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HOW TO MASTER THE SKILLS OF B2B SELLING

The Best of the Brutal Truth about B2B Sales & Selling · 2026-07-29 · 56 min

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Key moments - from our scoring

Substance score

42 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density9 / 20
Originality8 / 20
Guest Caliber11 / 20
Specificity & Evidence6 / 20
Conversational Craft8 / 20

Jeff Piececheck brings two decades of enterprise sales experience to explain what separates top performers from average ones. Rather than relying on platitudes like "build relationships" or "add value," he articulates concrete distinctions: successful salespeople operate with genuine curiosity about how their prospects' businesses actually work, conduct detective-level investigation across multiple stakeholders, and frame the relationship as collaborative problem-solving rather than transactional selling. Piececheck contrasts "below the line" selling (process, frameworks, tactics, artifacts) with "above the line" selling (performance, deal creativity, problem-solving mindset). He emphasizes that true strategic partnerships mean championing clients within your own organization, working on their timelines rather than your quarterly goals, and honestly assessing where your platform creates value versus where it doesn't. His approach relies heavily on emotional intelligence (EQ) as a predictor of success, multi-threading across organizational roles, and treating customers as "partners in crime" - allies tackling difficult objectives together. This resonates with complex B2B software sales where deals stall when salespeople slip into transactional patterns rather than maintaining genuine dialogue and shared ownership.

Key takeaways

  • →The best B2B salespeople separate themselves through genuine curiosity about how prospects' businesses operate, not just surface-level research, combined with the grit to generate their own opportunities regardless of lead quality.
  • →Strategic partnership means actively championing your client within your own organization and working on their timeline and priorities, not just yours - treating them as true collaborators rather than deal opportunities.
  • →Emotional intelligence (EQ) and empathetic problem-solving are stronger predictors of sales success than IQ or process alone; when salespeople default to presenting and checking boxes instead of dialogue, they kill deal momentum.
  • →Multi-threading across different organizational roles and functions requires doing homework beforehand, asking genuine questions from curiosity rather than pressure tactics, and respecting that your prospect knows their business better than you do.
  • →The difference between A-level and B-level prospects comes down to their engagement level and willingness to share information and move decisions forward with you as a true partner, not just presentation quality or their size on paper.

Guests

Jeff Piececheck

Topics in this episode

Emotional intelligence (EQ)Enterprise salesProblem-solving mindsetMulti-threadingStrategic partnershipMEDPIC frameworkIBM Global ServicesE-commerce implementationDeal progression managementEmpathetic selling

Questions this episode answers

What's the difference between below-the-line and above-the-line selling?

Below-the-line selling covers the processes, frameworks, tactics, and artifacts you need (table stakes). Above-the-line selling is the performance, deal creativity, problem-solving mindset, and empathy - how you actually execute and connect with prospects to drive change, not just go through motions.

How do you identify if a prospect is worth investing time in as an A-level opportunity?

Look for consistent activity and interaction where they freely share information, provide access across departments, and demonstrate ownership by moving deals forward with you. Real initiatives are funded, tied to business revenue metrics, and have momentum on their timeline - not just because they look good on paper.

What does strategic partnership actually mean in B2B enterprise sales?

It means championing clients within your own organization, working on their timelines rather than quarterly goals, having honest conversations about where your platform fits best, and demonstrating value in every interaction so they see you as a collaborator solving their problem, not a vendor extracting a deal.

Why is emotional intelligence (EQ) more important than IQ or pure process in complex B2B software sales?

EQ drives the empathy and problem-solving mindset needed to truly understand prospect challenges, maintain genuine dialogue, and build relationships where both sides own the outcome. Without it, salespeople default to presentations and activity metrics instead of co-creating solutions.

How do you become comfortable talking to diverse roles across an organization?

Build confidence through product knowledge and real-world experience across industries, do homework before meetings so you can ask informed questions, and let genuine curiosity - not sales tactics - guide conversations. The more you listen with real intent to understand rather than sell, the more people open up.

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

9 / 20

There are a handful of genuinely useful reframings - the champion inversion and the 'inarguable argument' concept - but the episode is heavily padded with generic enterprise sales platitudes ('add value,' 'empathy,' 'strategic partnership'), and the final third of the transcript is an extended promotional monologue for courses and other shows that adds no instructional content.

the first question you need to be asking yourself is why would this person put their, you know, behind on the line for you if you can't answer that question?
I call it inarguable argument. it's right there in front of them. We've done everything and it's. And we know that we're a good fit.

Originality

8 / 20

The champion-inversion framing ('are you championing them within your organization?') is a genuinely fresh angle on a worn topic, but the bulk of the episode recycles standard enterprise sales orthodoxy - EQ over IQ, chess not checkers, curiosity as differentiator - without arriving at any contrarian or first-principles argument.

why would this person put their, you know, behind on the line for you if you can't answer that question? Where do you get off trying to test them on where they're gonna take you?
there's the kind of the below the line which is more that the processor, the framework, the tactics...But then it's the above the line selling which is more of the performance, the deal, creativity, the problem solving, the mindset

Guest Caliber

11 / 20

Jeff Piececheck is a genuine 21-year enterprise sales practitioner with IBM Global Services roots and multiple President's Club wins across four companies, which is credible practitioner experience; however, he is not a recognizable named operator, his seniority is asserted rather than demonstrated through specifics, and his articulation of what makes him exceptional stays largely generic.

