 - > And then the judgment piece that we mentioned last week, that 292 - > then comes into play. 293 - > So do we need communication skills? 294 - > Yes, but not in the way we've traditionally taught them. 295 - > It's not more polished, it's clearer thinking, okay, and 296 - > better judgment.

297 - > Kieran Gilmurray: In defense of the AI club, uh, everybody 298 - > notices really poor communication when it comes to 299 - > AI. 300 - > Funny, they don't call it out with people. 301 - > And and uh, why I see some of that what you might call AI slop 302 - > communication, so just doing it wrong. 303 - > Because we have to remember, and this is a bit uh not in defense 304 - > of machines, because I adore people more than technology.

305 - > Uh, 34% of us are emotionally intelligent. 306 - > Notice I put me in that as well, just to get me in. 307 - > But I put all my content through my emails through through an 308 - > engine to make sure that I'm not upsetting anyone. 309 - > Uh, and therefore, you know, the the AI is the chance if we code 310 - > it right and prompt it right and build it right, that will 311 - > actually help all the things that you're actually describing, 312 - > you know, structure a message, make it simple, focus on the 313 - > audience and everything else.

314 - > You know, so again, it it's it's in there and helping. 315 - > But it is extraordinary that we're having to explain to 316 - > people how to communicate with each other. 317 - > And remember, now we're we're in a multi-generational workplace 318 - > as well. 319 - > Where you mentioned, you know, we need to verbally communicate 320 - > when actually we do and we don't.

321 - > I think that's where communication falls down, is 322 - > that we're taught a framework of how to communicate. 323 - > But actually, that we're becoming robots then. 324 - > We're becoming the AI in the human machine because we're 325 - > delivering it in a very standardized, formulaic way. 326 - > Whereas the generation that's coming through to work actually 327 - > don't talk to me.

328 - > And it's not that I'm not communicating, it's just my 329 - > communication style is different. 330 - > It's called texting and it's called whatever. 331 - > And it's different generations are going, why don't you just 332 - > talk to me? 333 - > And that generation's going, Why do we have to have a meeting?

334 - > Because I've told you everything you need to know in an in a 335 - > WhatsApp, in a in a text message. 336 - > So I I challenge us uh with frameworks for a start, and 337 - > that's why I worry. 338 - > You know, we go back to what we said last week. 339 - > Do we need to change HR?

340 - > What you're describing to me is that the fundamentals are still 341 - > the same. 342 - > We need to communicate, we need to organize people, we need to 343 - > manage people, we need to be, you know, we need, we need, we 344 - > need. 345 - > But somehow all of this is still not working. 346 - > So if I push you a little bit and say, look, what how do we 347 - > get what are the skills?

348 - > Because I hear about agility, flexibility, analytical 349 - > thinking, data, AI literacy. 350 - > I also think people should have basic financial literacy at a 351 - > level. 352 - > But you know, I also hear about systems thinkers and I hear 353 - > about self-awareness and I hear about incredible curiosity, all 354 - > these things that are going to help us survive. 355 - > You know, and all of a sudden I'm going, oh my God, even when 356 - > I'm saying that, I'm thinking that's a lot in one beastie.

357 - > And then you see a lot of organizations who, rather than 358 - > using technology to allow great people to achieve more with 359 - > more, more tech, more, more and better people, more and better 360 - > outcomes, we're still making all the same fundamental mistakes 361 - > that we've been making for years and we're still not moving 362 - > forward. 363 - > And now what you can do, by the way, this is the great one, is 364 - > now we're going to give you more autonomy.

365 - > You can now do your own HR, you can now do your own procurement, 366 - > you can now do your own finance, and you go, okay, so when I do 367 - > all that, at what stage of the day can I do the work that I was 368 - > actually employed to do? 369 - > Let's imagine this technology or something, and now I need 20 370 - > skills because the World Economic Forum have decided what 371 - > those look like, I'm exhausted. 372 - > So, so how are we going to help people that are listening into 373 - > this podcast go, oh my God, I I I feel this pain, and and 374 - > hopefully I'll listen to this on unless back because I'm too 375 - > busy.

