A child psychologist’s guide to working with difficult adults | Dr. Becky Kennedy
Lenny's Podcast · 2026-02-01 · 1h 32m
Episode notes
Dr. Becky Kennedy is a clinical psychologist, the bestselling author of Good Inside , and the founder of a parenting platform used by millions. Known for her practical, psychology-based approach to parenting, Dr. Becky shares how the same principles that help parents raise resilient children can make you a much more effective leader. In this conversation, she breaks down why all human systems - whether families or companies - operate on the same fundamental principles, and how understanding these dynamics can make you more effective in every relationship. We discuss: 1. Why repair - not perfection - defines strong leadership 2. Why you need to connect before you correct to build cooperation and trust 3. The “most generous interpretation” framework for handling difficult behaviors 4. How to correctly set boundaries (vs. making requests) 5. The power of “I believe you, and I believe in you” 6. What it looks like to be a “sturdy” leader -
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