I've been in enterprise sales for 21 years. Actually started my career with IBM Global Services in the late 90s
I've started at four companies, you know, I've worked for four companies. So I've started that sales journey at four companies over 21 years

Specificity & Evidence

6 / 20

Almost no hard evidence appears in the episode - no named accounts, no deal sizes, no win-rate data, no concrete timelines or revenue figures; the closest thing to specificity is a passing mention of MEDPIC and a vague reference to 'G2K or Fortune 500s,' leaving every claim floating at the level of assertion.

we use medpic other different things to understand that
some of these larger G2K or Fortune 500s, those harder negotiations

Conversational Craft

8 / 20

The host asks a few legitimately sharp questions - particularly the A vs. B prospect qualification question and the prompt on what colleagues see in Jeff - but he regularly talks over the guest, finishes sentences for him, and devotes roughly the final third of the transcript to an uninterrupted promotional soliloquy, which undermines any momentum built by the interview itself.

How can you tell when a prospect's worth spending that time? What's the difference in your mind between like an A and a B?
Do you find many reps don't understand that the complex sale is both complex and it's much more of a cerebral game than it is a charm and personality game?

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.

Share of words spoken

  • Speaker B55%
  • Speaker A45%

Most-used words

sales37together25understand21start16value15part14different14hard13trying13important13become13salespeople12doesn12show12understanding12conversations12

Episode notes

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Full transcript

56 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

Speaker A: What is the fastest way of becoming great at anything? I think most people would tell you it is to learn from people who are already great at it, who already have the skill and the outcomes that you want. And did it through a systematic way, not through luck, not through birthright, not by chance, but did it, who have developed these skills, uh, through time and through hard learned lessons that they can then articulate. Because that's the hard part, certainly about sales, because I interview salespeople, I talk to salespeople all the time, and the great ones. It's hard to get to the distinctions. And that's what I'm trying to do with these interviews, is get the best salespeople in the world nominated by the people who work with them because they admire them. They are trying to emulate their abilities, skills and outcomes. But the hard part is, so what is the distinction? Because these people are not instructors. They, they're not trainers, they're not coaches, they're practicing professionals. And this is kind of obvious at first, meaning that, yes, model people who are already great at it. But how do you know why they're great at it? If you ask them, most likely you get platitudes, you get, uh, work hard, build relationships, add value. Just read any of the comments on my post on LinkedIn. It's all reactions, keyword based, uh, nothing really new or anything you can take away. You know, that word value keeps coming up, but no one can articulate what it is because nobody wants to think. Everybody just wants to give what they think is value, which is really a take from what they really want. Today's interview is one that you better save. Put it on your smartphone, wherever you listen to the podcast, bookmark it, uh, push it aside. This is the type of interview that I want to listen to because the distinctions are well articulated. We get into the exact steps and it's not so much formulaic as it is style. Uh, but it's something you can learn. It's based off of a lot of the stuff that you've heard before. So you might say, oh, that's obvious, but are you doing it? Are you implementing it? Everything is obvious after you, you're shown how it works. You ever watch a magic trick? You know, it looks mysterious. What makes it magic is you do not know how it works. Once somebody shows you how it works, then it loses its illusion. It no longer seems like magic. But then you try it and you're like, well, it doesn't exactly look like magic now, does it? Maybe after you try it, 100 times, it starts to look like magic. A thousand times. It gets kind of magical, these skills. And today we're going to be talking about a lot of curiosity, a lot of alignment, a lot of reading the other person and the natural reaction is to say, oh, emotional intelligence. Well, labeling it is one thing. Emulating it is another. Executing it is where the money is. And the distinctions that are going to get you where you want aren't knowing it, aren't doing it. It's doing it. Well. What does well look like? What does a, what does excellence look like? Is it written down or is it in your head? If it's in your head, it's in the wrong place. Our head is, uh, not a good place to keep these things. It takes years for it to get into our subconscious. It's not like driving or it might be just a month or so before you start to feel, uh, that it's in the subconsciously competent level. Uh, when you're in front of somebody, there's a trick that goes on in our brains. We are trying to think both with our prefrontal cortex and feeling with our reptilian brain at the same time. And guess what happens? We choke. We. We stumble. Uh, we tend to either go to our automobile autonomic system and robotically respond or just go through our pattern. Which sounds a lot like a sales rep, right? Really listen to this episode because, uh, I'm not trying to sell you anything here. This is 100% to give meaning that when I find, you know, not only great salespeople, but great salespeople who can, well, articulate what is working for them, that's where the magic is. You know, the hard work, the give value, the be the trusted advisor, uh, bring insights that doesn't really tell you anything. You've heard that before. And they're all elements, they're ingredients in your recipe of sales success. But how you cook it, how you mix the ingredients, how you processes it and present it, that's where the magic is. And here is somebody that got nominated by co workers and I connect it with because I really could, uh, have, you know, I see how he's successful. There's no doubt about it. And one of the key distinctions you're going to sense is this doesn't sound like a sales rep. Meaning that when we think of a sales rep, we think of the person that's bubbly and nice personality and everything and likable, and he's all of that. But he understands how companies change. He understands both what the customer is Going through and what he has to do to get the deal done instead of the checking in, uh, trying just to find the next step, going through some checklist to make sure you have the ingredients of a good deal, but not the, uh, outcome of a good deal. A lot of us have the ingredients, but the outcome, much like cooking, comes out very different. And let's get into it. I don't want to give you too much. I want the interview to speak for itself. Make, uh, sure you're checking out our friends over at CO Video. And, um, you know, video email is one of those magical ingredients that we can use today to show people something about themselves and, and how we can work together. Not about you, not about us, about them. Selling is about our clients. We just happen to be the person that's the concierge, the deal Sherpa to guide them to where they want to be. Hopefully, uh, we know where to go and how to get there, but they want to get there, and we want them to get there. And video is part of it. It's showing them, uh, text, ah, you know, how much time do you give an email? Just ask yourself, you know, I look at this, I look, who's it from? First subject line, I know it's clickbait. And then the content, is this a give or a take? Uh, 99% of the time it's a take. And, you know, I don't know them. Why would I want to give to them? Check it out. Hey, Jeff, welcome to the show is a way of getting started. Give us a little background on yourself.