376 - > So, what how do we actually train people and how do we 377 - > actually structure these roles or businesses to allow managers 378 - > to be really effective and to create organizations that work 379 - > for everyone, particularly when we're talking about the change 380 - > of pace, the change of agility that's required to meet uh 381 - > multi-generational needs internally inside of the 382 - > business, but make sure we're actually delivering a product or 383 - > service that someone wants to consume in a new and digital way 384 - > and communicate with them effectively to make sure the 385 - > whole machine works itself.

386 - > SPEAKER_00: Yeah, and it it's it's no challenge there, by the 387 - > way. 388 - > There's about there's about 20 questions there. 389 - > You've got three minutes. 390 - > Um well, I I I you know I I you know I love the generational 391 - > topic, and you know I love to discuss ad nauseum the the I 392 - > thought I'd give you the bone.

393 - > Kieran Gilmurray: I thought give me the bone. 394 - > SPEAKER_00: I'm not gonna go for it, I'm not gonna go for it. 395 - > I I I've got too much um bashing over talking about the younger 396 - > generation. 397 - > So all of those elements that you've just mentioned, I could 398 - > discuss ad nauseum.

399 - > And I think for coming from uh a training, a learning and 400 - > development background, you know, the issue isn't just that 401 - > we don't teach the skills, it's that I think currently looking 402 - > at it, it's we continue to teach treat them as training topics. 403 - > So we need better communication. 404 - > You need to go into communication skills. 405 - > We need better listening, you'll go into listening skills.

406 - > We're continuing to treat them as training topics. 407 - > So we haven't moved on for any generations in terms of moving 408 - > away from that training topic approach and looking at it from 409 - > a daily practice and separating them from, I suppose, real work 410 - > because we're not actually embedding them in how the work 411 - > actually happens. 412 - > So if, you know, I and I come from the background where we had 413 - > the soft skills, we had the core skills, I think we need to 414 - > reframe how we actually define that skill set that we aspire to 415 - > and those skills that we want to identify in the future 416 - > organization.

417 - > So, you know, more progressive organizations are reframing them 418 - > as operating skills, i.e., how work actually gets done. 419 - > So, what I would encourage listeners to do is to think 420 - > about what they're doing and defining standards for running 421 - > the dreaded meetings.

422 - > As basic as it sounds, it is looking at the standards for 423 - > running meetings, look at the standards for giving feedback, 424 - > and look at the standards for decision making and build them 425 - > into onboarding, build them into your promotion criteria, build 426 - > them into your leadership expectations and tell people 427 - > about it. 428 - > You know, define what good looks like for three of those things, 429 - > you know, a good meeting, a good feedback conversation, a good 430 - > one-to-one, making it visible and making it expected.

431 - > But again, it's it's the follow-through and it's the 432 - > embedding piece, Kieran, that's different to what organizations 433 - > have traditionally been doing, is that we we look for that 434 - > movement in what people are doing and we hold people 435 - > account. 436 - > You know, you you mentioned earlier that we're accountable 437 - > for our own, developing our own career. 438 - > There is still that expectation of my organization telling me 439 - > what to do and telling me what good looks like.

440 - > And maybe we need to meet people in the middle here and make it 441 - > visible, make it expected, but also hold people account. 442 - > You know, so replace training with you know practice loops or 443 - > habits. 444 - > You know, we're moving away from workshops, and I'm doing myself 445 - > out of work and saying this, but we need to move away from that 446 - > workshop one-off training sessions. 447 - > You know, often with clients that I work with, I will say 448 - > unless there's follow-through or unless there's actually impact 449 - > or value add here, I'm not going to engage in a tick-the-box 450 - > exercise.

