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Talking Shop: A Conversation with Educational Leaders (S. 1; E. 17) ft. Treasure Pickett

Talking Shop: A Conversation with Educational Leaders · 2024-10-24 · 45 min

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Key moments - from our scoring

Substance score

29 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density5 / 20
Originality4 / 20
Guest Caliber10 / 20
Specificity & Evidence6 / 20
Conversational Craft4 / 20

This episode features Mike Randolph and Martin Avtuk interviewing Treasure Pickett about leading other educational leaders. Pickett traces her 25+ year journey from coaching girls basketball and teaching PE at Clay High School through roles as assistant principal at Orange Park High School (where she worked with Mike Elia and Ray Dukes), vice principal at Middleburg High School under Mr. Broski, principal at Orange Park High for six years, principal at Oak Leaf High School, and finally chief of secondary schools in the district. She emphasizes how coaching experience directly translates to school leadership - both require managing people, structuring time, communicating with parents, budgeting, and motivating teams toward goals. A major focus is her 20-60-20 rule (borrowed from Leadership Freak's Jen Collins), which frames daily challenges: accept that 20% of your day involves difficult tasks, 60% consists of routine duties, and 20% should be dedicated to celebrating wins. This mindset prevents principal burnout and helps leaders maintain perspective during contentious times like elections, hurricanes, and economic challenges. Pickett also discusses her transition from school-based to district-level leadership, initially feeling lost when moving from autonomous principal to assistant at the district office, but eventually finding purpose in mentoring secondary principals and serving as their thought partner and sounding board.

Key takeaways

  • →Coaches naturally transition to school leadership because they already manage people, organize time, budget, fundraise, and communicate with parents and students - skills directly transferable to leading a school.
  • →The 20-60-20 rule helps leaders manage burnout by accepting that 20% of their day will be difficult, 60% routine, and intentionally finding and celebrating the positive 20% to maintain perspective.
  • →Vulnerability and collaborative decision-making among school leaders produces better outcomes than isolated decision-making, whether through group discussions or averaging disciplinary recommendations.
  • →The transition from school-based to district leadership requires finding a new identity and purpose; mentoring other principals and serving as their thought partner becomes the equivalent of leading a school organization.
  • →Leaders must actively seek out positive moments and people when having rough days to counter negativity, which can spread quickly throughout an organization.

Guests

Treasure Pickett

Topics in this episode

20-60-20 mindset ruleClay High SchoolOrange Park High SchoolOak Leaf High SchoolLake Asbury Jr. HighMiddleburg High SchoolUNF education leadership certificationLeadership Freak (Jen Collins)Principal mentorship and evaluationCollaborative discipline decision-making

Questions this episode answers

Why do coaches make good school principals?

Coaches already manage people, structure time, organize communication with parents, budget, and fundraise - the same core skills required for principal leadership. Principalship is essentially coaching a larger organization (the whole school) instead of a sports team.

What is the 20-60-20 rule and how does it help principals?

It's a mindset framework where you accept that 20% of your day involves difficult tasks you dislike, 60% consists of routine duties and obligations, and 20% should be positive experiences. Recognizing this structure helps prevent burnout and allows leaders to intentionally seek and celebrate the good moments.

How did Treasure Pickett transition from being a high school principal to a district-level leader?

She initially felt lost when moving from an autonomous principal role to assistant principal at the district office, but eventually found purpose mentoring secondary principals, serving as their thought partner and sounding board rather than managing day-to-day school operations.

How do principals make better disciplinary decisions?

By bringing multiple perspectives together, such as having a team meet to discuss cases and average their recommendations rather than making isolated decisions; this collaborative approach typically produces more balanced, fairer outcomes.

What schools did Treasure Pickett lead as a principal?

She was principal at Orange Park High School for six years and then Oak Leaf High School before transitioning to her current role as chief of secondary schools.

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

5 / 20

The episode is dominated by career retrospective storytelling and social rapport-building, with essentially one borrowed mindset framework (the 20-60-20 rule) as the sole structured insight. Long stretches pass with zero actionable content, and even the framework is sourced from a blog post and introduced incorrectly by the co-host as '80-20.'

if you recognize that 20% of your day is going to be tough, it's going to be spent in the things that you don't like to do. But if you recognize that and accept that, then when it happens, it's not as frustrating
you cannot be positive 24, 7 all the time. You have to understand you're going to have tough times

Originality

4 / 20

Every major idea presented - coaches make natural leaders, family first, second chances for struggling kids, team culture rituals, accountability partners - is well-worn conventional wisdom in educational and general leadership circles. The 20-60-20 framework is explicitly credited as borrowed from someone else's blog, and the Nick Saban philosophy is surface-level pop-leadership fare.

good leaders steal things from other people. So if you're not looking to steal something to better yourself, then shame on you
When you're a principal, you a coach, it's just you're a coach of a larger organization

Guest Caliber

10 / 20

Treasure Pickett is a genuine career practitioner - 11 years as a principal across multiple large high schools and 5 years as a district-level chief of secondary schools - not a career speaker or thought leader. However, the conversation never extracts expertise at depth, and her domain is county-level public K-12 administration, with limited relevance to B2B operators.

after 11 years of doing the same thing, I was really ready for a new challenge
my role now is to mentor principles, secondary principles. Okay. So, so now, although, you know, I evaluate them, but more, more I'm their mentor, their sounding board

Specificity & Evidence

6 / 20

A handful of concrete data points appear - a graduation rate increase from 67% to 90%, a school earning back-to-back 'double A' grades, roughly seven or eight principals developed from her coaching tree - but these are mentioned in passing without analysis. The vast majority of the episode is anecdote, name-dropping of local colleagues, and general reflection.