Speaker B: Yeah, sure. Thanks, Brian. So, um, you know, my name is Jeff Piececheck, and first off, you know, honored to be a part of the podcast. I'm a big fan. You know, I had been nominated a few times from colleagues in the past on LinkedIn when you requested, you know, some interviews with sales folks. And, um, that's when I started checking out. I finally gave in. And that's really when I started looking at your LinkedIn content and then your podcast and some of your YouTube videos. And, you know, again, I love it. It's great for anybody in B2B sales. So, you know, there's so much truth in that hilarious content you provide. But, um, I've been in enterprise sales for 21 years. Actually started my career with IBM Global Services in the late 90s to date myself there, um, actually implementing in the services side, which gave me up for a couple of years. I wasn't that good at it, but it gave me a really good, um, Perspective, um, starting off on that side and really working with folks. And we were doing at the time, e commerce sites and kind of the infancy of that with large retailers. And it taught me a lot. I think it was really good training for my career the next 20 or so years, because I was really young, you know, 22, 23, 24 years old. And I'm in the room with executives really learning how to position value. And I don't think I would have, uh, definitely no. I wouldn't have gotten in the room any other way. Right. I think they were expecting the technology and what we were talking about to come from younger folks at the time. And it was great. You know, it was a really good, uh, you know, lessons those years to learn. And then I transitioned over into, you know, into the enterprise sales, uh, role about 20, you know, for the last 20 years after that.

Speaker A: And I did the same thing, but more on. I was the pizza, long haired, ride the bike to school developer.

Speaker B: Oh, really? Okay.

Speaker A: And the only one willing to go out with the salespeople on site.

Speaker B: Right, right, right.

Speaker A: And then I always thought I was the highest paid person in the company because I was so productive and useful and.

Speaker B: Right, right.

Speaker A: And I find out, uh, their base salary was more than what I was making.

Speaker B: Oh, I thought they love me. I'm like, these guys are taking me to Morton's for lunch. You know, uh, I'm like, these guys love me. Right. And I'm like, I am so important. This is so great. And, you know, then I get to real later in life, you start to look back and you realize when I. Oh. And not that they were using me, but they were utilizing me and leveraging me. Because my unsullied, some would say naive perspective, uh, was pure the value and the enthusiasm for the projects that we were delivering. Right. And so good for them doing that. But I was the same situation I thought I was. This is the life. This is great.

Speaker A: Uh, how was that transition to go from plus, you went from being highly valued to only being valued for what you produce?

Speaker B: Absolutely. So it was a difficult transition. And one of the things I realized was, you know, just I was used to people calling me back or getting back. They're so rude. Right. Cause I was on that, you know, value, you know, I was delivering and I was. And I was working on that, on that side of it. And so learning about all of the things that took me to get into that room, which, again, I was naive to. I was just like, oh, you call somebody, you know, you set up A meeting, it's good to go. And you speak. Those were the things um, that you really had to figure out. How will I provide value? How will I get somebody to want to work with me from a sales perspective? And again it comes to that part of it of more of a really understanding what they want to do and learning and appreciating. And one thing that's never left is that curiosity and that passion to learn. I've been lucky enough to work across all kinds of industries in my career and I just enjoy learning about it. Right. And so I think that helps. But that was the biggest thing of going from someone on um, this side of it that never really had a schedule meetings and always had people get back to them to okay, now I've got to figure out how I can create these things and make it so.

Speaker A: And how about the other part of sales? The you know, getting the decision through the organization as in conjunction with the paper, having it not stall, start over, be marginalized.

Speaker B: Yeah, no, that's a huge part of um, you know, of, of what you learn and you know, in walking through it. And I think part of. And of course there's, you know, I think there's two sides of it. Right. I always say to be successful in this, um, there's the kind of the below the line which is more that the processor, the framework, the tactics and those things that you use, the artifacts which is kind of table stakes and you need to do that. But then it's the above the line selling which is more of the performance, the deal, creativity, the problem solving, the mindset. And I like to really look at it from taking an empathetic approach because you really want to solve their problem, which is to say understanding where they're coming from. So when you're, I found when you're a strategic partner, which is what I do with it with organizations, those processes are still there. You want to map them out and understand them. But when you're working together, it's not just you calling them, asking where it is in the process flow. Right. This is more of uh, that's not valuable. That's not valuable. You're working together. Yes. You want to map out and understand it. We use medpic other different things to understand that. But really when you've proven yourself as someone who's going to be going to help them derive value and you're going to work together and people will see that passion and they want to work with people that will be able to, they can achieve their initiatives. Right. Not just you, but your team and you've shown that you can go the extra mile. I think that helps out with all of those other things downstream. Um, because you're working it together. It didn't just become I'm trying to do this, it's we're trying to do this. Right. And that has been a big lesson for me in my career is not only demonstrate value, but demonstrate empathy and understand the challenges and work together. Because I'm looking for long term strategic relationships and partnerships. Not doing a deal and walking away.

Speaker A: Right, well, let's talk about that because I think everyone says strategic partnership. Yeah, but what does it mean in your world?

