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Your People Aren't Burned Out - Their Work May Be Draining the Life Out of Them - Jay Bransford, Best Christian Workplaces

The Called to Flourish Podcast · 2026-06-29 · 38 min

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Key moments - from our scoring

Substance score

29 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density7 / 20
Originality4 / 20
Guest Caliber9 / 20
Specificity & Evidence5 / 20
Conversational Craft4 / 20

Best Christian Workplaces' president and CEO Jay Bransford dives into one of the organization's eight Flourish drivers: life-giving work. Drawing on 24+ years of research, Bransford defines life-giving work as the extent to which employees feel energy, purpose, and fulfillment through their daily tasks - essentially, work that energizes rather than drains them. The episode explores how this driver correlates with engagement metrics higher than Gallup benchmarks in Christian-led organizations. Bransford identifies three key ways leaders unintentionally sap engagement: failing to connect daily tasks to organizational mission and vision, underutilizing employees' strengths (a concept aligned with CliftonStrengths and Patrick Lencioni's Six Working Geniuses frameworks), and restricting decision-making authority. When these connections exist, Bransford explains behavioral shifts occur - people move from compliance to ownership, from clocking hours to discretionary effort, and from isolated work to collaboration. The episode emphasizes that leaders must invest in knowing their people's strengths and motivations through consistent, intentional time investment, not just one-off assessments.

Key takeaways

  • →Life-giving work is the second most powerful driver of employee engagement in Best Christian Workplaces' eight Flourish drivers, ahead of most other research benchmarks.
  • →Leaders unintentionally drain meaning from work by failing to connect daily tasks to mission, underutilizing employee strengths, and restricting decision-making authority rather than providing clear delegation boundaries.
  • →When employees understand how their work connects to deeper purpose, behavioral shifts occur: they move from compliance to ownership, from required hours to discretionary effort, and from isolation to collaboration.
  • →Misaligned roles where employees lack strengths or passion for their work lead to survival mode, decreased collaboration, loss of confidence, and increased burnout risk.
  • →Understanding employee strengths and motivations requires consistent, intentional time spent with people - not just one-time assessments like personality tests or team building events.

Guests

Jay Bransford

Topics in this episode

Employee engagementdecision-making authorityMission and vision alignmentBest Christian WorkplacesFlourish driversLife-giving workCliftonStrengthsFinderPatrick Lencioni Six Working GeniusesAl Lopez Road to Eight Keys bookOrganizational culture research

Questions this episode answers

What is life-giving work and why does it matter for employee engagement?

Life-giving work is the extent to which employees feel energy, purpose, and fulfillment through their daily tasks - work that aligns with how they're uniquely wired in their strengths and passions. According to Best Christian Workplaces' 24 years of research, it's the second most powerful driver of employee engagement across organizations.

What are the three main ways leaders unintentionally drain meaning from work?

Leaders drain meaning by failing to connect daily tasks to mission and vision, underutilizing employees' strengths and passions, and restricting decision-making authority. The last occurs when leaders assign work but require approval on all decisions, frustrating employees and zapping their motivation.

How does connecting work to mission change employee behavior?

When employees see their daily tasks connected to deeper purpose, three behavioral shifts occur: they move from compliance to ownership, from required effort to going above and beyond out of care, and from isolated work to collaborative teamwork because they see themselves contributing to something bigger.

What happens when someone's role doesn't match how God wired them?

Employees experience gradual loss of energy, engagement, and fruitfulness, shifting into survival mode, losing self-confidence, becoming less creative, and facing increased burnout risk. Overall contribution decreases and collaboration declines.

How should leaders get to know their employees' strengths and motivations?

Assessment tools like CliftonStrengths, Working Geniuses, or personality tests are helpful but insufficient; leaders must consistently spend intentional time with people to truly understand their strengths and what motivates them.

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

7 / 20

The episode covers real concepts (job-person fit, decision authority, mission connection) but at a surface level, surrounded by lengthy analogies and summaries that add little. Most ideas are familiar to any HR or people-management reader and no claim is developed with enough depth to be genuinely actionable beyond a checklist.

when people are not experiencing life giving work, they tend to disengage. Their energy drops, their creativity stalls. You know, people just do enough to get by. And from the outside it can look like a performance issue, but in reality it's often a culture or environment issue
for every negative comment you hear from a coach or a leader or from anyone in life, for every negative comment or criticism you hear, uh, we need to hear positive comments five to seven times more often