Mike's taken his school from, you know, they were like 68%. Something crazy to know. 67% to what? 90% this year
our scores in secondary were on the move this year

Conversational Craft

4 / 20

Both hosts are self-described 'disciples' and former direct reports of the guest, producing an entirely unchallenging, congratulatory conversation. Questions are uniformly biographical prompts or validation-seeking setups; no claim is probed, no tension is introduced, and even a mathematical error in the central framework is laughed off rather than corrected.

I am also a disciple from the Treasure Picket, coach and tree at Orange, uh, Park
I can tell you, I learned so much under you. So I'm just excited to, uh, dive back in and to get back into learning from you

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.

Share of words spoken

  • Speaker A70%
  • Speaker C16%
  • Speaker B15%

Most-used words

school40principal26high26kids23team20back19mike18family16leaders14secondary14first14proud13coach13love13orange12park12

Episode notes

Summary In this episode of Talking Shop, hosts Mike Randolph and Martin Aftuck engage with Treasure Pickett, the Chief of Secondary Schools for Clay County (FL), discussing her extensive journey in education. They explore the transition from coaching to leadership, the importance of maintaining a positive mindset through the 20-60-20 rule, and the challenges of balancing family and professional responsibilities. Treasure shares insights on effective leadership, the influence of coaching philosophies, and the significance of teamwork in achieving educational success. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Leadership Journeys 02:07 Treasure Pickett's Educational Path 08:34 Transitioning from Coaching to Leadership 11:37 The 20-60-20 Rule in Leadership 17:59 From School-Based to District Leadership 25:14 Passion for Alabama Football and Leadership Lessons 25:48 Teamwork and Accountability in Coaching 27:00 The Importance of Second Chances 28:50 Friendship and Accountability 30:14 Balancing Family and Professional Life 36:22 Celebrating Success and Retaining Talent 38:59 The Impact of Leadership on Student Success 41:05 The Legacy of Leadership and Mentorship

Full transcript

45 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

Speaker A: Foreign.

Speaker B: Hello and welcome to Talking Shop, A, uh, conversation with educational leaders. My name is Mike Randolph, and I'm the proud principal of the Leesburg High School. And I'm joined by my co host, Martin Avtuk, the proud principal of Middleburg High School. And today we are joined by the chief of secondary schools and former principal of Oak Leaf High School and Orange Park High School, Mrs. Treasure Pickett. Treasurer, how are you doing today?

Speaker A: I am doing great. We were in the middle of some principals meetings and AP meetings. So, um, you know, that's. That's a great time when you can meet with great leaders for the day.

Speaker B: Yes, ma'.

Speaker A: Am.

Speaker B: And I'm so excited to dive in and talk about how you lead other leaders and really what guidance you give for other leaders. And I can tell you that's something that I miss having your leadership. I had the opportunity and the pleasure to serve under Treasurer Pickett as the vice principal for two years. And can I tell you, I learned so much under you. So I'm just excited to, uh, dive back in and to get back into learning from you.

Speaker C: I am also a disciple from the Treasure Picket, coach and tree at Orange, uh, Park. She hired me as athletic director. Uh, I was a teacher there, and then I had an opportunity for a long stint at Oak Leaf High School as an assistant principal before I started principalship. The Joe, every time we talk about it, it gets shorter and shorter. But, uh, get to work with Treasure every day as my, my boss and mentor. So it's pretty cool to have you on Treasure.

Speaker A: Yeah. And first of all, I'd just like to say, you know, old dogs can learn new tricks. So I learned from you all as well. So, uh, I, I've grown by surrounding myself with, with good people like you all. So I, uh, thoroughly enjoy being a small part of your life.

Speaker B: Oh, trust me, you are much bigger than a small part of our life. But, you know, I'm excited to dive in. So let's go ahead and dive in, and let's start by talking about your leadership journey. How did you get to your current seat? Kind of talk about your progression in education. All.

Speaker A: Uh, right. Well, I started out in South Carolina and was teaching there and doing some coaching and got my master's in secondary ed. Uh, because it was never anything I wanted to do except coach girls basketball in my whole life. You know, never wanted to do anything else. So I'm like, okay, I'll get my master's, but I'm just going to get it in secondary ed because this is Where I want to be. So we transition. Um, Mike is. My husband, is from this area. So after we had Carson, my daughter, we moved back here. And I was blessed enough to be hired by Mr. Owens at Clay High School to coach girls basketball and teach PE So, again, a great place surrounded by some great people. You know, Ron Riddle, Dave Mitchell, Robbie Thompson, those great people. And I'm telling you, we had some fun down there in that, uh, that Clay High gym. There was a lot of volleyball.

Speaker C: I heard about some epic volleyball games.