Speaker B: Sure. So you know, we talk about, for example, like champions. Do you have a champion? That's all great, but are you championing them within your organization? Are you putting yourself on the line to say this for this partner? Are you going to bat for them? There's ensuring that you're really working with them and doing it on the timelines that make sense for them, not your quarterly timelines. And by the way, selecting the right projects and understanding where you're the most value at. You've got to have an honest discussion. We all have differentiators in our platforms and so forth, but we're not good for everything. So where do you best fit to achieve these objectives? Right. So it's really treating them as um, not being short sighted, being more strategic. And it's those areas where I think you can honest conversations, people respect that. Right. And those are some of the areas where you can really show that value. And then putting together, here's how we are going to actually achieve this roi. Here's how we're going to work together. What's important to you, what's important to your organization. Those things come across when every meeting and interaction you have, you're bringing something to the table. You're not just asking for things. Right. And a partnership forms, um, and then based on your success, it becomes more and more strategic as you prove yourself within that organization. Right. A lot of times when we start off, we got a flashlight in the dark. Right. We don't win these large organizations. Right. At best, maybe a match. Right. Maybe a match in a dark room and trying to understand and figure out. But the more conversations you have, the more connections, the more areas where you can say, yes, this makes sense for us. No, this doesn't. They'll respect that. That's where you connect the dots and you start working together and then earning your way to other areas as you traverse the business. And you work to provide value. I've, uh, always looked at it as investigatory detective type work. Uh, right. You know, one of my mentors had a great saying, he says, when your mother says she loves you, get a second source, second opinion. Which is to say, always be multi thread, always get other folks perspectives and put together, you know, understanding all of those because you're going to learn every time and hopefully provide some vision. And so I think that's a big part of it as well. I think people underestimate the amount of detective work that you need to do to be successful in this job. Um, and putting things together, it's not just reading annual reports, it's having real conversations and really understanding what's important to folks in different lines of business and throughout the IT organization.

Speaker A: And how did you become good or comfortable talking with such a broad number of people in different roles?

Speaker B: Yep. It's just time, right. The more that you have confidence with the platform or with what you're selling, the more that you understand where it's the most effective, the specific areas. And the more you've seen it before, it becomes more natural and easier. And the more that you get folks to open up and really have that true curiosity and that true. I really want to understand, it just becomes easier. It's not some pressured sale tactic or something. It's more of a, let's see if we can work together. I respect your time, you respect mine. And you just, you know, if you have that curiosity and you do your homework before you show up, those things come more naturally. And you're confident because it's okay that you don't know everything. You're never going to know everything about their business that they know. But if you can learn about the areas, you can help them and come prepared. Those people are more forthcoming with information, I found. And then just the more that you do it. And I've been fortunate enough to work for organizations and selling platforms or applications of service that cross all kinds of industries. And so you get, you know, you just learn about them, um, you know, over time as well. So that helps the experience, but the curiosity, the genuine interest, I think is critical.

Speaker A: And was that something you always had, the curiosity?

Speaker B: Yeah, it was. It's just, it's interesting to me how companies do things right, like, uh, the real way of, you know what I mean, really understanding what, how do they bring products to market? What is really the way that they're generating revenue here? What is there, especially in today's world, Right. Where so many companies are Innovating. And so many companies are transforming. It's fascinating to me. And what's great too is you connect with people. I always say, when you find someone that has that fire on their side and you hit your wagons together and you can do some really interesting things, I will take that passion and that interest above a title, above anything. Um, because that's really where I think that we can kind of hit your wagons together and make things happen within an organization. Because what we're doing is we're driving change. Some of it is very disruptive of how they're doing things before. So you need to be able to do that with somebody. But I've always had that, uh, curiosity for sure. It's just interesting to me, right. How business works and how companies do things and their history and where they're going and so forth.

Speaker A: And how do you, or how can you tell when a prospect's worth spending that time? What's the difference in your mind between like an A and a B?

Speaker B: Yep. No, it's a great question. Because it's not just how they look on paper, obviously, because it's. Some are great and it's okay to say now is not the time. Right. You don't want to run all these enterprise sales places when you're not there yet. It's gotta line up. And so to me, it's, you know, it's first of all, it's activity and interaction. And when they're really giving you the information to help you succeed and it's not, they're not being, um, cagey about it or things like, it's more of, hey, we've got this. And again, over time, you've got to get in there and discover and understand and have those, you know, again, like I said, turn some lights on in some rooms. So if you have that access and you're learning more and it makes sense going together, you can start to just kind of feel that this is a real initiative, it's a funded initiative. You understand how it was, you know how it started, you know what it's tied to in terms of revenues and hard numbers. And then it's the momentum of which this is going. And it doesn't, again, it's not on your time, um, frame, it's on theirs. But if you're continually on the flip side, you can be presenting the best arguments or the putting the best business cases together. You can have your whiz bang roi counter. It doesn't matter if they're not providing the feedback. And it's not yours together. Right. That's the difference is really the interaction and them owning it and then moving it forward with you in that partnership. And then of course there's different things that you look at in terms of does this make sense from an organization standpoint and they're spending those things. But it really comes down to the people interaction of it and their true desire. You know, it's got to be a two way street, you know.

Speaker A: And I'm sure you've been exposed to a lot of different types of salespeople in your career.

Speaker B: Yes, yes.

Speaker A: What separates the very best from the. Okay,

Speaker B: so I think it's a couple of things, you know, and it's. First of all, there's, you know, you gotta, there's, you know, there's a drive, then there's like a grit to it, you know, and that's kind of uh, a component that you've got to get up and you've got to, you know, as some people say, pack your own lunch. Right. You've got to be able to make things happen and go out there. You can't really. The people that start saying, oh, none of these MQLs are coming in.

Speaker A: These leads suck.

