The NeuroLeadership Edge: Pressure-Proof Leadership™ & Calm Authority · 2026-07-29 · 28 min
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Howard Brownstein draws directly from his medical corpsman training and decades of crisis intervention to articulate a triage-based leadership framework that prioritizes the most urgent problems first. He recounts a dramatic intervention at a mortgage company raided by federal law enforcement, where he persuaded six federal agencies not to shut down the firm by reframing the systemic risk to homeowners. Brownstein emphasizes that leaders systematically fail to recognize severity because admitting problems is uncomfortable and demands hard decisions - what he calls the bias of denial. The conversation centers on avoiding what he calls "getting caught in the thick of thin things," doing what feels easiest rather than what matters most. Claire Hayek connects this to her Pressure-Proof Leadership™ system, arguing that under pressure, leaders default to survival patterns unless they've built deliberate habits of asking uncomfortable questions. The episode is essential for executives, board members, and crisis managers who need frameworks for cutting through organizational denial and focusing on what actually preserves the company - cash flow and the lifeblood of the business, not peripheral issues.
Six federal agencies had staged a raid and were ready to shut down the company for fraud. Brownstein, arriving as the chief restructuring officer, persuaded them to allow a soft landing by arguing that thousands of homeowners would lose deposits and default if the company crashed, which would create a national news crisis for the agencies.
He enlisted in the Air Force and trained as a medical corpsman, learning that the most important things - heartbeat and breathing - must be addressed first, which directly translates to treating cash flow and survival in business crises.
Leaders have an implicit bias toward denial; admitting severity requires uncomfortable actions, acknowledging mistakes, and making hard decisions, so the human tendency is to avoid seeing clear evidence of trouble.
It means leaders tend to do what is easiest or most available rather than what is most important, getting distracted by comfortable activities while ignoring critical underlying problems that require harder work.
By building a daily habit of asking structured questions: What am I missing? Am I avoiding comfort? What evidence am I ignoring? Who disagrees with me that I'm not listening to? This wires your brain to catch blind spots under pressure.
Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.
There are a handful of genuinely useful practitioner ideas - triage as business priority framework, the speed-math illustration, and the self-interrogation questions - but they are buried under a lengthy Vietnam War personal backstory and generic platitudes. The episode is roughly half filler, half substance.
if you're on a two mile track and you want to go 60 miles an hour on the two mile track, but you only go 30 miles an hour the first mile, how fast you have to go the second mile to average, uh, 60
unless the underlying company is making good red zinfandel wine, time is not your friend
The triage-as-leadership analogy is a modestly fresh framing, and the Nile/denial visual gag is memorable, but the underlying advice - focus on what matters, don't avoid hard truths, deal with cash first - is entirely standard turnaround orthodoxy with no contrarian or first-principles argument.
I show a picture of the pyramids of Egypt next to a big river. And under the caption I write the enemy. It's kind of a joke, right? The river is the Nile. But if you say denial, that's the enemy
unless the underlying company is making good red zinfandel wine, time is not your friend
Howard Brownstein is a legitimate, long-tenured practitioner who has genuinely done the work - chief restructuring officer engagements, board seats at public companies, 140+ published pieces - but the conversation fails to draw out the depth that his 35+ year career could have yielded, leaving his real caliber mostly implicit.
my engagement was as, as a, what's called a chief restructuring officer, which meant I have hands on authority to, to try to help the company
ultimately one of the principals of the company pleaded guilty to some major fraud. And I had to have all of that happening in the background while I laboriously moved all the loan commitments to other lenders
There is one vivid, concrete case study - the federal raid on the mortgage company - with real narrative detail, but no company names, revenue figures, recovery timelines, or outcome metrics are ever provided, and the rest of the episode operates entirely at the level of analogy and abstraction.
they had staged a raid just prior to my arrival. And the company was in the mortgage business
this company has committed to provide thousands of mortgages all over the country to homeowners
The host asks soft, leading questions and repeatedly interrupts the guest to insert her own frameworks and book promotions, never pushing on the case study for specifics, never challenging a claim, and the 'rapid fire' segment collapses into platitudes with zero follow-up.
What we've seen, and I've seen in my work and research is that when people are under pressure, they will default to a pattern that they probably, you know, been defaulting to most of their lives
I'm also, as already mentioned, have an upcoming book. It's called the Leadership Skill nobody taught you
Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.
Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.