Originality

4 / 20

The episode is almost entirely built on recycled third-party frameworks (CliftonStrengths, Lencioni's Six Working Geniuses, Collins's 'right seats on the bus') wrapped in a Christian-workplace rebranding. No contrarian or first-principles argument is made; the 'life giving work' construct is job-person fit renamed.

those of our listeners that are familiar with, like cliftonstrengthfinders or Patrick Lencioni's six Working geniuses, similar concept
you've already mentioned the term a couple times. You're putting people in the right seat. That's, you know, obviously that comes from Jim Collins's book Good to Great

Guest Caliber

9 / 20

Jay Bransford is a genuine practitioner - CEO of a 24-year-old research institute with personal missionary and corporate consulting experience - but his frame of reference is almost entirely Christian nonprofits and missions, limiting relevance for most B2B operators. He has done the work but not at the scale or in the sectors most B2B listeners occupy.

I spent the first half of my career in corporate consulting and then about 16 years of my life as a missionary in Asia, um, where I provided consulting for mission organizations and Christian nonprofits and churches
we have over 24 years of experience in collecting and researching and analyzing data about workplace culture and about employee engagement

Specificity & Evidence

5 / 20

The episode name-drops a handful of tools and their own research institute but never provides a single concrete metric, outcome, or case study with measurable results. Claims like 'higher engagement than Gallup' are stated without numbers, and the one case study (YWAM missionaries shifting roles) is entirely anecdotal with no outcomes reported.

our research does show higher levels of engagement across the board than other uh, data out there such as Gallup
we have over 24 years of experience in collecting and researching and analyzing data

Conversational Craft

4 / 20

The host consistently validates rather than probes, delivers multi-paragraph monologues full of his own analogies (Craig Groeschel chairs, David vs. Goliath, his sons' baseball tryouts), and never requests a specific number, a failed example, or a counterargument. The conversation functions as a promotional explainer for the guest's survey product rather than an interrogation of ideas.

Yeah, amazing. So I think I counted eight, if I'm not mistaken, eight practical, uh, leadership habits. So if you're listening, watching this episode, uh, you probably. Maybe you're in your car, maybe you're running
I love those. Both of those are just really practical, really key things and they do zap the life out of people

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.

Share of words spoken

  • Speaker A62%
  • Speaker B38%

Most-used words

life53giving40leaders31engagement21mission18energy14example14organization13love13employee13today11making11feel11question11staff11flourish10

Episode notes

Many leaders assume disengagement is primarily a motivation or performance problem. But what if the real issue is that people no longer experience their work as life-giving? In this episode, Jay Bransford , President & CEO of Best Christian Workplaces , explores why Life-Giving Work is the second most powerful driver of employee engagement. Drawing from decades of workplace culture research, he explains how leaders unintentionally drain meaning from work, why role alignment matters, and how connecting daily tasks to mission can dramatically increase engagement and ownership. You'll gain insight into: • Why Life-Giving Work is one of the strongest drivers of engagement • How leaders unintentionally drain meaning from work • What happens when employees are in the wrong seat • Practical habits that create energized, flourishing teams

Full transcript

38 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

Speaker A: When people are not experiencing life giving work, they tend to disengage. Their energy drops, their creativity stalls. You know, people just do enough to get by. And from the outside it can look like a performance issue, but in reality it's often a culture or environment issue. This is the Called to Flourish podcast,

Speaker B: where leaders and cultures grow. Welcome back to the Called to Flourish podcast where leaders and cultures grow. Today we have our president and CEO Jay Bransford on the podcast with us today. Welcome to the podcast, Jay.

Speaker A: Thanks Rob. Great to be with you again.

Speaker B: Welcome back. Uh, so, uh, we are on a series with Jay where we're just touching on each of our eight Flourish drivers so that we can equip and inspire all of you, um, with just some tools, some insights to make some adjustments and uh, just grow as a leader and uh, inspire a more uh, engaged, flourishing culture. So uh, you can make a greater kingdom impact. So that's what we're all about. I'll kind of set the episode up. Today we're talking about life giving work. Um, I will say that our research and Jay, you can attest to this, does show higher levels of engagement across the board than other uh, data out there such as Gallup and probably some of the others. And I think part of that um, could be life giving work elements, in other words, uh, leaders or I should say uh, when you work at a Christian led organization there's often an alignment of mission and a uh, sense of life giving work. Whether it's a church or a nonprofit, a mission, something of that nature. Whether you're a teacher, higher uh, ed, uh, it is a sense of hey, this is what I believe in. This is life giving work. That's why I've chosen this versus the corporate uh, path. Um, so we're drawn to this kind of work and this is what we want to get into is touch on making sure we're removing any barriers that would prevent that life giving work from really flourishing and resulting in the incredible results that we all want to see. So Jay, um, how about we just jump right in? I really want to hear from you, an expert in this space, so I'd love for uh, you really just kind of set the stage for us if you could on uh, what we mean at best Christian workplaces when we talk about life giving work, why it's relevant. Take uh, a deep dive with us into that.

