Inner Propaganda with Owen Fitzpatrick · 2026-06-08 · 17 min
A coach with decades of experience once told me she knew exactly what she needed to do to stop smoking, but just couldn't do it, because she was a smoker and that was all there was to it. One reframe later, she never touched a cigarette again. What changed was not her knowledge or her willpower but her identity. That story sits at the heart of this episode, because identity is one of the most powerful forces shaping every decision we make, and most of us never stop to examine it carefully. The belief you hold about who you are determines what you allow yourself to do, what you permit yourself to change, and how you interpret every behavior you engage in. In this episode of Inner Propaganda, I explore where identity actually comes from, why so many of us are walking around with a perceived identity that is contaminated by who we want to be rather than who we actually are, and how to close that gap.
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