Speaker A: Claire I'm Claire Hayek, neuroleadship expert, TEDx speaker and founder of Mind Sole Purpose Team Building. Welcome to the NeuroLeadership Edge. I spent more than 20 years leading high stakes projects and teams under pressure. That experience became the foundation for pressure proof, leadership the system. I now build inside executive teams and leadership cultures. In this podcast we go inside the science and the stories of of staying clear, focused and human when the pressure is real. Now, here is what you're getting today. Why waiting one extra day on a problem can make it impossible to fix the bias that convinces good leaders everything is fine when it is not. What 35 years inside companies in Crisis taught our guest about timing. My guest today is Howard Brownstein. Howard is president of the Brownstein Corporation. For more than 50 years he has worked as a turnaround and crisis specialist and served as an independent board member for public companies, private companies and some of the largest nonprofits in North America. He has written more than 140 articles, book reviews and uh, textbook chapters. And he guest teaches at, uh, leading business schools as well as law schools. Howard is also one of the senior leaders whose insight shaped the research behind my upcoming book that is launching on September 9, the Leadership Skill Nobody Taught you, Calm Under Fire in the Age of Disruption. Howard, welcome to the show.
Speaker B: Thank you. It's very nice to be here with you.
Speaker A: Well, very nice to have you and I'm very glad you said yes to this episode. Now, let's dive right in because I'm sure a lot of people are probably wondering, what are we talking about here? What happened? So take me to that moment that still, still shapes how you lead today, the one that I started and introduced the show with, what happened that day.
Speaker B: So my job is that of somebody who provides turnaround and crisis management. And that means we deal with companies that are in trouble. And the trouble can range from a mild tummy ache to cardiac arrest and everything in between. And what you learn is that often the companies don't understand or know how severe the problems are until you get involved. And there's an awful lot of normal human bias where the companies don't want to recognize how bad the problems are. And when I, when I do a slide presentation on this, I show a picture of the pyramids of Egypt next to a big river. And under the caption I write the enemy. It's kind of a joke, right? The river is the Nile. But if you say denial, that's the enemy because we all have a tendency to be in denial. You don't want to admit how bad things are.
Speaker A: So that day when uh, you were, you know, you came to the office and there were these federal law enforcement agents. They're ready to shut down the company. What happened and what did you do?
Speaker B: So this was a client that we were introduced to. And um, I believe the introduction had come from one of their banks. And I had made an appointment to go and meet them. But when I arrived there were all these official looking vehicles parked in front of the building. And when I walked in, I was greeted by half a dozen different law enforcement agencies.
Speaker A: Okay.
Speaker B: And they had staged a raid just prior to my arrival. And the company was in the mortgage business. They provided mortgages to homeowners. And um, I had been introduced to this company by the bank and, and the bank's lawyers. And I showed up and these folks showed me their federal identification badges and, and they basically said, who the heck are you? And I, my, my engagement was as, as a, what's called a chief restructuring officer, which meant I have hands on authority to, to try to help the company. And they said, what, what's a chief restructuring officer? And why don't we just close this place down and put yellow tape around it. And I looked at these people and you know, they looked like they were going to eat me for lunch. And I said to them, I'm not a federal official. I would never presume to tell you what your duty is. I have just arrived. But, but what I can tell you is this company has committed to provide thousands of mortgages all over the country to homeowners who've all, or would be homeowners, planned homeowners who have put a deposit down to buy a home and now they're waiting for their mortgage. And if this company crashes and burns, they are all going to default and lose their money. And at that point, I think you folks are on the 7 o' clock national news and not in a good way. Alternatively, stay in this room. Nothing will leave the building. Let me see if I can bring it down for a soft landing. Okay? And thankfully, um, they let me do that. And it was quite a process. And ultimately one of the principals of the company pleaded guilty to some major fraud. And I had to have all of that happening in the background while I laboriously moved all the loan commitments to other lenders who of course were scared because they didn't know what had happened here. They were suspicious that if the company had done things wrong that got them in trouble with the government, maybe they had falsified the record keeping on these loans. It was really a difficult process.
Speaker A: Well, let me ask you something. So what were you holding onto in that moment to stay that steady? Because, I mean, you know, we're listening to this. Obviously we were not there. We are listening to you. I'm just listening to you. And I can just imagine somebody could feel right.
Speaker B: So at an early point in my life, when I was getting ready to finish college, um, it was during the Vietnam War, and our country had just changed from using what were called local draft boards that decided who would get drafted in what order. But those local draft boards were very susceptible to favoritism and even corruption. So the country had changed. That year, the year that I was about to graduate and became eligible to be drafted.
Speaker A: Okay.