Speaker A: Yeah, Yeah, a lot of instruction. We didn't roll out the balls because we were always playing. So a lot of instruction going on there. But I loved it. And, um, then the county offered the opportunity to think I was one of the first cohorts where UNF came out to the district. And you could take most of your classes, um, out here. And actually, I think most of them were at Middleburg High School. And then you had to go back to UNF for a couple. So I just had to do, like, 24 hours because I had to get just my certification, um, in ed leadership. I didn't have to get my master's since I'd already gotten it. So I went on and did that and then just kept teaching and coaching because I loved it. I mean, I just had the best job ever. And my husband kept going, like, when, you know, hey, we paid for that master's. When are we going to use it? So, um, and actually, a funny story, I remember it like it was yesterday. I played in tennis leagues and things like that. And, you know how you got to meet at the net and talk about yourself and stuff. So we were meeting there, and I always was proud to say, I teach at Clay High. I coach girls basketball. Um, I love it. And for the first time ever, it was like, okay, that's not enough. Been there, done that. I need something new. So I was lucky enough. That was when Fleming was opening. And so Orange Park High, uh, Mr. Wingate was selected as the principal there. And since people were moving to Fleming, of course, um, it opened up quite a few positions at Orange Park. So I was lucky enough to find my way down to Keystone somehow and interview down there, and, uh, somehow impressed him enough to. To get the job as an assistant principal at Orange Park High. And loved it. I mean, just learned so much. And it was at that time, remember, there's no Oak Leaf, so Orange Park's

Speaker C: big, big 3,000 kids.

Speaker B: Yeah.

Speaker A: Uh, yeah. So, um, worked also with Mike Elia and, you know, Ray Dukes and Jim Salem. Some. Some good people there, uh, and loved every minute of it. And then I had worked with Mr. Broski. He was a dean and I think an AP at Clay High. And through the years, he got the job at Middleburg as the principal. So, uh, he interviewed and I went to Middleburg then as the vice principal under Mr. Broski and did that for a couple years and loved it. Uh, and then Mr. Owens. This is when Lake Asbury Jr. Was opening and Mr. Wingate was ready to transition. So Mr. Owens, who, remember, had hired me at Clay High, said, hey, got a couple of options for you. Um, you know, I think you'd be a good fit at either. Which one would you love? And so it was Orange Park High or Lake Asbury Jr. So we could get into it a little bit later. But you both know me. Families first. Families first. And, um, so I had a daughter that was in athletics and a husband coaching. So, honestly, the time of high school worked better for my life. And I actually was very honest with Mr. Owens, and I said, look, you know, first of all, I love Orange Park High. I've been there. I love it. But secondly, the time works better, and, um, you know, I need to get to some games and things like that. And he was like, treasure. When you make a decision like that, you make a decision based on all factors, you know, and if family's that important and that what fits your life, then that means you'll be good at it. And so I'm like, here I come, Orange Park. And, uh, headed back to the Raider Dome, and, uh, stayed there for six years, and again, no Oak Leaf for a little while. And then Oak Leaf opened, so we lost quite a few students. And, wow, it's pretty nice there. For a couple of years, I was like, okay, this is what a normal high school size looks like. And then when Mr. Broski got the, uh, assistant superintendent's job, um, they asked me if I would go to Oak Leaf. And of course, beautiful school, new school, new challenge. And of course, I said yes, and, uh, went over there. And again, love, loved it. It's where Mike and I got connected. And, uh, he helped me through that first year of the transition to the Oak Leaf way. Um, and so stayed there. And then once Mr. Wingate left, um, being principals for the young folks, so, um, you know, I was able to.

Speaker C: I don't know, for the young folks anymore. I don't know about that.

Speaker B: Do you see all of this gray?

Speaker A: I'm telling you. But I was ready for, again, a new challenge and a new Step, um, challenge. Being principal is a challenge every single day. And I'm telling you, if I had to go back to be principal again, I would be a new principal. I mean, so much has changed in just the five years I've been out. But at that time, what was happening is every day was a little different, but the things I was doing was the same thing. And after 11 years of doing the same thing, I was really ready for a new challenge. So was, uh, blessed enough to be hired by Mr. Broski again, um, and, um, named chief of secondary right after the COVID year. And this is where I am.

Speaker B: Fantastic. So thank you so much for taking us through that journey. And I can tell you, you helped us, uh, transition during when you came to Oakleaf. And that was such a nice transition, uh, for us there in our, uh, Knight family there. I was about to say our jacket family. I'm here at Leesburg. So you said a lot, uh, during that time. But one thing that you hit on was, was your time as a coach. And then transitioning from a coach to a leader. Can you dive into that a little bit more? Why do you feel good coaches make good leaders.

Speaker C: And what qualities a theme on here as well?

Speaker A: Oh, there is no doubt. And it angers me when people say, why do coaches become. Why do all the coaches get jobs as principals? Well, first of all, we know how to manage kids. We know how to be organized, we know how to structure time, we know how to communicate. We know how to communicate with parents. We know how to budget, we know how to fundraise. I mean, what do we not do when you're a coach? And so all of those. And both of you have heard me say this before. When you're a principal, you a coach, it's just you're a coach of a larger organization, uh, instead of a specific team, you're now coaching a whole school. You still have, ah, parents, you still have students, you still have teachers, you still have goals, you still have strategies. You still are finding ways to motivate people, um, to involve people. So it's just such a natural fit. Principalship is coaching. You're just coaching your school instead of your, uh, team. And that's why it's such a natural fit.