Speaker A: You bet, Rob. Um, it's a great place to start. Thanks. So yeah, what do we mean by life giving work and how does that relate to our focus? At best Christian Workplaces to help organizations create engaged, flourishing workplaces. So yeah, when we use the term life giving work, we really mean the extent to which an employee feels a sense of energy and purpose and fulfillment in and through their daily work. And maybe another way to think of it more simply, Rob, is to what extent does your work bring you life and energy versus zap you of your life and energy? And I know we've all been there when things zap us. So, um, yeah, thankfully Rob, you know, we're all unique in that we don't all enjoy the same things, nor are we all good at the same things. Um, obviously we all have unique passions and gifts and skills and interests. So hopefully it makes sense then that uh, people, uh, tend to experience life giving work when there's a strong alignment with how they are uniquely wired and together with the work they get to do. So is how they're wired, does it match up with the work they get to do? And so basically, if a high percentage of the work you get to do every day is what you love and what you're good at, you feel great. But if a high percentage of the work you do every day are things you don't really enjoy or you don't feel competent at, then you tend to feel drained and discouraged at the end of the day. And that's really the power of either the existence of or the absence of life giving work. So I think the second part of your question there, Rob, was, um, how does life giving work relate to employee engagement or workplace culture? So as you know, Rob, and I think as many of our listeners probably know best, um, Christian Workplaces is also a research institute. Right. So we have over 24 years of experience in collecting and researching and analyzing data about workplace culture and about employee engagement. And that research, uh, allows us to much better understand the dynamics of organizational culture and what the key drivers of strong employee engagement really are. And you know, we've summarized much of those findings in our co founder's book, in Al Lopez's book, which is titled Road to eight Keys to Boost Employee Engagement and well being. And those eight keys in the book's title, uh, that's what we've discovered, are the main drivers behind creating a workplace culture that encourages people to bring the greatest amounts of energy and enthusiasm and passion and commitment to their work. So again, Rob, we use the acronym of the word flourish to more easily remember what those eight drivers of employee engagement are. Um, and today, as you already introduced it, we are narrowing in on, um, the second letter of flourish the link, which stands for life giving work. And although all of the eight drivers of employee engagement are significant and are necessary to create a healthy, flourishing workplace, according to our research, uh, life giving work is actually the second most powerful driver of employee engagement of our. A driver. So that, Rob, is how and why life giving work is relevant to employee engagement and exactly why, why we're talking about it today.

Speaker B: Yeah, second most powerful driver. It's really, really important that people in the workplace feel that what they're doing, uh, is exactly the word life giving. I had a preacher once that I was listening to talk about this briefly, um, and he used this analogy that I thought was just so clear. He said that if there's a, uh, somebody that's playing the piano, for example, like on the worship team, let's just say, as an example, and they don't know how to play the piano very well, they're not naturally gifted by God to do it. They can struggle and sweat and try and they're nervous and it's hard. But you take somebody who's just so naturally gifted and it's life giving, they can play twice as many beautiful notes with half the effort. And that's the way he described it. And I would. That always stuck with me about life giving work. Um, that it's just you feel good and you feel energized because it's something that you're wired and gifted to do. And I love the way you said that. And that's why we want to make sure that we're focusing in on this second uh, most, um, you know, correlated driver to engagement. So, uh, on that note, Jay, uh, talk to us about the differences between, um, when you've got folks on the team that maybe are energized by their work versus maybe they're just kind of getting by surviving, um, and they're not energized. What do we see in terms of the signals or differences there with those two contrasts?