451 - > We need to practice embedding into real work. 452 - > And what that actually looks like, you know, is weekly 453 - > practice. 454 - > Okay. 455 - > Give one piece of developmental feedback this week, run one 456 - > meeting using a structured agenda and reflect afterwards 457 - > what worked, what didn't work.

458 - > I know it sounds basic, I know it sounds a little bit boring, 459 - > but they are all practices that if we can embed them into our 460 - > day-to-day interactions, they become the more the norm. 461 - > They are the things that are gonna move that dial and have 462 - > that operational impact, not that one-off training workshop. 463 - > You'll case it. 464 - > Kieran Gilmurray: So who's gonna do that though?

465 - > Because at worst here, Laura, I'm hearing I need a tick box 466 - > that says this is what a good meeting looks like. 467 - > Then I'm gonna go into a room, then I'm gonna assess you 468 - > against those ticks to make sure you're doing it. 469 - > And I know that's not what you're suggesting. 470 - > So bring it to life for me because someone's gonna sit here 471 - > and go, okay, I I love that feedback.

472 - > Because I love feedback, mentorship, uh, coaching. 473 - > I absolutely adore it. 474 - > Others are more defensive, you know, and that could be just 475 - > personal history, it could be the environment they're in. 476 - > But bring it to life.

477 - > I I'm now turning our HR people into executive coaches who are 478 - > going to sit with me and and then feedback at the end of 479 - > every meeting, is that what we're saying? 480 - > SPEAKER_00: I think in a real world, that that's that's not 481 - > necessarily practical, you know, but it's looking at moving. 482 - > It's not saying HR is the process owner, it's saying HR is 483 - > the capability builder. 484 - > So if you think of HR as having that coaching mindset, but it's 485 - > not to, I suppose the key is making it real, and that's what 486 - > you're supposed to alluding to there.

487 - > But we're looking at a mindset, mindset shift. 488 - > So we're advised. 489 - > Peep-on-people issues, we're moving from that to coaching 490 - > leaders through them. 491 - > So it's providing leaders with executive coaching opportunities 492 - > and changing how HR shows up in conversation.

493 - > So instead of us giving them the answers, drafting the responses, 494 - > fixing the issues, you know, providing them with that 495 - > tick-the-box exercise, you know, we want to move from towards 496 - > what outcomes are you trying to achieve? 497 - > What conversations have you had so far? 498 - > What's stopping you from addressing it directly? 499 - > You know, one thing I've seen organizations do, which I think 500 - > works really well, is having people champions within the 501 - > business.

502 - > So instead of having your HRBP or your HR exec coach, you have 503 - > people champions within the business that are provided with 504 - > that support, guidance, and coaching that can then live that 505 - > in the business, show the business what good looks like 506 - > and ask those more challenging questions. 507 - > You know, giving a very simple coaching flow to them that 508 - > wouldn't be like training heavy, you know. 509 - > But if we think of like, and you've probably heard the phrase 510 - > the coaching spine, where we're looking at clarifying the issue, 511 - > creating ownership and committing to action.

512 - > Allow your people champion to have responsibility for that 513 - > within the business and stop HR doing the work for leaders, 514 - > which we mentioned last week. 515 - > We're looking at how we can build that capability within the 516 - > business opposed to providing the solutions from HR. 517 - > But do we have time? 518 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Do we have time?

519 - > Because I I say this we've now got coaching champions, we've 520 - > now got data champions, we've now got risk and governance 521 - > champions, we've now got automation champions, we've now 522 - > got you know when am I getting to do my job? 523 - > I mean, that's and and by the way, folks, we want you to do 524 - > all this in addition to your role. 525 - > We're not carving out 20% so you can drive everyone else. 526 - > SPEAKER_00: Most organizations will continue to struggle with, 527 - > you know, fix it yourself.

528 - > It's it's just faster today. 529 - > Coaching or providing that kind of gentle guidance and input, it 530 - > is slower today, but it will be faster in the long term. 531 - > And the question then becomes are we prepared to slow down now 532 - > to build capability that reduces workload later? 533 - > And I think that's a question that organizations will have to 534 - > ask themselves where they prioritize building that 535 - > capability at that level to enable work to get done more 536 - > effectively down the road.