Speaker C: And I think you see that with coaches coming in also having those difficult conversations because you have to have it with kids, you have to have it with adults. And then you've got to be able to learn from those as well. I mean, I'm sure all of us, you know, I look at Myself, this is m, my seventh year as a principal. From my first year to now, even from, you know, how I thought the chair looks. You know, I, I, I'll never forget like there was this young lady at Orange park who was so fired up, man, she was, and, and I just said hello or did what, I don't remember what we did. And, and uh, I saw Mr. Wingate come up and start talking to her and I was like, man, he's going to give it to her. Like it's, and he just walked up, all right darling, tell me what's going on. And I'm like, hold on a second. That's, it's like there's the secret. It's being able to, you know, take care of those things and have those conversations. Treasure one thing that uh, like I got the, I've the absolute pleasure of working with you for years and learning from you and talk about like your 208020 rule because it's something that I think it really will resonate with principles. We want our uh, people to listen and we want our leaders to kind of come out of it with like, like you'll watch Mike and I writing down the entire time like I'm writing. But this 208020 rule really helps put in perspective going, go ahead.

Speaker A: Right. And so I'm actually, you know, good leaders steal things from other people. So if you're not looking to steal something to better yourself, then shame on you. But um, Jen Collins actually um, on a Leadership Freak. It's an email that comes out um, for leaders and she had gotten an article and it's a very short blog each day and some of it's applicable. You know, it resonates with different people. But the 206020 is a mindset for no matter what job you have because so many times, especially as principals, we can focus on the tough, the tough aspects of our job and the frustrations of our job. Not just student discipline, but you know, teachers not doing, you know, what you asked them to do or uh, parents not happy or uh, there's just so many things and we can get bogged down in that. And so when I read the little blog, it talked about 60, 2060 and changing your mindset because I'm not a self help person. Like don't tell me to stay positive all day. That's impossible. Okay, you got to have some downtime. Everybody's got to have their own time to waller in their, their frustration. So the 206020 is if you recognize tell.

Speaker C: I'm not a math person. I said 80, 20.

Speaker B: You know, I didn't want to say anything.

Speaker C: Hey, hey. I didn't take college algebra. I didn't take college algebra three times because I was really good at it. Go ahead.

Speaker A: I just let it roll. But, um, 20% of your day, if you just recognize that 20% of your day is going to be tough, it's going to be spent in the things that you don't like to do. But if you recognize that and accept that, then when it happens, it's not as frustrating. And then 60% of your day is set up in routine things. You know, the things you do every day, the duty that you do, the cafeteria duty, the, uh, walkthroughs you do, all those things are just what you have to do every day. And then the 20%, the last 20% is just amazing experiences or times when those kids come out, those seniors, and they've passed the fast test, or when, you know, volleyball wins state, or when your football team wins a big game, or when a kid comes up to you and is excited about something, or a parent gives you a positive email or a compliment, like, you need to have that 20% and you need to appreciate and wallow a bit in that as well. So it helped me because, you know, in my position now, uh, I've filled a lot of phone calls and things, but, but I get to do other things as well. You know, I get to mentor principals and go to principal meetings and, and learning walks. So when that parent, when my secretary says this parent called, I don't go, oh, uh, I can't stand this job. I just Simply now go, 20%. 20%.

Speaker B: Yes.

Speaker A: And then I'm like, oh, well, let me call this one parent back, and then I'll move on to the other things that I need to do. And then hopefully in the day, if the conversation ends good with a parent, that might end up being the best 20. Uh, so it just, it goes back because you cannot be positive 24, 7 all the time. You have to understand you're going to have tough times, and if you can accept those tough times, then it's going to make the rest of your attitude a lot better.

Speaker B: You know, that acceptance piece of the tough times and just knowing that you're going to face them and, and not getting bogged down in the tough times. Right. And really making it 20% of your day so that you can get to that 60% of your routine so that you can get to that 20% of celebration. That's something I'm taking back. And thank you for reminding me of that so that I can take back to my team as well. Because I can tell you, especially coming off of the hurricane and just different things, it's easy for that first 20% to expand to 30% to 40% because you feel like, oh, uh, you're behind. We've missed four instructional days. We have this to do, we have that to do. So just reminding ourselves and entering the day, accepting that we're going to have those tough times, but knowing that we need to make sure to find those positives as well.

Speaker C: And also, like, it's contentious times right now. You're going through it, you know, it's election time. We're going through coming out of hurricanes, people are, it's a tough economy. So hitting refresh right now on your email is, is you're rolling the dice. But like, I got like, okay, what do we got? What do we got coming in? But I had a, I'll get on

Speaker A: the phone and I'll go, okay, 20%, 20%, treasure. 20%, you know, and then when I'm done with it, I put it aside

Speaker C: that 20%, you know, I've started saving like the positive. I've got a couple, three or four positive just this week where it's like, all right, let's, let's focus on this. Because it's so easy to get bogged down in that, that other 20, the negative.

Speaker A: So totally sometimes you have to go find that top 20%, you know, and you can do that. I mean, I, I know there was some teachers at Oak Leaf that if I was having a rough day and needed something positive, I could always go into this teacher's class and just find something positive. So sometimes you have to find it, but you gotta find it because otherwise, um, you know, it's, it's negativity can be contagious.

Speaker C: I've got those teachers like that.

Speaker B: Mhm.

Speaker C: And I've got like, I'll go to our Bronco, uh, building blocks. The kids there.

Speaker A: Oh yes.

Speaker C: You walk in there like automatic rock star. So that's always good. Go ahead, Mike.

Speaker A: Sorry.