Speaker B: Had changed to a national lottery system where once a year they pulled all the birthdays out of a hat. And. And the order in which your birthday was drawn determined your priority to be drafted. And, you know, it's people who weren't alive then. It's hard to know how divisive and controversial the Vietnam War was. It gave rise to terrible antagonism around the country and demonstrations and polarization. And I went to. I was in college and I went to a hockey game one night, came back to the house I was living in, and everybody was sitting around drinking beer, watching the game on tv. And they cheered and handed me a hat full of $1 bills. I had the lowest draft number in the house. That's not a good thing. That means I would be drafted 10 seconds after I graduated. Now, this was a time when a lot of people were running away to avoid the draft, breaking the law. I had never thought of doing that. But, um, if you got drafted, you were only drafted into the army, not the Navy, not the Air Force, not the Marines. And it meant you were almost certainly going to Vietnam. Or I could figure out another way out of this. And that was to enlist. So I made the rounds of all the enlistment offices. And this was a point in my life when I really learned to read the small print. Uh, do your homework, find out what is going on in the background. And I found a recruiting sergeant who opened up his book. He was an Air Force sergeant, and he showed me all the trainings that he had available. I won't use on, uh, this broadcast the language he used to, to describe them because they weren't nice words. But the choices were, you could be a mechanic, you could be a clerk typist, or you could be a medical corpsman. And there had been a point in my Life when I was actually going to be a doctor. I had been accepted to medical school, and I had not even gone to college yet. There was a program at Penn State where you went to high school, you graduated, you went to college for 15 months, and then you went right into medical school. And in five years total, you were a doctor. And I was accepted and I was going to go. And I changed my mind. This sergeant's offering me to become a medical corpsman. I thought, okay, well, that's pretty cool. Well, you have to leave at the end of March. Now. I was going to the University of Pennsylvania. Different than Penn State, the University of Pennsylvania is a Quaker tradition school. The Quakers believed that rules were important. But if you have a different way, you want to do something as an individual and you're not trying to hurt anyone, they will always listen. So I had figured out how to graduate in under three years with two degrees and three majors just by counting this for that and that.
Speaker A: Right, right, yeah.
Speaker B: Using all the rules. Now, I was going to have to leave at the end of March. Would I blow all that up Now? I could stay another year in college. You were allowed four years before you went to get to drafted. But I had done all this work to graduate early. So I went to the recruiting sergeant and I said, what do I do? And he goes, well, you can either show up for this or wait another year. I went to the dean and he said, it's not up to me if your professors say you finish the course, we don't ask. Quaker tradition, University of Pennsylvania. So I figured out a way to finish all the courses. And I left at the end of March and went to basic training and learned how to be a medical corpsman. And you learned that the most important thing is the heartbeat and the breathing. And so when I later became a turnaround consultant when I was, you know, finishing and all that, I had gotten a very low draft number. I enlisted in the Air Force, became a medical corpsman, was able to graduate early in three years, two degrees, three majors, and went off to learn how to be a medical corpsman. And later, when I described the situation I was in about being a director, they let me do my basic training and still get to law school and business school on time.
Speaker A: This is amazing. This is really, uh, interesting. And thank you for giving us a bit of the, the background to how you get to. You got to that point of steadiness. If I could say right now, you have talked about triage when we spoke together before this.
Speaker B: Yes.
Speaker A: As a model for Leadership. And I think this is the right moment to bring this up. Tell us a little bit more about this. And I know it's related to your medicine, right, and what doctors actually do. Go ahead, tell us a bit more about that.
Speaker B: And just to be clear, I'm not a doctor, I'm not a physician. But in the service, people that are trained as medical corpsmen are allowed to do way more than a not doctor, not nurse would ever be allowed to do in a hospital.
Speaker A: But that training allowed you to understand a thing or two about how you can apply what you've trained for and bring it into the business world. Which brings us a whole different dimension, leadership. And that's what I'm interested in. No problem. I think it's important for you to clarify that. Thanks for doing it. Yes, tell us about this triage as a model for leadership. I'm sure our listeners now going, okay, I need to know more, what does that mean?