Speaker B: These leads are, you know, where's the Glengarry reads? Whatever. It's like that's kind of, you know, you've got to do it. You've got to have the mentality that that's all icing on the cake. I'm going to do this and I'm going to do it myself. The other piece, I think that's important is really process is important and having a framework and those things matter in terms of having the right assets and artifacts that you need to help progress through the sales cycle. So doing those parts again are important. But again, the most important to me is that problem solving mindset of we're going to figure this out together. I understand where you're coming from. I have empathy. That's why EI is so much more of a predictor of success than IQ or eq. I'm sorry, is so much more of a predictor. It's that management, that problem solving. Those areas I find folks are really, really good. It's funny because sometimes when they get into sales, they stop doing those things for some reason and they try to become very like the process takes over and it's like, think about it like any other relationship that you have. Think about it from an empathetic point of view. Think about it from a relationship point of view. Right? You should be seeing these Signs and that's where you can kind of open it up a bit and problem solve and do those things. And so those are the folks that I see that are much more people that have, you know, EQ and apply those things. They're the most successful in this type of complex B2B software sales.

Speaker A: Right, yeah. Because that EQ and that when I heard the word together and I always characterize that champion the person with the fire as partner in crime.

Speaker B: Yeah, that's good. Mhm.

Speaker A: Because you're not committing a crime, you're trying to accomplish something that is hard to do together. Mhm. And if you act like a salesperson, you get treated like one.

Speaker B: Yep.

Speaker A: We'll let you know if we have any questions.

Speaker B: Right, right, right, right.

Speaker A: Not exactly the open dialogue you want.

Speaker B: Right. I've heard people say like, oh, I really presented what I wanted to. I'm like, oh, well that's great that you did.

Speaker A: Congratulations, congratulations.

Speaker B: You, you did that presentation that you can mark that, check that activity, but there's no questions, there's no follow up. So what do you think you've achieved there besides checking a box with your activity metrics?

Speaker A: You know, and you must get that feel when the deal is going to progress.

Speaker B: There's definitely a feeling, you know, you're, you know, texting with the, you know, with the team. You're working together. Like you're just, you're both, you're providing each other, you know, updates, you're getting your resources ready to go. It's, it's all those. And there will be bumps and there will be challenges, but that's okay because there's no reason to panic. You will figure this out. Um, because you both teams, inevitably you and your, you know, your partner in crime or partners in crime want to get to the fun interesting stuff which is actually delivering, get it to the outcomes that you've laid out. The other stuff is there. But you know what, it's sometimes some of the hardest with some of these larger G2K or Fortune 500s, those harder negotiations or getting started, I call it getting kind of the plane off the ground that really you've been in the, you know, together in the fire. Right. You've been together in the trenches and that pays dividends. And that's even better when you get going. Right. Because I like to start with a really good land where you can then go from there and you can start, you know, doing the things that you need to do and from adoption list and so forth. And those experiences when you've when you've gone, battled in the trenches together, you know, you and your partners in crime, that and your uh, team from your side, that's great. That's a great way to start off a partnership that's going to be over the course of several years and continue on when I'm gone or I've passed it on to someone who's going to manage that more tightly. And so those are the signs that you get. It's like any sign, Brian, as you know, like you just know if you've got a two way street with a relationship. Right. Like you know if it's a beneficial relationship or if you're just the one that keeps all the work doing all the work. I don't know why people don't apply the comments to that. More common sense to.

Speaker A: Well, I think people put the company face on. This is my job. This is their job. Their job's to buy, my job's to sell.

Speaker B: Right.

Speaker A: But no one's job is to buy.

Speaker B: No, no one's job is to buy. You're exactly right.

Speaker A: And we've, we hold, you know, we use our sales voice. Hey, it's Brian. How's it going today?

Speaker B: Right, right, right.

Speaker A: It turns everybody off. We follow what marketing and our manager tells us. Present, demo, propose, negotiate, close. But no deal has ever worked that way in history.

Speaker B: Never, never.

Speaker A: And we, we don't want to be vulnerable. We don't want to hear the answers that we don't want to hear.

Speaker B: Right.

Speaker A: Uh, we got a new boss. He doesn't like anything. That's not a no, that's, that's an obstacle.

Speaker B: Yep.

Speaker A: And we don't want to do anything unless we get a reward. M. And there's, there's a long time between doing work and getting a reward. Right.

Speaker B: Yep. Um, you're absolutely right. And it's, you know, it's not about the activity, those things. Deal never works that way. Right. That's just kind of a framework. There is. This is a partnership. And I always say that you're in the trust business. I mean it's, it is cliche, but it's true. When you're really in it, uh, to help an organization, when you're really in it to help them achieve and deliver on their initiatives. Because again, I mean, listen, it's not, this is all altruistic, you know, the end game when they are successful because it makes everything so much easier. Renewals, your upgrades, all of those things are there if you can deliver and they look at you more. If I would, I Would argue more than the platform. Right. Everyone's got their different products and they look at you and your team and they say, are these people going to go to bat for me? Are these people going to work the extra, um, time over the weekend or some weekend to get this thing done when we've got to go live? Are these people ones that I can trust and I can bring forward in front of our leadership? Right. There are going to. Everybody understands. People that work in technology know there are going to be challenges and issues. That's just, that's just what it is. But how do you handle those things? And is this someone who's going to just close this deal and turn away and go do something else, or are they going to be there with me for this, for the long term here and help me achieve on that. That is such a factor. I believe in people making decisions on who they go with. Um, above and beyond. A lot of times these feature functions. Right.

Speaker A: And what motivated the people to recommend you for the show?

Speaker B: Well, I know.

Speaker A: What did you do to them?