Speaker B: Oh, no, no, no. I was just going to say for us, it's our Cambridge classes and our construction classes. We go in there and again you see your, uh, scholars working with, uh, their hands and then learning at an elite level. That's at 20%. But I was also going to say, imagine if you go home just 80% full every day. Right. Because you're only looking at the 20% negative in the routine. That's how Principal Burnout really happens. So, you know, really looking and finding that 20%. So that's a perfect time to kind of transition to this question. Uh, so five years as a district leader. Describe your transition from a school based leader to a district, uh, based leader. And then, you know, just what that looks like.

Speaker A: So I'm going to be totally honest and vulnerable here. You know, I, it wasn't that I didn't want to be principal any longer. I just needed a new challenge. Okay, and you both are high school principals and you know what comes with being a high school principal? Like, you're in charge of a lot of stuff and you're the man and you're the one, you know, making the decisions. And in good, bad, whatever, you know, most of the time we're pretty proud people and we're in charge of a lot.

Speaker C: Mhm.

Speaker A: So when. And a lot of people. So when I went down to the district office, I didn't really. My role changed a little bit because Mr. Wingate had a lot of athletics and, and things like that in his wheelhouse, so he didn't do as much of the curriculum. But then at the same time, we hired our, um, district athletic director. So that went away. And I had a lot of experience or more experience in curriculum. So that. So the two jobs were a little different. But in the transition, it was transition. So all of a sudden I'm in an office of two people and not in charge of anyone. And having been, you know, a principal for 11 years, I was like, okay, what am I doing? Like, who else? What am, what am I?

Speaker B: I can imagine it being very quiet.

Speaker A: Yeah. And then all of a sudden I realized I was Mr. Broski's assistant principal, you know, because he's the principal and now I'm the assistant. And I was like, uh, I don't know about this. You know, this is different because I didn't have a lot of, at that time, responsibilities or had not learned my responsibilities. But as time wore on and I realized, okay, my role now is to mentor principles, secondary principles. Okay. So, so now, although, you know, I evaluate them, but more, more I'm their mentor, their sounding board, their communicator. So then I found my niche again and said, okay, now I am in charge of people. I can lead. Uh, I was a little lost, not leading for a little while, and that we were just coming out of COVID and so a lot of it, you know, was the. The what? OCO year. And it was just very odd. So then as I, as we came out of that. And I realized, okay, now I'm. I'm. I have a group of people to lead. I'm going to lead these principles. And the great thing is about that is that it's a lot like high school. You know, you don't lead each teacher the same way. You don't lead each principal the same way. You know, I don't. I don't lead Martin the same way I lead Ms. Auguste, that I lead Lori Burke, you know, that I lead Dustin James. So then I'm like, okay, okay, I'm a leader again. Okay? I am leading people, helping people. It tends to be what I like to do. Solve problems, help people. Um, so I felt, I guess, significant again, or felt like I was a leader. But it wasn't an easy transition, that was for sure. Especially with the oco. We really weren't in school a lot anyway, and it was. It was odd. But like I said, you know, you find your footing. And now I've got, uh, the best job. You know, I get to lead these secondary people and use some of my experience, but also, you know, help them. If they don't have time to call somebody, call me and let me. Let me do the groundwork. Let me call the other department and see if I can get an answer. Let me walk across the street, or Let me ask Mr. Broski. So I sort of try to be that, um, that support for them as well.

Speaker B: Well, just having that thought partner, uh, in this game is so important, right? And not just leaning on other leaders as that thought partner, but leaning on someone from the county office. Ah.

Speaker C: So I like calling treasurer and saying, okay, here's what I'm thinking. And then if she's like, that's probably what I would do, then I'm like, okay, that's. And it isn't always the same thing, but that's like, all right. I feel like I've. I've solved the. Okay, I'm getting there. I'm getting there.

Speaker A: Right? Got a little, you know, and as principals, you have so much. So much in your brain. To think outside the box is. Is difficult sometimes. And. And you both know that's why I needed assistance. I was like, guys, y' all gotta help me. Yep. Y' all gotta. Y' all gotta bring fresh ideas. Because I can get in such a rut in such a tunnel vision that I can't see or be creative. It's hard to be creative when, you know, when you got a lot of weight on you. So, um, this relationship is just, hey, give me your thoughts. On it. Either, have you done it before? Or I need to listen. And sometimes Martin will say. He'll talk it out, and then he'll say, okay, I got my answer. You know, just having someone to talk to, um, or something like that. Or like, the other day we were doing a situation, and I was sort of like, well, what are you thinking then? I'll tell you what I'm thinking. And then probably somewhere in the middle

Speaker C: is a. I like what you talked about, like, oss, because everyone's got their idea of what something happens. All right, this should be this 10 day and recommendation. So Treasure would be like, all right, everyone on your hands, right? You have five, four, three, two, one. How many days? And then, you know, you put it out there.

Speaker A: I used to do that because, you know, Mike and I, Nate, and we all have a little bit different perspective on discipline. And so if somebody said nine days, and I thought three days, I'm like, uh, so we would all meet in the cafeteria, like, rock, paper, scissors, and you put out how many days? And, you know, because there were five of us, um, we take the average. And usually that was probably. If you don't go extremes and go in the average, you're probably making a pretty good decision. So it's never. It's never, um. It's always okay to be vulnerable as a leader and ask for assistance and. And ask for help, because if you don't make the wrong decision, that's worse, you know, so. Always, man. I don't mind saying, hey, guys, let's get. I mean, that's a team, right?

