Leading without the Armour - Why Vulnerability isn't a risk
The Secrets of Learning & Development · 2026-03-08 · 9 min
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If you enjoyed this podcast, we'd love to hear from you! In this bonus episode of The Secrets of Learning & Development, Julia Bend and Valerie Merrill explore what it really means to lead without emotional armour. When leaders are always composed and always capable, it can unintentionally create distance. Julia reflects on how the performance of strength, while often rewarded, can leave leaders feeling isolated and teams disengaged. Together, they unpack why vulnerability is not about oversharing, but about signalling safety, building trust and making space for real dialogue. With sharp insights and practical examples, this episode challenges the long-standing belief that openness is a risk and instead makes the case that it is a strength. We are thrilled to share 'The Secrets of Learning and Development' Podcast has won Podcast of the Year 2025 A heartfelt THANK YOU to all our listeners for your encouragement, shares and support. It means the world. Support the show Support the Show Help us continue making great content and get a shout-out on the show!
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