Speaker B: Well, they, I know a couple folks said, you know, they thought we'd have a really good conversation because I do, you know, in our QBRs or meetings and they'll have me present it different things and you know, boot camps and these type of things that we have for on sales. I really do enjoy and understanding kind of the. This just. I'm a sales, you know, the mindset and what in all of these kinds of discussions and you know, um, and they. And they just thought we would have a good discussion because they know the honest things that you say, I will bring up. Not as funny. Not as funny as you do it,

Speaker A: but that's a big bar to heard.

Speaker B: That is a big bardock. I will get down to the facts though. The point of like this stuff is all good but guys, here's how really these things happen and how they get done. Um, and try to give my own brand of honesty. Right. Um, my own brand of it internally. When we have these discussions, like for example, the champion discussion, like, you know, teach us how, you know, give us a session on champions. That's fine. But I think it's more important to understand the first question you need to be asking yourself is why would this person put their, you know, behind on the line for you if you can't answer that question? Where do you get off trying to test them on where they're gonna take you? Right, right. And are you going to champion them internally? Like I mentioned before, like, so these are the Kind of thing. The ways that I look at it from a different approach, a lot of times you'll see every. As you know, everything is from the company's perspective or this. It's like guys flip that around and think about it from their perspective. Even if you just want to do it from more of a cognitive empathy approach, but still understand that, right? Because it's going to get you a lot further. So I think some of those reasons that I'm pretty, you know, I'm not afraid to talk about those things like you guys, we'd have a really good discussion. So I definitely.

Speaker A: Well, it's really hard to have cognitive empathy because you got a number over your head, you got pressure on you. Most people are over their head and technology and business issues and acumen and then to take time aside and say, well, how are they thinking? How do they view this? What does this mean to them?

Speaker B: Right? You're absolutely right. Um, but what I always have done, this isn't a transaction type business, right? This is longer term. So yes, people can say, jeff, it's easier for you to do it. You know, you've hit your number, uh, you know, every quarter and blah, blah, blah, blah, uh, dozen presidents, clubs, all of these things. But I started somewhere too, right? And I've looked at the longer game going to do this and it does pay off. It just makes everything much easier and more straightforward. You know what I've always. So you're right, I totally can appreciate. And listen, I've started at four companies, you know, I've worked for four companies. So I've started that sales journey at four companies over 21 years. So I get it. I know what it's like to start off and you gotta figure it out and you've got that number over your head. But I really believe in what we do and that pays off, you know, in spades down the line, 100% to take the time to do that. You don't have to do it with everybody. That's why time organization is so important. And where my number one thing you've got going against you is the amount of time. Because it's just, it's, you know, you

Speaker A: don't have that change, it can't change it. You can't buy another month.

Speaker B: I wish I could if I can buy another, another day sometimes. So you. So that's a big part of it as well, Brian, because you make a great point. All this sounds great, but you've got to also be able to qualify quickly and be okay to say this is not the right time to go down the motion with these folks. I see too many people going down the path and taking a long time to come in second, third, or the dreaded no decision. Right. So it's like that time that was wasted there, um, on five of these things that never really panned out, you could have spent on a couple and you really gotten in there and understanding it after you've qualified them out. So that's where the time part of it is so important because we pulled in so many different directions. And you've got to, you know, manage that to your, you know, to the best that you can. Right. There's only. It's a limited resource, unfortunately.

Speaker A: And when these reps come to you for advice, what's the typical topic that seems to be either the solution or the problem?

Speaker B: Sure. It depends kind of where they are. So if they're starting out right, we have this mentorship program that we do. It's about, you know, more usually about, you know, just figuring things out at first. Right. But it's about, you know, a lot of times it's pipeline generation. Right. Where do we go? Where are some good. Where are some good places to kind of to start? And so I think that's part of it. And you know, again, it's. You've got to be able to, I don't do this, believe in this spray and pray methodology. It's about understanding. It's not a number things. Right. It's very specific. It's your network, right. Getting in from other folks that you've again done right by. That's why it's so important, um, to be referred in or understanding their challenges and being much more specific and it's more qualified good organizations to go after that. You truly believe that you can help. Right. I always say that if I'm doing my job well because I believe that we're going to help this organization, we can help them in multiple ways of what they're doing. It should be such a place that we provide to the information and so much backup that it's almost negligent for them not to take a real look at it. Right. Because it's just, I call it inarguable argument. It's right there in front of them. We've done everything and it's. And we know that we're a good fit. So let's see if we're going to go and take this evaluation, this partnership together. So I call it an evaluation partnership plan. If not, that's fine. Let's Move over here. So I think those are some common things of getting started in minutes. How do you grow accounts? Right. When you get in? And it's some of this exact same things that we're talking about landing correctly, being able to earn your way across the business to different units. You know, you know, you've got to really do your work. You've got to. It doesn't matter what you put in a piece of paper. Right. Did you deliver? Did you deliver the goods? Because if you did, then you'll be. You'll earn your way to the next place and the next place in that organization. Right. And so I talk about the ability to really have to be. Not only the sales process, but being the quarterback of that account as you're taking them live and they're deriving value. I'm not leaving until all of that is done. For multiple years sometimes. Right. Um, and that part I think people don't think about as much. Some don't. They want to sell and walk on. That's not how I do things. And I don't think it's the true way to succeed these days. And what we do, you've got to be able to. I'm not talking about just being some. You know, we have a whole another group for that for longer term. But when we have it for the year or so or a couple of years, you've really got to make sure that those customers are successful and do whatever it takes internally and externally and for your partner network to do so. That's super important. And I don't think a lot of people think about that that come into this. Right.

Speaker A: Do you find many reps don't understand that the complex sale is both complex and it's much more of a cerebral game than it is a charm and personality game?