Speaker B: Exactly. Uh-huh.

Speaker A: Hey, guys, we need to get in my office. We need to. Let's go over this. Everybody has a little different perspective, and usually, as a team, we can come up with the best decision. It's hard to make a great decision in isolation.

Speaker C: Speaking of teams, let's talk Alabama football.

Speaker A: I should have done this last year.

Speaker C: No, no, no. I'm intrigued. I didn't.

Speaker B: Or two weeks ago.

Speaker C: Right. I was never really like. But reading Nick Saban books and watch. Talk about your love for Alabama football and Nick Saban in particular.

Speaker A: Right. So my grandparents and all are from Alabama, so that. That started a long time ago. But, um, I've read a lot of Saban's books and. And I follow him, and I just, um. I like some of his philosophies, especially just like in coaching. He. He wasn't all about the external things. It was more about, let's get in there, let's do our job. You're going to do your job for you, and you're doing your job for the person next to you, so that makes a team, you know, and so you're not doing it just for yourself and your own gratitude, but you're working hard for your teammate. And he would always. That's what he'd always say, like, in practice, like, guys, you know, we don't have defense taking it easy and offense working hard because you're not helping your offensive teammates if you're not going hard on defense. Like, we both got to push each other and challenge each other, which then makes the whole team successful and the unit successful. So we can't sit and be comfortable. We always have to be willing to challenge ourself. For yourself, but more for the guy standing next to you.

Speaker B: Absolutely.

Speaker A: Yeah. That's one thing I like. Um, you know, another thing I like, he said one time, because when some kids got in trouble at Alabama or wherever, sometimes we would dog these coaches when they wouldn't kick the kids off the, you know, the team. And we'd be like, can't believe you let that kid stay on the team. And he responded one time, he goes, okay, would you rather me kick him off and him just go back to his hometown and not get a job and just hang out on the streets? Or I could rehabilitate him.

Speaker B: Yes.

Speaker A: I could help him, and I could get him to learn from his mistakes and grow and become a young man. In fact, there is an example of one of his players.

Speaker C: I remember reading about it and then, yeah, Urban Meyer. Urban Meyer was the same thing with a kid out of Daytona. He kicked off a team and ended up passing away. It was given those second chances. Nick Sundays even like, second, third, fourth. He wants to save the kid.

Speaker A: So, yeah, this kid got in trouble, but Saban left him. You know, he. Now you just don't leave them. They have to do their. They have to do their. Their consequences and stuff. But, um, you know, but the. The guy ended up. He has a family now, and, like, his daughters went to Harvard, and they're a doctor. And he's like, look at what came of me giving this kid a second chance. Because I'm not gloating, but that's the mentality we have to have. We've all made mistakes. We've all made mistakes. We have to offer opportunities for kids and players and things to grow. And then, you know, one story that resonated me was when I think it was Henry Ruggs got, um, arrested out there. I think he had been, um, drafted

Speaker B: By Vegas again in Las Vegas Raiders.

Speaker A: Yeah. And he got in that car accident, and, you know, I think some other people passed away as a result and pretty much lost his life. But Saban came on, and he was talking one time, and he goes, you know, I feel for Henry. I really do. I feel for what he's going through. He goes, but I'm angry, too. And somebody said, why? And he said, because he didn't have a friend that was strong enough to stand up and grab his keys and say, you're not driving. He goes, that angers me that there was nobody there for him to stand up. I know he's a football player. I know he makes a lot of money. So, you know, be careful who your friends are. Do you have true friends that are going to be honest with you when you. You need to have that honesty, um, because it could save your life or hanging around you because of the money you have or the. The position you have or something like that. I thought that was a good story. Story for kids, man. Have somebody know somebody that. Or talk to somebody about. Man, I need you to be my friend. If. If I'm not doing right, I need to. I need an accountability partner.

Speaker B: Yes. Well, you know, we often say that love isn't just letting someone do whatever they want to do. You know, love is being willing to have those hard conversations and stopping someone from really damaging themselves. So. So I'm glad that you brought that up, and, uh, those are great traits to, uh, live by. So, earlier, you talked about the importance of family first, especially as an administrator, and you kind of glossed over it. Uh, your husband, Mike, is one of the most, if not the most successful soccer coach in the state of Florida. And Carson is a representative, uh, USA Soccer and a professional athlete. So. So talk about, especially for the administrators listening, just the importance of finding that balance, that homework balance.

Speaker A: Right. So, first of all, I'm so glad that y' all invited me on here, because Mike and Carson have already done podcasts, so, as usual, you know, mom's number three, uh, you know, bringing up the rear. So I. Number one in our house, I can.

Speaker C: Now, we brought. Hey, we brought you before. Before Mike or Carson.

Speaker B: Exactly.

