
Between Two COO's with Michael Koenig · 2026-01-20 · 57 min
Get Brad's new book, Give First . 00:00 - Cold open: “Something new is fucked up in my world every day” 02:00 - The Yoda t-shirt story + the mythology of Brad Feld 04:00 - “Give First” vs. “Pay it Forward”: philosophy, not obligation 07:00 - Why giving isn’t altruism - and how it works in complex systems 10:00 - Positive-sum vs. zero-sum: tennis, trust, and long games 13:00 - Does giving create outcomes, or just energy? 16:00 - Why Brad writes books: longform thinking as meaning-making 20:00 - Searching for meaning through mentorship and reflection 23:00 - “I hate the phrase pattern recognition” - mentorship done right 28:00 - The power dynamic between founders and mentors 32:00 - Management through commitment, not control 35:00 - Agile as an operating system for accountability 38:00 - Emotional intelligence and the role of executive coaches 41:00 - Mentor vs. coach vs. therapist vs. advisor 45:00 - Trust as the foundation of all high-leverage relationships 47:30 - Wild story: when the second floor of Sphero’s building collapsed 52:00 - “They can’t kill you and they can’t eat you” - Len Fassler’s advice 55:00 - Closing thoughts on being the Bill Murray of venture capital