537 - > You know, and some HR teams don't have that time because 538 - > they haven't stopped doing the work that shouldn't sit with us 539 - > anymore, as we discussed last week. 540 - > You know, that the elements that can be moved out of the HR remit 541 - > and where you know we can add that value via the coaching 542 - > approach, you know, HR may need to step in more directly, but 543 - > coaching can still happen alongside alternative 544 - > interventions or even traditional interventions.

545 - > We don't have time not to coach, would be my line on it. 546 - > We just haven't made that shift. 547 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Yeah, but here we're going back to so now I'm 548 - > sure HR professionals listening into this and going, when am I 549 - > going to get to do coaching? 550 - > When am I going to get to create?

551 - > I think this is a fundamental problem with organizations 552 - > today. 553 - > Notice you and I haven't talked about any taking anything out. 554 - > Uh and I am a massive fan before we put anything more into 555 - > business to do something called strategic subtraction, which is 556 - > we celebrate when we add more in, more AI champions, more 557 - > business partners, more data champions, more, more, more. 558 - > And all we're doing is layering and layering and layering on to 559 - > an already exhausted workforce.

560 - > Whereas this is the bit where I am a huge proponent of 561 - > technology and the change management piece. 562 - > So I think we'd need to redefine HR's role from administrators to 563 - > if you're going to expect me to coach, okay, well, how are you 564 - > assessing me? 565 - > How do we assess our managers? 566 - > All that needs to come into play.

567 - > But I think you can use a lot of technology. 568 - > And this isn't me removing the people. 569 - > This is using brilliant technology to allow people to 570 - > achieve more. 571 - > So, for example, when I go into businesses, they all want the AI 572 - > strategy.

573 - > What I talk about is strategic subtraction about what is we're 574 - > going to take away. 575 - > How do we free up another seven hours a week? 576 - > And everybody goes, You're never going to get a seven hour. 577 - > I can get you an easy 10.

578 - > It's it's not a problem using technology. 579 - > So, for example, as I'm coaching someone, I can get AI in real 580 - > time or post-event to give me an indication of how well I coached 581 - > or didn't coach. 582 - > I don't even need to do the coaching. 583 - > Now, again, this is a very personal thing.

584 - > I'm not sending you put technology at it, but I can put 585 - > an agentic AI into your hand, and that agentic AI agent can 586 - > watch everything you're doing, can give you, you know, feedback 587 - > on every aspect of your role, and can provide that feedback as 588 - > much or as often as you want. 589 - > I can automate and digitize a whole load of roles to get those 590 - > seven hours a week. 591 - > I can teach you basic behavioral things, for example, how to 592 - > optimize your working week in your diary, when are your best 593 - > times and most productive times, how not to switch tasks and 594 - > whatever.

595 - > You know, so I'm a tremendous fan of doing that first before 596 - > we start adding in champions here, champions there, champions 597 - > the other. 598 - > But notice even by giving you the seven and a half, ten hours 599 - > back a week, not a problem, folks. 600 - > It then comes down to, you know, the culture of the organization. 601 - > Have we got a coaching culture?

602 - > You know, it then comes down to, well, how are we then going to 603 - > assess our HR colleagues? 604 - > How do we get our HR colleagues to learn how to coach and mentor 605 - > in the first place? 606 - > And then when it comes to, you know, when you're talking about 607 - > real life skills, well, coaching and mentorship is one thing, but 608 - > how do I teach client centricity? 609 - > How do I teach colleague centricity?

610 - > How do I uh teach problem solvers? 611 - > How do I teach people work ethic? 612 - > Because let's be honest, you need a strong work ethic. 613 - > And if you don't have it, I can't coach it into you.