Speaker A: Yes. So we're, you know, we're a very athletic family, and we. We've always been involved in athletics, but with just the three of us, we've. We've always been, um, there to support each other. And so it, um, you know, with my always. I think you all agree with my admin team, it was like, okay, I Need you to come to work. Okay. I need you to be here. But if it's dads take your daughter to school day or if it's, uh, you know, they're in a play, I need you to be there because that's so much more important. And as administrators, we see what it's like for children without any family or parents that are involved, and it's tough. So I'm sure you've all walked kids across for senior night that didn't have anybody that would come that night. Man, that just kills you. So, you know, I've always been a family first person. I'm lucky that, that I have a husband that understands as well, and that's a coach. Um, I understand. I got lucky also that Carson went to school with Mike K12. So it was. He would always take her to school. So I had that luxury. But. But, um, you know, if I was going to be at work unless Carson had a game somewhere or something like that and I needed to miss and, um, tried, you know, many nights driving to Tallahassee on Thursday at 2 and back on Thursday night and then back somewhere on Saturday. But that's what you do for your family. But that's what you do for your school family as well, you know, because as a leader, you should be the hardest working person at your school. Nobody should outwork you. So, um, you want to make sure you set the example. But I was really blessed in that Carson and Mike went to school together, um, for so long, and then I could meet them at games. And I was lucky to have teams that I trusted, um, that would be okay if I needed to miss a day or leave early for something. I always felt very comfortable leaving school and leaving it in the hands of my team because they were very good. But I encourage you guys to. And moms out there, you have to take time for your kids. They have to see you there. Um, you have to plan intentional time. In fact, as administrators, when we do our monthly calendar, I was like, okay, everybody grab your calendar and we go. I, you know, I might say, well, I can't do this Tuesday because Carson has a game. And then Mike or somebody may say, well, I can't do this. Or, you know, and, and we all worked around it and that's how we did it. So that not everybody had a Friday night. And then if you had something with your family, put it on the list, we mark you off, and then we all just pick up from there because the. Your family's going to be there a lot longer than Your school is. So, um, you have to keep. You have to keep family first. And I'm very proud of my family, um, definitely very successful. So they've done a great job. And it's nice to be a picket. You know, people either know Carson or Mike, and then every once in a while, you know, they'll know treasure. So, uh, it's nice every once in a while to go, hey, Ms. Pickett, instead of, hey, Coach Pickett, or are you Carson's mom or. Or my. Are you Coach Pickett's wife?

Speaker C: So where's Carson Plays in Orlando now?

Speaker A: Yeah, she's in the Orlando. Yeah, for the Orlando prod. So, um, we're pumped about that, but I'm very proud of the accomplishments that both of them have, um, have achieved and, you know, just proud of our family and what we've done in Clay county, and hopefully we've contributed in some small way.

Speaker C: Oh, absolutely, Absolutely. And then Carson was in the waste that the Olympics this year. You got a chance to go over there with her.

Speaker A: Yeah, yeah. She, uh, she got invited to, um, by Nike to be in a think tank over there. And so, um, my dream, I got to meet Dawn Staley, the.

Speaker B: Oh, that's awesome.

Speaker A: So she was there. Got to meet Serena Williams. She was there. And, um, some people from Peloton and juju. Uh, Smith that plays at usc. She's a big. The next up and coming player out there. So it was great. So we got to go to Paris and spend some time with Nike and Paris out there. So mom benefits. Mom benefits.

Speaker B: Ah, not bad. Not a bad gig. So this is m. One of my favorite questions that I love asking all leaders at the. As a leader, at the end of the school year, you're going to look to your best friend. You're going to look to Mr. Broski. You're going to say, we just had the most amazing school year possible. What has to happen over the next seven, eight, nine months for you to say that in May?

Speaker A: Oh, man, that's a toughie. Um, okay. None of my principals go anywhere.

Speaker B: There you go.

Speaker A: I retain everybody. We retain everybody. Um, but the other thing is, we've made such. I mean, the secondary team. I know, Mark, they rocked it this year. I mean, our scores in secondary were on the move this year, and, man, I am so proud of them and the work. We moved their cheese. They had to, in turn, move teachers cheese. And they led and they did it. And the results with our ELA is just, man, because you know, Mike, how hard it is to move that ELA and the work that secondary did this year, man, every time Mr. Broski puts those slides up, it is secondary, secondary, secondary. And so I am so proud of them. And so just to continue to push, you know, and to continue to achieve for our kids and then to retain them, because I love them all. Love it.

Speaker B: Absolutely. Well, that's a great group up in Clay County. I know Martin, you know, just so proud of Martin. Uh, hitting that double A at Middleburg High School back to back, that's huge. You know, that means a lot. As you know, I taught at Middleburg High School. I know you were an assistant principal at Middleburg High School. So, you know, again, so congratulations, Martin, on that accomplishment. And again, it's all led by great leaders. So thank you, treasurer, for really taking the time to really lead those secondary principles.

Speaker C: You know, we talk about the school grades and A's, but when it boils down to, is your. It helps kids, it moves kids. Yeah, everyone's and everyone contributes to school grade, not just your. Those teachers that are in those tested areas, but you've got your CTTE teachers that. Those are the reason kids want to come to school. You've got your coaches that are the ultimate dropout prevention. You've got, you know, your 11th and 12th grade teachers that are helping those kids grad. It's just everyone has a piece of the puzzle. So it's.

Speaker A: It's a team. It's a team effort. There is no doubt. It's a team effort. And I'm telling you, ultimately, you guys are evaluated or graded or looked, you know, at grad, right? Because ultimately, that's what kids.

Speaker B: Graduation.

Speaker A: That's what kids are come to school for all those years, is to graduate. And, man, the graduation rate that we have and the work we do with kids and things like that now to help them, you know, even. Even when they. They come back, you know, they. They come back. Okay, come on, come on. Let's see what we can do for you. And. And it's all worth it on graduation night when mamas are crying and kids are, you know, excited and jumping off the stage and your horns blasting.

Speaker B: Yes.