Speaker B: Yeah. I mean, yeah. So I always try to explain it like, just think of it as, this is chess. This isn't, you know, it's a. This is not checkers. Right. And you. And it's not reactionary. It's not short term. And that's what you have to really understand. And it's. It's from. From opportunity to opportunity. You've got to see it in a bigger picture. And you can't just run and do this and do this and wait till

Speaker A: they, uh, yell at you.

Speaker B: Yeah. Because they don't want to say no. Right. In what relationship? That's not a relationship. Right. If the one party is just running

Speaker A: around doing what the other work and

Speaker B: the other person wants doing all the work Think about that for a second and like put yourself in like a regular, like a relationship, right. With like a partner. Does that any kind of a healthy relationship. Do you think that they would respect that? So you know, that's it. Thinking about it and thinking about it more strategically and thinking about it as chess, not checkers. And then really what getting like that goes back to what I was talking about before about having the detective work and discovery. Right. Everybody's got different goals than objectives. A lot of them will go up to specific things. But understanding where does this person want to go personally with their career? Right. Where do they want to go? What's the next move for them? How impactful is this to the next thing that this company is doing on that level to their boss. So understanding all of those things will make you a multi much better partner. And it's not running around trying to do jumping.

Speaker A: Do more dumb things faster. Yeah.

Speaker B: Doing more dumb things to build up some activity metrics.

Speaker A: Right, Cool. Hey, this has been a fantastic conversation. Where can people go to connect and follow you?

Speaker B: Yeah, no, you can just find me on LinkedIn. Um, Jeffrey, uh, p, um, ah, you can see the name there. And yeah, I'm looking forward to uh, again I really appreciate it bro. Ryan, it's ah, a great uh, conversation and I'll be continuing to follow you and laughing and reusing some of your content because it's great.