614 - > You know, you either will or you won't. 615 - > How do I teach emotional intelligence? 616 - > How do I teach AI, data analytics, financial literacy? 617 - > You know, the the things I think the Swiss Army knife manager 618 - > that we're expecting to have in place today plus run faster than 619 - > ever before without taking something out means that I've 620 - > ran my engine oil out about 200 miles ago, kilometers, if you're 621 - > listening in from America, anywhere else, and now I want 622 - > you to do more.

623 - > So I I think we need a more fundamental rethink of HR. 624 - > I think we need a fundamental rethink of management and 625 - > structures. 626 - > I think we need a fundamental rethink of how we're judging 627 - > success. 628 - > Otherwise, we're tinkering at the edges still, regardless of 629 - > tech or whatever else.

630 - > We're still tinkering at the edge edges in an age where we're 631 - > demanding more. 632 - > And I don't mean the good more, which is achieve more with more 633 - > and better tech and more and better coaching and more and 634 - > better leadership. 635 - > So I still don't think we're actually solving anything for 636 - > anyone so far. 637 - > We've just said, here's more, folks.

638 - > SPEAKER_00: Well, I would challenge you on that because I 639 - > think when last week when we spoke about this and we talked 640 - > about the idea of the traditional versus the 641 - > future-focused HR, and we did land on the space of AI removing 642 - > admin, for example, from HR that we continue to do. 643 - > You know, that's certainly one space where AI is going to 644 - > enable HR and is already enabling HR to free up time to 645 - > focus on the value add, to focus on the coaching, to start 646 - > building capability and step back.

647 - > I do think that there is accountability here for HR 648 - > because we are still holding on to those elements, despite the 649 - > fact or the potential fact of AI removing those elements, we 650 - > still have an innate need to hold on to those things. 651 - > And we have a responsibility here to remove ourselves from 652 - > ownership. 653 - > And it's only HR that can remove that dependency. 654 - > And we're still fixing it, we're actually going to be that 655 - > bottleneck.

656 - > So I actually would disagree with you in that that the space 657 - > we have provided space for AI to take on, you know, writing 658 - > feedback, managing everyday people issues, being uh 659 - > exclamation points for everything. 660 - > We cannot keep doing all of that. 661 - > We need to start building the capability, but we need to 662 - > relinquish the control. 663 - > So we I think certainly a takeaway would be to question 664 - > your position and question are you holding on to those elements 665 - > that really we need to relinquish control of?

666 - > You know, we can use AI to generate responses, but it can't 667 - > replace judgment. 668 - > So use AI where it makes sense, but we need to stop spending 669 - > time on what I should do, summarize this policy. 670 - > You know, AI can give us the words, but we need the judgment. 671 - > So I would say to our listeners, is are you continuing to hold on 672 - > to elements of HR that is no longer a value added, is no 673 - > longer where you're building capability, and it is where AI 674 - > or generative AI, whatever, whatever support is suitable in 675 - > your position, can come in and take that away and free up your 676 - > time to do what makes the difference.

677 - > You know, we can continue to use AI to do the same thing and do 678 - > it faster, well done, but nothing is going to change. 679 - > If we can use AI to stop doing the wrong work altogether, 680 - > everything is going to change. 681 - > So I think that we are in a space where we need to educate 682 - > ourselves as a HR population as to where AI can free us up, not 683 - > where AI can keep doing the same work faster, because that is not 684 - > going to bring any change.

685 - > It's what can I suppose I I just really there's there we're 686 - > banging our heads against a brick wall in so many ways 687 - > because we know all of the things that we need to do, we 688 - > know all of the things that spaces that we should be 689 - > spending time on, and we will always revert to that. 690 - > I don't have time to do this, I don't have time to do that. 691 - > We do have time to do it if we can use tools like AI to remove 692 - > those functions that we should no longer be responsible for and 693 - > push responsibility back to the business for people leadership 694 - > and support them in building capability.