Speaker B: So if you're confronted with a patient who has a tummy ache and he's got personality issues and oh yes, he's bleeding from the neck, you'd better treat the bleeding or else the other things aren't going to matter. So what emergency medicine teaches you to do is triage is deal with the most important things first because the other things need to be dealt with, but they're not as urgent. And as human beings, we have a tendency not to do that, to do what we can do, not what we should do. And it's often the harder thing, but if you don't do the harder thing, it's not going to matter. If you're on a two mile track and you want to go 60 miles an hour on the two mile track, but you only go 30 miles an hour the first mile, how fast you have to go the second mile to average, uh, 60. And when I ask this question to business school students, all the hands go up and they say 90. And I say, you're a little low. The answer is infinity. It cannot be done. 60 miles an hour is a mile a minute. 30 miles an hour is a mile. Every two minutes. You've already used up, uh, the whole two minutes in the first mile. You'd have to go the second mile infinitely fast to average 60. So what that foolish little story is designed to teach is it's very important to work on the most important things first. And that was true when I was a medical corpsman. You've got to deal with the bleeding from the neck before you deal with the personality issues. Just like in business problems, you got to deal with the cash. If the cash runs out, it's like oxygen. There'll be no more patient.
Speaker A: I guess, you know, when we're talking about, in business, you know, we, we have that built in bias against recognizing how bad things might really be. It's that bias that pushes us toward doing what feels comfortable. Right. As you were saying, instead of doing what the situation actually requires. Why do you think this bias is so hard to catch in ourselves?
Speaker B: Well, it's uncomfortable. We don't want to admit how bad things are. Frequently admitting that then requires you to do some hard things, some uncomfortable things. So we have a implicit bias against recognizing those because we don't like it.
Speaker A: It's uncomfortable.
Speaker B: Right, but the problem is that, and I'm not suggesting you be an alarmist whom that every situation is a house on fire. Just don't rule it out until you're sure it doesn't exist. If you don't keep your mind open, you won't see it.
Speaker A: Yeah, and you know, I couldn't agree more. I mean, the leaders who catch this bias early have usually built a habit of asking one honest question to themselves before they act. You know, am I avoiding this because it is actually fine or because looking at it closely is uncomfortable? And that single habit, practice consistently is foundational to pressure proofing your leadership because otherwise how do you deal with pressure, uh, in a day to day scenario now.
Speaker B: And so by the way, I think it's not a coincidence that here I did this training as a medical corpsman and you use the word triage. Well, that's pure triage. You have to treat the bleeding first or it's not going to matter what else you treat. Similarly, in business problems, you have to treat the most serious problems first or else whatever you do isn't going to matter.
Speaker A: And one thing that you mentioned, and when we first spoke to each other, um, you mentioned a phrase. You go back too often. I think you know what I'm talking about. Tell our listeners about it.
Speaker B: You better. Okay, maybe. Is it about don't get caught in the thick of thin things?
Speaker A: That's the one. That's the one. Tell us what that means. Tell us a little bit about the story behind this.
Speaker B: So we have a normal human bias to want to do what we can do, not what we should do to do what is easiest to do. And frequently what is important to do is not what's easiest to do, it's harder and it may require you in order to address it. You have to admit to yourself and possibly others about mistakes that were made and the severity of the situation. And that's uncomfortable. And so we sometimes try to avoid that if we can. But avoidance can have tremendous consequences because unless the underlying company is making good red zinfandel wine, time is not your friend. If they're making wine, take your time, it's going to get better. I haven't had that one yet.
Speaker A: I think we can all relate to that one.
Speaker B: So you've got to get on with it. And just like in dealing with emergency room medicine, you have to deal with the most important issues first to preserve your ability to deal with the lesser important issues.
Speaker A: And, uh, if we dive deeper into this. So a lot of people might be listening and saying or asking themselves to say, okay, it all sounds great, but how do you develop that ability to be able to focus on, um, what matters to be able to do that triage? Where do I start? What would you tell them?
Speaker B: Well, so you've got to constantly ask yourself, okay, what am I missing here? Am I giving in to my own desire for comfort and relaxation and somehow avoiding seeing what I need to see? You can even ask yourself a hypothetical question. If I were to assume I'm missing something here, what would that be? What might I be missing? How do I rule out missing anything? How can I test what it is I'm thinking, I'm seeing to make sure it's verifiable? Is anybody giving me a different opinion and I just don't want to hear it, so I'm not listening? Am I avoiding seeing evidence that's in plain view because I don't like it? This is all normal human, human behavioral that can unfortunately lead to less favorable outcomes.
