39 Insights from a Recovering Control Freak
Joyfully Unstoppable | Executive leadership for women · 2026-02-10 · 20 min
Episode notes
Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Joyfully Unstoppable , Becky Hamm breaks down a practical leadership filter for high-capacity women who take initiative, drive outcomes, and carry real responsibility. You will work through three categories that shape how you prioritize your time and energy: Control: you own the decision, the execution, and the outcome Influence: you can access the decision-making process, shape execution, or affect outcomes through leverage Acceptance: you identify what sits outside your control and influence, then redirect your energy toward work where you can create impact Becky also defines “control” with clear questions, shows how influence works in real leadership contexts, and explains how strategic acceptance protects your capacity for meaningful work. Share your takeaway: As you sort your current challenges into control, influence, and acceptance, drop a comment or send Becky a DM and share what changes in your approach. Learn more about Women Lead Well coaching and how coaching supports clearer decisions, stronger self-trust, and sustainable success.