695 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Yeah, I think I think that comes down to the 696 - > fundamental piece, isn't it? 697 - > That and again, I I always sort of oscillate between this a 698 - > little bit. 699 - > Uh and let me explain what I mean. 700 - > I'm not a huge fan of making faster crap.

701 - > In other words, you just put in to do the same old stuff. 702 - > You've just done it a little bit faster. 703 - > You can get home at night earlier, do whatever. 704 - > In the over the long term.

705 - > Now, in the short term, you know, to redesign what you're 706 - > doing. 707 - > So let's be honest, this is all going to take a little bit of 708 - > time. 709 - > You know, I need to go away and learn how to coach and mentor. 710 - > I need to redesign our onboarding programs.

711 - > I need to spend time, you know, not 20 hours doing admin, but I 712 - > actually need to spend 20 hours working with management, my 713 - > leadership team, coaching and mentoring those, you know, all 714 - > the better. 715 - > And again, I should be using AI to record the calls, to write up 716 - > the notes, or more importantly, let the manager write up their 717 - > own notes, take their own commitments, because again, I'm 718 - > not doing that for you. 719 - > But but in the long term, we need to redesign how we actually 720 - > operate, you know, and I think that uh is not just uh HR, I 721 - > think it's finance.

722 - > Because I've heard the same thing coming from finance 723 - > professionals, which is look, we're gonna give you more power, 724 - > aka, we're gonna shrink our team because we're under pressure 725 - > centrally at the budget. 726 - > And I'm gonna say, yeah, we had 30 in finance, now we've only 727 - > got 15. 728 - > But what they've done is taken the 15 people's roles or work 729 - > and handed to a manager who now needs to do their own payment, 730 - > their own budget, all the things that they, you know, that is 731 - > traditionally with a finance team.

732 - > Now, I expect everybody to financial literacy when you're 733 - > at a at a management level, but over the long term, I want an 734 - > entire redesign of the operating system. 735 - > Because if we're expecting 2020 firms to deliver in 2026, then 736 - > it isn't just the technology, it isn't just the functions and 737 - > departments that operate within those companies, but we need 738 - > different ways of actually being constructed. 739 - > So for me, instead of your traditional HR business, which 740 - > typically for many is people services, HR business partner, 741 - > COE, you know, I do want to use tech and AI as one tech to help 742 - > people business problem solve, to make a business impact.

743 - > And then that means fundamental reshaping roles like service 744 - > managers, uh, problem solvers, product managers, uh, as the 745 - > role of HR, because that's the series we're talking about at 746 - > the moment, to allow the business to have the greatest 747 - > impact, to free those individuals to have the biggest 748 - > impact, to allow the organization to work in a way 749 - > that it really needs to come into 2026 and 2027. 750 - > And if we don't start to take action now, all of a sudden, 751 - > businesses, which I think tend to, unless it's heavy, heavy 752 - > construction where you do need to invest over years, have 753 - > roughly got 18 month strategic cycles.

754 - > And therefore it's going to take 18 months to get all of these 755 - > you know new roles in place, like your vibe growth, market 756 - > manager, your your you know, your people. 757 - > SPEAKER_00: You have used those terms again on me, the vibe 758 - > coach. 759 - > SPEAKER_02: Do you know what I mean? 760 - > SPEAKER_00: And I'm jumping on that because you know, I think 761 - > you know, if for listeners, you know, is there is there a 762 - > potential here to remove the term manager entirely?

763 - > You know, some organizations are moving towards you know, 764 - > capability leads because manager implies control, which we would 765 - > have defined at the outset, not development. 766 - > You know, is is there, you know, could our listeners today say, 767 - > do you know what? 768 - > Is there one thing that I could take away? 769 - > What one thing could I take away from my managers this month?

770 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Yeah, but but this this goes well. 771 - > I love that subtraction piece, which is look, how can I take 772 - > something out to free the time? 773 - > Now, again, I think here, look, we need to use technology to 774 - > free people up to do the stuff that really matters. 775 - > I'm a huge fan of well-trained, well-capable managers.