Speaker A: Yeah, absolutely. And I don't think any of this is going to be a surprise to anyone listening, but as you can imagine, the kind of behaviors you tend to see in employees who are experiencing life giving work can be substantially different in a better way than those whose work is, is not bringing them life. So I love that example you just used, Rob, um, about, you know, playing the piano in church and if you're, if you're talented at it or not. I love another analogy, a higher level analogy of kind of seeing every one of our employees as a seed that has been intentionally planted into Our organizations. Um, and that seed has real potential inside of it. Um, but whether it actually grows and flourishes depends almost entirely on the environment around it. Right. In this case, it depends on the workplace environment around your people. So you uh, know if, if a seed is planted in hard or dry soil with little sunlight and inconsistent watering and no intentional care, it probably won't grow well. Right. But that uh, doesn't really necessarily mean that the seed was bad. It means the conditions weren't right for growth. So at best that seed might survive for a little while, but it won't thrive, it won't bear good fruit. And really Rob, the same is true in a workplace environment. When people are not experiencing life giving work, they tend to disengage. Their energy drops, their creativity stalls. You know, people just do enough to get by. And from the outside it can look like a performance issue, but in reality it's often a culture or environment issue.

Speaker B: Well that's actually encouraging because you're kind of describing here two uh, sides of the coin. So one side of the coin is this person's naturally gifted. This is life giving work. They're in the right seat per se. But uh, there's another side to that, that the environment then that is the responsibility of leadership can play a part in whether that life giving work really manifests in the, in a way that uh, God intended. And I love the analogy that you mentioned about the seed as well, that um, what a great way for leaders to look at each and every person as a seed with potential, uh, so much potential growth. And far be it from us as leaders to get in the way of that growth that God wants to give. And so I guess on that note the natural question then is uh, where do leaders perhaps unintentionally, uh, I guess uh, drain the meaning out of the work or prevent that seed from really being cultivated, uh, watered, uh, uh, the way that it needs to uh, you know, even let's say they're aligned with the mission and they're in the right seat. How do leaders unintentionally. No leaders intentionally out there. Let me suppress this, this life giving work. But what is happening with leaders when they, they're not recogniz that their leadership is unintentionally draining the meaning out of the work of their people?

Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Making sure we're clear that virtually no leaders come to work trying to think of ways to drain the life out of their people. Right. Of course we don't, we care about our people. But at the same time none of us are perfect. And nor do we always realize the impact on our staff of some of the things that we say or that we do. And of course I'm not exempt from this either, Rob. As you know, we're all a work in progress. Um, but, but, uh, yeah. So what are some of the common yet generally unintentional mistakes that leaders make that can drain the life and energy of their staff? Um, I'll share a few examples. Um, I think I'll start with, uh, something that probably most leaders don't do often enough, which is to talk about the work that people are doing every day and connect that to the mission and the vision of the organization. And there's actually, I think there's several key elements of that statement that are important. So it's not just about leaders failing to talk about the mission and the vision often enough. That is part of it. Um, and we can never really talk about the mission and vision too often, I think. So I always encourage leaders to talk about their mission and their vision every chance you get. But in addition, I think leaders often don't connect the impact of their people's work directly to the mission and the vision because that's also critical. Right. Because if your staff don't realize or feel that they're conscious contribution matters in a significant way, uh, they're not going to be as energized to give their all. Makes sense. Right. Um, so I think that's, that's why it's so important for leaders to frequently share stories with their staff about ways in which their staff have made a difference and really connect those dots on how a team or a person's actions have supported the mission and vision of the organization. It's just, it's a great way to encourage and to reward great performance and behavior and to tie it all back to the purpose of the organization. Uh, because people will just be energized when you do so. So that's one thing, I think another mistake that leaders sometimes make that zaps people's energy, um, is to underutilize a person's strengths or giftings. Um, it's easy, uh, for leaders for us to assign tasks or projects to the first person they notice that's available to do it. Right. And in the short run that can be totally fine and even necessary to do. But as time goes by, I think it's easy for leaders to not realize that, that we've created a workload for a person that is far more based on organizational need and convenience than it is on matching the right person to the right kind of work activities. So you, uh, know, when we passively assign people to work for too long, we may end up finding out that an employee is spending too much of their time on things that aren't in their sweet spot of their strengths and passions and giftings. Um, so now for those of our listeners that are familiar with, like cliftonstrengthfinders or Patrick Lencioni's six Working geniuses, similar concept. Right. So I think both, both Clifton and Lencioni, they recognize the importance of knowing what people's strengths are and what their passions are and then giving them opportunities to develop and to shine in those areas rather than expecting them to flourish in roles that may not be a good match. Um, now probably lots more examples I could give Rob, um, of ways that leaders unintentionally drain energy, um, or excitement about work. But I'll give one more example. Um, I'd say maybe not providing a person with a level of decision making authority that they need, that can be a real life drainer for employees. M. So what do I mean by that? Um, here's an example. So let's say what if I tell a person, um, that I expect them to respond to customer inquiries, but at the same time I tell them that they first have to run all their proposed responses by me first. Um, and maybe I say, and any final resolution of that concern, you definitely have to run by me first. You know, obviously there's, there's reasons in life where we need to escalate issues to higher levels of leadership. But if in that kind of situation, if, if that almost always is happening, there's a good chance that I haven't really given that person the decision making authority that they need to do their job efficiently. Um, it can be a sign that the person hasn't been trained thoroughly or that they're not, you know, sufficiently competent to do their job or simply that you don't trust them. But I think the main point is that people get frustrated when we ask them to do something, but then we don't trust them to make the decisions necessary to get the work done. So, uh, we as leaders need to be clear about the boundaries and the expectations of decision making that we're giving people when we delegate tasks to them. Because when their decision making authority is non existent or unclear, it has a tendency to really frustrate people and zap them of their excitement and their motivation for the task. Um, and by the way, Rob, I'll quick say that each of the Examples I just shared with you are things that we directly assess and evaluate through our own employee engagement survey at Best Christian Workplaces. So if uh, leaders out there want to know what level of life giving work your workplace has, um, where you're doing well, where you can improve it, using an employee engagement survey such as ours will give you really helpful input and direction.

