
Girl, Take the Lead! · 2026-06-18 · 5 min
What if the goal isn't fitting in? What if the goal is belonging? In this Sound Bite, I reflect on a question that emerged from my conversation with Teresa Gregory in Episode 296: What's the difference between fitting in and belonging? Drawing on the work of Brené Brown and Teresa's insights about "fit" in organizations, I explore how many of us spend years learning how to adapt, blend in, and gain acceptance - often at the expense of our own voice. But leadership rarely begins with conformity. It begins with the courage to bring our perspective into the room. Even when it's different. Even when we're the only one. In this reflection, I explore: The difference between fitting in and belonging Why belonging doesn't require us to change who we are The connection between diversity of thought and innovation The courage required to be the different voice in the room How leadership often begins when we're willing to stop editing ourselves Reflection Question Where in your life are you trying to fit in when you may already belong?