Speaker A: Absolutely. And what we've seen, and I've seen in my work and research is that when people are under pressure, they will default to a pattern that they probably, you know, been defaulting to most of their lives that kept them alive. So the brain is registering a certain behavior that is not necessarily serving them in different situations. So being able to, I mean, having that self awareness enough to be able to ask those questions, or at least having a framework which I call pressure proof leadership in the way what you've described, it matches that because you have a system that you've installed and practiced where you ask yourself certain questions that are related to your environment, to your situation, to your day to day that you know will bring you clarity when, when you need it the most. And uh, a lot of times we don't do that. We're not prepared to stop and ask ourselves the questions. Because it all sounds great on paper, but how do you snap out of the panic or the survival brain that maybe wants to speed up and make a decision or freeze and completely avoid making a decision or control every single little detail about the decision or the situation? So that reset is important to be able to stop and ask yourself these questions. And this needs to be installed in your day to day and practiced. Otherwise you're not going to default to it naturally because you haven't really wired it in. It's a habit and the more you practice it, the better it gets.
Speaker B: That's right. And you know, you know there may be going on in your world or your environment a tendency to view such thinking as pessimism and fatalism. And you may be surrounded by people who poo poo it and who feed that tendency to overlook things. And I'm not suggesting you'd be an alarmist or a pessimist. I'm just saying recognize your own implicit bias that may lead you to miss things. Ask yourself the tough questions.
Speaker A: Yeah. Which I think is brilliant because, because you don't want to be caught in a blind spot. Right. Clarity that, you know, leadership is clarity. Leadership is alignment. Leadership is looking at the things sometimes you don't want to look at. And leadership is doing the things sometimes you don't want to do and having that calm authority to show up and do it, even if it's, you're stepping in outside your comfortable, your comfortable zone. Right. So it's um, definitely not pessimism. And very clear. Thank you very much Howard, for clarifying that. Because it's important. This is not what we're talking about, just in case. Now we're already at the point where I, I, we're going to dive into some rapid fires. Just quick answers. I'll be asking you very short questions as well. Now the first one, one word that would describe pressure,
Speaker B: I would say, um, concern. Frustration. Worry. Pressure creates anxiety.
Speaker A: Mhm. Okay. That definitely. I couldn't agree more. A lot of people spiral down because of pressure, but uh, we don't have to if we're, we have that framework and we've practiced right. What we're talking about. So there's hope. And we're not being pessimist here. Okay, here's the next one. Best, uh, advice you ever received, I
Speaker B: would say, you know, to keep your eye on what really matters, not what is most available or easy or attractive. You have to keep your eye on what really matters. And we all have A tendency to not do that, to be distracted by what might be more interesting or more fun or less worrisome, more enjoyable. But all of those may lead you away from what you should be doing.
Speaker A: Okay? So focus on what matters. Here's another one. A habit you are glad you broke.
Speaker B: Uh, you know, I would say along, along those lines that, you know, I had earlier in my career, a tendency to just do everything, quote, unquote, by the book. That doesn't mean I don't follow rules, but just recognize that the rules may have been written for a normal situation. And frequently situations are not normal. So you have to ask yourself, are the rules going to work here? Are they going to apply? That doesn't mean you should break the rules, but there may be a method for deviating from the rules with proper authorization. But you have to ask. But if you don't ask, you never get to do it.
Speaker A: Well, that is a perfect place to land. Howard, thank you. Thank you so much. Now, if you're leading a team or sitting on a board right now and you want to know exactly where pressure is already costing you, I suggest that you take the Pressure and Performance Scorecard. It's a free four minute, very short diagnostic at, uh, claire hayek.com pp scorecard in maps where pressure is limiting your leadership and your team's performance and tells you where it's costing you right now. I'm also, as already mentioned, have an upcoming book. It's called the Leadership Skill nobody taught you call Under Fire in the Age of Disruption. And it's coming out September 9th. If you're interested in joining pretty much the early Readers club with exclusive access to the book before it launches and maybe some webinars and some little surprises along the way, you can join@clairehive.com book to sign up. Finally, do subscribe Follow Share this episode if it resonated with you when you hit the subscribe button, it does more than you think it does. Every subscriber helps the show grow, reach further, and bring you the caliber of guests and conversations that really matter to you. Just like the one we had today with Howard. Now, Howard, any last words before we wrap up?
Speaker B: I would say maybe use this program as an opportunity to take a fresh look at whatever you're doing and how you're doing it. And do it with an open mind, not assuming you're wrong, but also not assuming you're right. And maybe try to look at it with a fresh set of eyes from the outside in, are we not just doing things right, but Are we doing the right things?
Speaker A: I love that. I love that. This couldn't have been a better way to end this episode. Again, Howard, thank you so much for joining us and for your insights. Everyone else listening or watching this, do check the description for all the links. Otherwise, lead boldly, stay human, and turn every challenge into a gift. And we will see you all next week. Bye, Howard.
Speaker B: Bye. Bye. Thank you. Thank you.