Speaker B: Jotted down a couple examples, um, I don't know, uh, I guess I come from a church background and pastoring a church for a while so these examples jump to mind but uh, I'll throw them out there just to see if they are meaningful to our listeners. But you mentioned that idea of uh, hey um, tying the work back to the overall mission. And I thought of this idea of like you could have somebody who is, has the gift of helps which the Bible talks about. The gift of help. So you can apply this to any organization, any organization in any role. But just by way of an example, okay, I got the gift of helps. This person loves helping, right? Is they get, get life out of just assisting, helping, doing that kind of work. And you say okay, um, I want you to go move all those chairs and move them all over here and shift around this whole auditorium. And we need it done in 90 minutes. Right? It's like okay, they can get, get to get to work doing that task. But then if you said something like and the reason for that is because Craig Groeschel is coming to speak to our audience tonight. It's a surprise visit and he's going to breathe life into leadership and to our team and to all of a sudden that task for the same gifted person has a lot more meaning to it. It's a lot more life giving because you understand, oh uh, this is how this menial task which could seem insignificant is going to produce a great, you know, outcome that is so significant and meaningful. And I also loved how you talking about these are really tangible practical concepts. This is not rocket science. But the idea of you have to run everything by me. And uh, the example ah came to mind when David was uh, going to take on Goliath and he had the faith and he had, he had his way that he was going to approach fighting Goliath. And uh, and it wasn't Saul's armor, it was his approach. He had to um, have the liberty and the freedom to operate in his giftings in a way uh, that um, was really unique to his abilities. And I just love those. Both of those are just really practical, really key things and they do zap the life out of people, um, when, uh, when they're not afforded those two, uh, insights. So really, really good stuff here. I'm really loving, uh, this great example, Rob.

Speaker A: I like it.

Speaker B: Yeah, no, I love this topic because it is so true and it's so important to eng.

Speaker A: Leading well starts with listening well at best.

Speaker B: Christian Workplaces, our employee engagement survey helps you collect honest anonymous feedback from your

Speaker A: staff so you can lead with clarity. When you understand what drives team engagement, you retain top talent, increase productivity, reduce turnover and uncover cost savings. We equip Christian leaders with research driven insight to strengthen culture and lead with purpose. Because when your people flourish, your mission impact multiplies. Visit workplaces.org to learn more today.

Speaker B: So another question for you, um, uh, talking about some of these examples and the things that you mentioned, those principles, how does the connecting the daily task to the deeper calling actually change behavior? So, uh, and engagement. So we're talking about these examples. Connect that dot for us. So how does it actually, how does that happen?