776 - > I do think people have been put into roles that they're not 777 - > suited to. 778 - > But again, it's up to us to career path people, not just 779 - > land them in a role because they've been there two years and 780 - > we can't think of anything else to do. 781 - > We'll chuck them a bit of skill, we'll give them a bit of finance 782 - > work, we call that increased responsibility, uh, and claim it 783 - > as job enrichment when in fact it's job enlargement. 784 - > But how do we what are we going to send people away with to 785 - > today?

786 - > What is those two or three things that they need to do? 787 - > SPEAKER_00: Well, you know, I I like to think in threes. 788 - > So for me, the three things would be if the role is broken, 789 - > stop training it. 790 - > Stop sending your managers on courses instead of fixing the 791 - > job you've designed.

792 - > Okay. 793 - > Managers don't need more skills. 794 - > We know that they need less to do. 795 - > Overload is the real performance issue, not capability.

796 - > If AI can do it, managers shouldn't be doing it. 797 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Unless it's emotional, if it's recording 798 - > meeting notes and doing all that type of stuff that AI is bred to 799 - > do, then we can free up time to allow managers to achieve more. 800 - > SPEAKER_00: Yeah, we we didn't design the manager role, but 801 - > we've just kept adding to it. 802 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Massively agree.

803 - > So we take stuff out, we practice subtraction. 804 - > Again, that may involve other teams taking things back, 805 - > finance taking things back, procurement taking the role and 806 - > roll back, HR taking, you know, whatever. 807 - > I know, radical here to free them up. 808 - > Let me try and summarize where we got to.

809 - > So, like poor middle managers have a lot going on, probably 810 - > far too much. 811 - > Use the technology where it makes sense, but we need a 812 - > fundamental redesign of roles, managers and the others to allow 813 - > us to actually free people up to do the job that matters. 814 - > I do think at some stage we probably need to sit down and 815 - > and ask the audience, you know, what what are the skills that 816 - > you think you need in managerial roles and how would you go about 817 - > getting them?

818 - > You know, managers who are people coaches, who are highly 819 - > emotionally intelligent, who have a wide range of skills, 820 - > they're the thing that's actually going to make the 821 - > difference in the organization. 822 - > SPEAKER_00: And do you know that they want to be in that role? 823 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Ah, and that's and not the they need to be 824 - > because of promotion. 825 - > And my one is this, and I've said this many a time before, 826 - > and it'll seem odd as an absolute business technologist.

827 - > I I fundamentally position myself as that. 828 - > Only like tech that works. 829 - > I wish we prepared our managers. 830 - > I wish we spent as much time talking about our managers, I 831 - > wish we celebrated great management, great coaching, 832 - > great leadership, as much as we do technology.

833 - > If only we invested a fifth of what we're putting in AI into 834 - > creating great people to give them the skills that they need, 835 - > then for me, managers are 10x multipliers, some teams are 836 - > more. 837 - > Here, here train one manager, you'd be amazing. 838 - > Give them the tools, the training, the capability, 839 - > skills, whatever else they need and want and should have, and 840 - > let them loose. 841 - > And imagine then what your organization is going to be.

842 - > Because this is an age of AI. 843 - > Not that AI is the age of the defining thing, it's an age 844 - > where AI is getting a lot of attention. 845 - > The skill and the capability that's being enabled by that is 846 - > absolutely fantastic. 847 - > But we're still talking about all the fundamentals.

848 - > Great leaders make great teams, we make great businesses, and 849 - > that's the bit we need folks to concentrate on. 850 - > Thank you very much for listening in. 851 - > Next week we'll cover off intergeneration, and we might 852 - > use the word intergenerational conflict and then tear that 853 - > apart ourselves as well. 854 - > Laura, until next week.

855 - > SPEAKER_00: We're looking forward to seeing you next week. 856 - > Thanks, Amelia. 857 - > Take care. 858 - > Kieran Gilmurray: Thanks, everyone.

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