Speaker A: You can't help it, man, to see the excitement of some of those kids that have graduated. Mike, I know you see it too. It is just, man, it's. It's what that night is about.

Speaker C: Um, Mike's taken his school from, you know, they were like 68%. Something crazy to know. 67% to what?

Speaker B: 90% this year.

Speaker A: That is fantastic. Both of you are just rocking it, man, I couldn't be more proud of you. We appreciate what you're doing and the heart you have for kids and your leadership styles and all that you're doing. Y' all are both amazing, amazing leaders.

Speaker C: I think it goes.

Speaker A: Get to have some fun.

Speaker C: Uh, we do, but I think we also need to come back and look at it like, talking about Nick Saban. You got a pretty significant coaching tree. How many leaders do you have as assistant principals that are now principals or have been principals? Yeah, we got two.

Speaker A: Yeah. Seven or eight, I think. Probably seven or eight that, you know, and got a couple that are ready, uh, just waiting on that. That chance. And that is, you know, I go, Pete McCabe always was the one that loved that. And I think when we retired, we end up getting him, you know, one of those old apple trees.

Speaker B: And you put it.

Speaker A: That was pretty cool. And he loves that thing, things. So, um, you know, it is a great sense of pride when you can see folks that have. That have learned under you or worked under you a little bit. You know, take some of. You have to take your own personalities, but just a little bit of what I learned from this person and a little bit of what I learned from this person and. And mold yourself and your style, because if you don't, every. Each of y' all are different. Each principle I have is different. And. And if you're not yourself and who you are, you're not going to be successful, you know, and then you got to find the right school with the right personality, mesh those two together, and, man, that's success.

Speaker C: Love it.

Speaker B: Absolutely. Well, that's where the magic is. Well, again, treasure, it has been an absolute honor to spend this time with you today. Thank you so much just for your continued guidance, your continued leadership. I know I am blessed to have served under, uh, your leadership. I know Martin will say the same. And. And we were blessed to have you on talking shop today, so thank you for taking the time.

Speaker C: All right, hold on.

Speaker A: Thank you for selecting me. I'm so honored.

Speaker C: You. Listen, you were on the top of the list.

Speaker B: Yes.

Speaker C: Yeah, we had to get better at this before we.

Speaker B: Exactly. We couldn't ask you earlier?

Speaker C: Yes. Hey, we gotta. I got one last question. Okay. The book. Did. Did you ever start the book?

Speaker A: Yes, I do have the book.

Speaker C: The infamous book.

Speaker A: I do have the book.

Speaker C: So what is the book?

Speaker A: Huh?

Speaker C: What is the book? For our listeners?

Speaker A: The book is, uh, just unusual things that have happened that you go, man, I can't believe that happened. I need to write that down. And I started writing them down. So I've got some, uh, some things in there that could be published, of course. Got a few things that couldn't ever be published. So, um. But yeah, they. They are some. Some funny things that have happened, some unusual things that have happened, some great things that have happened. And some things you go. That just happened. No way.

Speaker C: Kids will never disappoint with their ability to surprise you.

Speaker B: Never disappoint with that.

Speaker A: That's for sure. So I, uh, haven't added too much to the book yet. I might have to bring it out with a new perspective now. So, uh. But it was definitely. It got to be where people say, like, you know, when we met at the end of the day, if you have just a couple minutes, like, you know, at bus duty, you meet at the end of the day to rehash. And somebody say, I got one for the book. And that's how you'd always start, you know, and it'd be like, oh, my goodness.

Speaker C: And I love that. And we do it here. Like we. You did the Rock at Oak Leaf. I think we had a silly trophy at Orange Park. But, like, we do Bucky the Bronco, which started as a little toy figurine to a.

Speaker B: Uh.

Speaker C: I stole one of Reese's big horse dolls. So every person that leaves from our team, I've given it to him. Like, Jay left. He's got the little one. Spencer's got the other one. But now we have, like, Miranda, who we're going to have on, uh, here shortly, is. She's made, like, this whole, you know, stuffed animal Bucky. But that's the end of the week. Like, whoever's got the craziest story or

Speaker A: whatever, like, yeah, that's where the rock came from. It was. And we, uh, on Fridays, it'd be like, you know, whoever had the craziest week or overcame the craziest week or the craziest story, they get the rock. And then they'd have to do a little acceptance speech, you know, like they were winning a Grammy or something. And then they were responsible for it bringing it out the next week. But God, man, you have to laugh, you know, if you can't have fun with your team, you spend too much time with them. You gotta have fun.

Speaker C: You spend more time with your team than did to your family.

Speaker A: You gotta have get togethers. You gotta have things you can laugh about. You know, you can't. You know, you can't take the job so serious that you can't laugh about some things and have a good time, so agree.

Speaker C: Well, listen, we appreciate you being on here with us today, and we'll have to get you back on. It was 45 minutes, but it felt like a, uh, very quick, uh, amazing.

Speaker B: So, yes, this was talking shop, a conversation with educational leaders. My name is Mike Randolph, and I'm the proud principal of the Leesburg High School, joined by our co host, Martin Aptuk, the proud principal of Middleburg High School. And we are so honored to have our guests today. Today, the chief of secondary schools and former principal of Oak Leaf and Orange park High School, Mrs. Treasure Picket. Thank you all.

Speaker C: So once again, go Broncos.

Speaker B: Yes. Uh, go Jackets.

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