Speaker A: Yeah, that's great because this is kind of just going deeper question, right? So, um, I think when people consistently see how their daily work connects to a deeper calling like you were just talking about, those are great examples, that doesn't just change how they feel about their job, it actually fundamentally changes how they show up and how they perform. Right? So as we said a minute ago, Rob, when a person's work is seen as having a strong sense of purpose and meaningful contribution, we call that life giving work. It's one of the strongest drivers of engagement. And when the meaning of a person's work is clear and personal, there's several behavioral shifts that we tend to see. So one of those shifts is we see people move from compliance to ownership. Right? Uh, so this means that instead of people coming to work and asking themselves, what do I have to get done today? They instead they begin to think, how can I make the greatest impact today? And basically they take responsibility for significant outcomes, not just for completing tasks, when there's that connection, right, between what they're doing and the purpose and the meaning. So a second behavioral shift we see is when people see the calling and purpose behind their work, they shift from just clocking in for the required hours to going over and beyond in their effort and in the quality of their effort. And they don't do it out of pressure, they do it because they care. Right? They know about the impact, they understand it. Um, and I'd say the third thing is, uh, another example of what we see behaviorally when people are energized by the purpose of their work. We see, uh, they often move from working in isolation to working more collaboratively as a team, uh, because work becomes more relational and people collaborate more willingly because they see themselves as contributing to something bigger than themselves that's meaningful and important. So I would say basically, Rob, at the core, when we as leaders connect our staff's daily tasks to a deeper calling, it really helps to answer that question, why does my work matter? Um, and the answer to that question, absolutely can fuel energy and passion and motivation or what we call engagement. And that is why leaders play such a critical role, not just in defining, but in continually helping people see how their everyday work is a part of a much bigger story.

Speaker B: That is the nuts and bolts of engagement, isn't it?

Speaker A: It is.

Speaker B: Ah, wow. You can see it so clearly how what engagement actually looks like, ownership, uh, energy, uh, going above and beyond all of that. Uh, so I guess that begs the question of the silent killer, um, to this particular driver is, you know, clearly if you're not in the right seat, they always say get the right people on the bus and make sure that the people on the bus are in the right seats. We've heard that as leaders, uh, I'd love to go deeper in it because I think it warrants conversation, uh, uh, and it ties into this important driver. So what happens, just fundamentally what happens when someone role doesn't match how God has actually wired them? What happens to them?

Speaker A: Yeah, great. We've all seen this happen, Rob. Uh, when someone's role doesn't align with how God wired them, with their strengths and their passions, uh, you don't just see a dip in their performance. You actually see kind of a gradual loss of their energy and of their engagement, um, of their fruitfulness. Over time, they may end up shifting into survival mode just to make it through each day. Um, they become discouraged, they may lose self confidence, and it's not surprising that they're less likely to be creative and bring new, innovative thoughts as well. But you know, overall their contribution decreases, collaboration declines, and their risk of burnout goes up. And uh, really the uh, bottom line is that people flourish and organizations become more effective when individuals are able to consistently do work that aligns with how they're uniquely wired.

Speaker B: Love it. So I guess then that leads to another question. If I'm a leader and I'm thinking, okay, yeah, that's my desire, I want to get people in the right seat. I understand. Uh, I want to tie, tie their work to the mission. I want to make sure they are empowered. I want to make sure they're in the right seat. How do I recognize and understand, uh, the people I have? How do I, how do I understand their strengths and their motivations so that I can ensure that that happens? What do you got for us?

Speaker A: Yeah, great question. I think one thing to keep in mind is that, um, I think understanding people's strengths and their motivation isn't necessarily something that leaders can fully accomplish by using an assessment or let's say a one day team building event where you talk about personality types or enneagrams or strengths or working geniuses for example. But don't get me wrong, those are all great tools. But I'd say, um, getting to know people is really about consistently spending time with them through intentional habits. That combines things like asking them questions and listening and observing and applying what you're learning and reflecting and just ongoing dialogue with people. But it's really about what happens over time after that assessment or after that team building event. Right. That what happens over time, that is what determines the extent to which we successfully apply what we're learning about ourselves and about others. It takes time, right? Not just to learn about their strengths and motivations, but it takes time to figure out how to best apply that in new work situations.

Speaker B: So good. So it's more than just a tool. It's more than, uh, it requires getting to know, it requires time, it requires observation, listening, all of those incredible leadership, um, attributes. I love that. And so let's just get down to, you know, uh, an example, um, what's an example you've seen or you'd like to share of how actually moving someone into the right seat changed, changed everything for that person and for the organization.

Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Uh, so you've already mentioned the term a couple times. You're putting people in the right seat. That's, you know, obviously that comes from Jim Collins's book Good to Great. Well known for referring to that concept of having the right people and having them in the right seats of the bus. Which really means that it's not just about hiring good people, but it's also about making sure you put them in the right position that matches their strengths and passions. That's what that means. And so, um, I think we've probably all noticed situations in our work life where someone, uh, around us has shifted to a very different position in the organization. You know, sometimes we call that a lateral move or promotion. Uh, and usually the most likely reason for that lateral move is that the person or their employer realized that the person was more interested in or passionate about or talented in a very different kind of role or competency within the organization. So they made a change, right? And it makes perfect sense why people make lateral moves like that. Because the reality is that we're all getting to know ourselves better as we age. Uh, and it's very common for us to discover new hidden talents and interests over time, um, or to discover that what we thought we were great at or love doing doesn't feel as true anymore. So, um, I actually think that shifting people's role should probably happen far more often in life than it does, because it's generally a good thing, because it usually means that we've discovered how to better utilize a person and in doing so, help them to flourish. Um, so, Rob, you know that I spent the first half of my career in corporate consulting and then about 16 years of my life as a missionary in Asia, um, where I provided consulting for mission organizations and Christian nonprofits and churches. And during my years on the mission field, I had the privilege of literally meeting thousands of missionaries. And, uh, there were many, many times where I saw a missionary make a relatively dramatic change in what they did and in their role. And I think maybe the main reason for that is the mission organization I was with, which is called ywam, tends to attract young people just out of high school or college who are sensing a calling to missions. Um, by the way, YWAM stands for Youth With a Mission. So it makes sense that there are a lot of young people in ywam. Um, so people start out in YWAM by getting trained and equipped through a five or six month discipleship training school, which we call a dts. Um, and during that time, they usually have opportunities to get exposed to a really wide variety of expressions of Christian ministry. Uh, and sometimes it could be either before, during, or after their DTS school, um, they excitedly decide to join a particular ministry. Just like people decide excitedly to join any kind of job in life sometimes, right? But as time goes by, I oftentimes have seen these lots of missionaries realize that it wasn't what they chose, the ministry they chose to join or the business. Right? They realize it's not a great match for how God created them. Um, and for example, in the world of, uh, missions, some ministries lean more toward evangelism and others lean more toward discipleship, and others lean more toward mercy ministries. Um, and all those things are incredibly important, but they all tend to require different skill sets and gifts. So oftentimes I saw missionaries shifting ministries as they learn More about themselves and the type of ministry that fit them best. Um, and even going a step deeper from that, I saw people realize that they might have a very specific skill set or passion, um, like let's say for photography or filmmaking or counseling or coffee roasting, for example. Um, and they eventually realize, oh, I could use this skill on the mission field. So they switched to a new ministry in a very different context. Um, but overall, I think it's just, it's pretty amazing and exciting when you get to see the light bulb go off for people as they realize something new about how God's wired them and then they find a role or a purpose that fits them.

Speaker B: Well. Yeah, it's an exciting time of life as you, as you're growing up and you and I are older now. But, uh, when you do begin to discover, oh, wow, that's a gift I have, uh, that's something that God has given me and you're able to align that. And, uh, I keep thinking about my boys in playing baseball. Both of my boys are young. They're still in the age of playing baseball, like select baseball. And they try out for the team every season. And I'm thinking of the, you know, these coaches are assessing them, they're watching them and trying to figure out, like, where do these players go? They've never seen them, they've never played together before. And um, you'll see that exactly what you described, uh, oh, put this person over in right field or left field, or put this person back in the infield or we'll move this. And it's, it's this, this responsibility of leaders, uh, uh, to, to be good assessors of talent and help shift and move things around and the puzzle pieces, I guess, so that uh, everyone can be, uh, in the right seat. So, uh, what a responsibility that leaders have there. Uh, on that same note, uh, uh, of using a sports analogy, um, there are some coaches that are encouraging, more encouraging than others. Uh, so I wanted to touch on this because I think this is baked into kind of our, the way we analyze and survey and how we um, use industrial and organizational psychology to understand these elements. But, uh, you know, in terms of recognition and encouragement, I'd love to touch on that because it is part of this baked into life giving work. Talk to us about how you, how we see recognition and encouragement, um, and how that too plays into what, uh, can drive higher levels of life giving work.

Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. Uh, again, Rob, providing people with recognition and encouragement is incredibly powerful because it reinforces one of the deepest human Needs in general, but also at work, which is the need to know that what we do matters and that what we do as people matters. Right. That we matter and the work we do matters. Um, and by the way, I'm going to also remind everyone of kind of that general rule of thumb. And this relates to coaching as well, Rob, because I'm sitting here thinking about all the people that I had as coaches throughout the years and the ones that I thought were awesome and the ones that maybe weren't so much. But there's kind of a general rule of thumb that for every negative comment you hear from a coach or a leader or from anyone in life, for every negative comment or criticism you hear, uh, we need to hear positive comments five to seven times more often. I think, for me, ten times more often. But we need to hear positive things way more often. Right. Um, so it's helpful to keep that in mind with our staff. When our employees consistently receive meaningful recognition and encouragement, a few things tend to happen. So I already said this, but giving recognition connects their efforts to purpose. They're reminded why their work matters. Recognition, um, affirms a person, a person's value and identity rather than just thinking of them as statistics about performance. Right. And it also, when they receive encouragement, it obviously increases their energy and motivation. And I think lastly, um, um, when you recognize somebody, it really strengthens your relational connection with them. Right. And that sense of belonging to the team or the organization.