Speaker A: Have you noticed all these great sales leaders, uh, they're not talking about, oh, I can present my value proposition better. I bring great insights. Those are tiny little ingredients in their formula of success. Most of them are able to have conversations about what the client cares about and to have them focused aligning their product with the uh, things that the client wants to do. And not just 15 minute conversations, consistent conversations over long periods of time. And how do you do that? Well, you know, it's not about the product. It's not features and functions and capabilities. And I've got another interview coming up where that was the distinction that the rep found between the seven figure reps, people making over a million dollars a year and the people who were just getting by crushing their quota is that they focused on the client and were able to talk to them. Now this, uh, I'm not talking about MBA type conversations, pulling out the financials and analyzing their annual report and 10Ks and all that. And frankly I've never read a 10K. Um, but I'm very curious, I'm very interested in them and I bet uh, a lot of the people I sold to never read their 10k either. It might fit your space. I'm not judging, I'm just telling. I'm just sharing. Building those conversations has a structure, it has a process, it has, um, a step by step approach. It doesn't feel like a process, doesn't feel like an interrogation. It feels like a natural conversation between people who are aligned on a mission. A process purpose, a reason to improve the business that happens to also benefit them. And they understand how companies make decisions. Uh, companies don't like to buy products, don't like to spend money, but they do like to fix things. They do like to be more competitive, they do like to automate things. And have you heard the word digital disruption? The two words, I guess. I think they're the most overused words now. I think we keep picking up these keywords and all of a sudden they lose their meaning and almost become annoying after a while. What we have to do is have long form conversations with our clients about them. If you keep it about the product, you're a commodity. Uh oh, but I'm different. We're faster, we're better, we're more cloud enabled. Congratulations. Do they get that? How will they get that? Won't it take time? How long did it take you to get used to your new car? All the features and functions of it? Uh, you probably bought it by how it looks, how it makes you feel, and you brought it for the people that you either like the best, closest to you or, or was most convenient. How do you build these conversations that start the conversation, get the meeting? It's not just about getting into accounts, it's staying in accounts. Because I include the questions at cell course with it, which gives you exactly how to take them from unaware to urgency. It doesn't happen overnight. They're step by steps they have people have to go through. And how do you build questions to get them there? Statements won't get them there. Statements usually cause people to argue with you. You could have the most benign statement in the world and someone's going to argue with you. Trust me, from somebody who posts a lot of stuff on social, people will argue with anything. Questions get people thinking. Questions get that brain turned on. Questions are the mind control tool that we have to use. And conversations are what sell demos. Helpful presentations, helpful ingredients. But we focus way too much on it. Insights, uh, at best are going to create curiosity, maybe interest. No one runs down to procurement after you gave them an insight site. What we have to do is start modeling professional B2B Sales. This is where the money is. The money is not in transactional sales. The money is not getting somebody to sit through a demo. The money is changing how companies do business and buying big deals, buying transformation, buying change, buying taking the business and their careers to another level. And it takes time, but you have to become better at it. Being the order taker, the B player. That's no fun. You're not happy, the company's not happy. It turns into what I call the stalemate, meaning that both people are unhappy. And guess who always wins? Uh, 99% of the time, the company wins. They move you out, they marginalize you, and all of a sudden, a B player gets a C territory and you become a B minus player. And in sales, your career is going on a spiral, either up or down. And once it starts going down, gravity takes over and the inertia, and it becomes harder and harder and you become more and more burnt out. Sound familiar? To slow that down and reverse takes a little bit of, uh, effort because there's inertia behind it. And the same is true on the way up, but it's harder on the way up because you have gravity working against you. And what I'm trying to do with the podcast is share with you through other people's careers of what will get you on that upward trajectory. And, you know, everybody's about the hustle and the grind, and that's an ingredient. But have you noticed all these guests, they all work hard, but I don't think they were 80 hour people. I see a lot of 80 hour people who want to be on the show, but I'm not sure that brings anything to the show. We all know we have to work hard. That's a given. And I think activity is overstated, and that's why I downplay it. You have to be active, but activity alone just gets you tired. It just gets you doing dumb things faster. And that's the mistake that I see most leaders taking today, is they just think, do more of what doesn't work will get you something that will work just by chance. And it might. But wouldn't you like to have a little bit more control and predictability over it? Understand the game you're playing instead of just swinging a bat, hoping somebody throws a baseball at it. Uh, in sales, it is a profession. First you got to understand the game you're playing. Playing. You have to have that knowledge. Then you do have to be active. You have to take action. Then you have to understand the outcome. Was the outcome changeable? Did I have any control, influence Direction, momentum and control over it, or does it just happen, or did something outside of my control? See, this is the trick about sales, is that when we get a bad outcome, we think we did something bad. And you might have, or it might not have been the right time, the right person, you might not have had the right ingredients. Things, uh, change on the customer side as well. So we can't automatically think that we did something bad. We may not have done it perfectly or better, and we can learn from it. Uh, or did we just work on the wrong account? See, that this is the hard part about sales, is that everybody wants something that works 100% of the time. That's the silver bullet. And we never find it. No one ever has. When, when I talk with hundreds of the best salespeople in the world, they still lose deals, I lose deals. Um, and it's supposed to hurt. And it's good that it hurts because that's how you learn. You don't learn if it was pleasurable. The wins reinforce what we know. The losses get us thinking, get us curious, get us interested, and what we can do better. And that is the mindset. Because there is no perfect sales process. There is no perfect presentation, demo, conversation. There's good ones, there's better, there's even better, and there's bad ones, but there's no perfect one. We're interacting with people. If you have a kid, what's a perfect parent? You know, sometimes the kid, no matter what you do, is going to mess up, and sometimes you do bad things and the kid still turns out fantastic. We have to still try. We still have to understand what is good and great and move towards it, emulate it, and get ourselves thinking and evaluating it, preferably before we do it. Winning the complex sale helps you first understand the game you're playing. 99% of the people don't. The number one thing that I found when I went into clients, uh, when I did on site training, was getting people to articulate how the customer buys. Was, you know, a good week prep. Nobody could really articulate it. There was a lot of platitudes and, you know, magic and MacGyver type thinking, oh, we just did this and something great happened, or we gave a discount and that expedited it. Well, but what's going on on their side? How do we not fall into those traps? Because the complex sale, just a series of traps. We all walk into them, we're all taught to walk into them, and once we're in them, they're, uh, really hard to get out of. And we kind of. And if we do get out of them or uh, we move on to the next one, we don't want to remember it because it was so painful. Check out the courses@b2b revenue.com and ask yourself how much are you willing to pay in lost deals? Lost income, lost commissions, loss of lifestyle, loss of time, Money you can make up, time you can't. How long uh, are you going to give it before you become great at sales? Because they're not just courses. It's not just content, it's conversations, it's deal reviews, it's strategy, it's distinctions, its examples. There is no other library of this many examples in the world. I've been doing this three years online. There's three years of office hours, three years of one on ones and you can participate in all of them, consuming it at your pace. Dedicate a year to become great at these skills. And what will you get if you become great at it? Well, you know what the great people in your industry make. Do you want to be that or you just want to hang out? See, the B players are always going to get squeezed out. Look at your comp plan. The accountants and the cfo, they figured out how to pay as little as possible for taking an order and a lot more for generating an order. Creating revenue, that's what they all want. They don't hire salespeople to manage demand, they hire salespeople to create it and capture it. And have you noticed how ineffective B2B marketing has become? I talk to B2B marketers all day long. Um, the good ones go and start their own agency and everybody else kind of works with somebody copies the same playbook. And if you look on LinkedIn and you see the type of audience I've built compared to companies with 20, 50 times as many people and money. Mhm. It's not people and money, it's know how being able to create and capture the demand and build demand in your space. Space is your asset. You are the means of production. And what's crazy in the course is I can tell the questions and the energy between the people who work for themselves and I can almost guess their base salary. High base salary. Ah, uh, take their time, participate, ask questions, uh, stay at the knowledge level, the awareness. The people who no base salary dig in. Why? Because they have to. They have to get the results. But that's. You can choose to have that mindset. You don't have to give up your base salary. The beauty of B2B sales is you get a great base salary and unlimited upside. And you can create that upside for today, this year, and for the future. The tools that we have today are amazing. You can build audiences, you can build your marketplace, you can build your network online. And it can compound and become a snowball. That's exciting. Hey, if. If you'd like a different format of podcast, I've got a couple of other shows that I want to make you aware. Aware of. The Sales Questions Brutally Honest Answers show is that tactical, actionable daily sales podcast, if you like that format. Uh, this podcast clearly is interviewing the best salespeople in the world. Sales, uh, leadership show is people who've sold become leaders. And what's a great sales leader do differently than a mediocre one? I encourage you to hear it out. Also, if you're looking for a job, great sales leaders on that show, all hiring. So check out that and the B2B Revenue Leadership Show. Because when you start to understand the bigger puzzle, you can then leverage the inside game at your company, which I know it's a lot of work, Brian, but I'm here to help. Also, if you could do me a favor, tell somebody about the show, uh, like comment and share my content on LinkedIn. I appreciate that so much. Uh, I store all the video interviews on the YouTube channel. You can just search Brian Burns sales on YouTube. I also do my daily comedy stuff up there and, uh, I'm doing those skits with multiple characters within company. I have so much fun doing that. And it's all based off of real life experience. And I'm trying to make it better for all of us. If you've noticed my content on LinkedIn, the focus is really to fix sales for us, for salespeople so we can sell more. We'll see you next time.

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