Speaker B: Yeah. I was just making a note on what you just said there, because I loved it. Um, because when we talk about recognition, it's not about, hey, let me boost this person's ego. It's about ego. And I have to. It's really about, uh, people need that affirmation. We tend to really hone in on negative things or mistakes that we make. And it's harder for us as, at least for me, I guess, to, uh, uh, hear the good. So we have to say the good more than, uh, we might even realize to our people. So it's not about, I'm going to recognize this person because it's about how great they are. Uh, it's really about affirming the work you did mattered. It's making a difference. It's meaningful. And of course, you know, we do need an affirmation of our even. Even our identity in a work context as well. So, um, and the relational pieces as well. Really, really great insights. And, uh, I think I've got one more question that I'd like to lean in, um, and get your insights on and that's um, a great way to think. Maybe close out this, this podcast, this episode today, which is give us just a few leadership habits. Um, and you may, maybe you've mentioned some already, um, but let's just recap it all. Um, what are some leadership habits that our listeners can take away? Um, to consistently turn work into something life giving.

Speaker A: Okay. Yep. Yeah, few things leaders can do that will help ensure their staff are experiencing life giving work. Great wrap up question, Rob. I think this can serve as a quick summary of many of the things that I, that we've already talked about. But, um, let me go through a few things here. First, I, um, would say again, let's regularly connect people's work to the mission. That's one second thing. Get to know people personally, not just professionally. Uh, third, align people's work with their strengths whenever you can. Right. Uh, fourth, provide clarity and direction so that staff clearly know what success in their role looks like. Um, fifth, uh, I would say offer consistent encouragement like we just said, and recognition. It's hard to do that. Too much. Um, I think also we can build trust through frequently asking for input and listening and following through and then maybe a couple more. Um, empower people rather than micromanage them and that's that kind of, that decision making, giving them decision making authority. Right. Um, and then lastly, I'd say develop people, give them opportunities to learn and to grow into their God given talents and abilities. So, um, yeah, hopefully, you know, those are some, hopefully those are some helpful examples of habits, Rob, that we as leaders can develop. Um, and that should support the likelihood of our staff experiencing life giving work. Because again, bottom line, Rob, from a research perspective, we know that employees who feel valued and appreciated are consistently more engaged, more resilient, more committed to their organization. Um, and in many ways, um, recognition becomes life giving because it breathes meaning back into everyday work. It really helps people see that they are not invisible, their contribution matters, uh, and that the work they're doing is helping move something important forward. Um, so I think often the difference between somebody feeling drained versus energized is not really the amount of work they're doing, but whether they feel seen and valued and connected to the impact of their work. And you know, Rob, that is what the concept of life giving work is all about. So thanks for giving us a chance to talk about this topic today. I appreciate it.

Speaker B: Yeah, amazing. So I think I counted eight, if I'm not mistaken, eight practical, uh, leadership habits. So if you're listening, watching this episode, uh, you probably. Maybe you're in your car, maybe you're running, maybe you're, uh, you know, doing chores or something. And, uh, you didn't have a chance to write those down. But you can go back. That's the beauty of this digital technology. I'd encourage you to go back and jot those down because those, those eight tips habits can translate into. Think about this. The second most important powerful driver in engagement is this topic right here. So this, this is important. I, um, would encourage you as a listener, uh, to subscribe, if you haven't, to this podcast so you can get more of these incredible insights. But please do share this. Forward it to a friend, a colleague, somebody you think would benefit from the insights that Jay shared today because it can make a huge difference. And, uh, not only for your organization, because we really want Kingdom Impact. Kingdom Impact is what this is all about. But even in the life of your people, when life giving work returns to them, it impacts their whole world. You know, they go home from work every day and, uh, it changes, uh, their environment at home even, and sleep and, you know, the whole thing when they're getting energy and life. Um, and your leadership is a huge piece of the puzzle for life giving work, um, for your people. So, Jay, thanks for being part of this podcast episode. We'll have Jay back on soon, as you all know, and, uh, we'll see you next time on the Call to Flourish podcast. Be blessed. See you soon.

Speaker A: Thanks, Rob. Sam.

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