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Beyond Doom-Scrolling: How The States Project Built a Movement Around Grassroots Social Networks

Professional Jealousy Podcast · 2026-06-16 · 52 min

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Key moments - from our scoring

Substance score

48 / 100

Five dimensions, 20 points each

Insight Density9 / 20
Originality9 / 20
Guest Caliber10 / 20
Specificity & Evidence13 / 20
Conversational Craft7 / 20

The States Project is a grassroots political organization founded in 2017 by Daniel Squadron, a former New York state senator, and Melissa Sklarz that channels small-dollar donations into state legislative races where individual contributions have outsized impact. State legislatures control policy on education, healthcare, abortion, voting rights, and gerrymandering - issues that affect Americans more directly than federal politics - yet receive less than one penny of every political dollar spent. The organization identifies 59 races in 2024 that were decided by fewer than 1,000 votes, including North Carolina's single-seat supermajority flip and Pennsylvania's 63-vote victory that enabled Joanna McClinton's historic election as first Black female House speaker. The States Project operates through 201 Giving Circles - peer networks where members pool resources (ranging from $10,000 to $500,000 annually, averaging $25,000) to select target states, debate strategy as a community, and move money democratically. Squadron and Sklarz explain how state power architecture (legislatures control redistricting, election administration, and often reverse federal rulings) combined with tangible community engagement creates political efficacy that national campaigns cannot offer. For B2B operators and civic entrepreneurs, this model inverts top-down political organizing into bottom-up networks that build leadership capacity while funding competitive races.

Key takeaways

  • →State legislative races are dramatically underfunded (less than one penny on the dollar in political spending) and represent the highest-impact leverage point for individual donors seeking to shift political power.
  • →The Giving Circles model democratizes fundraising by breaking down goals into achievable asks ($1,000 becomes asking 25 people for $40) and creates community-driven decision-making where donors of all contribution levels have equal votes on which states to target.
  • →In 2024, The States Project was involved in 59 races decided by fewer than 1,000 votes, including winning North Carolina by 228 votes and Pennsylvania by 63 votes, demonstrating that individual participation directly translates to measurable electoral outcomes.
  • →State legislatures control redistricting for Congress, abortion policy, voting rules, and countless domestic issues making them the actual locus of power for the issues voters care about, yet receive a fraction of national political attention and funding.
  • →Building bottom-up political engagement through state-level work teaches participants political fluency and creates a sense of tangible personal power, contrasting sharply with the helplessness voters feel responding to national campaign text messages.

In this episode

  1. 1The States Project Elevator Pitch: Why State Legislatures Matter More Than National Races
  2. 2From Publishing to Politics: How Melissa Co-Founded The States Project
  3. 3Four-Step Strategy for Winning State Legislative Races
  4. 4Giving Circles: Building Grassroots Fundraising Networks Across 200+ Communities
  5. 5Concrete Victories: Pennsylvania 2022, North Carolina 2024, and the Power of Margins
  6. 6Understanding Power Through Participation: How Giving Circles Build Political Fluency
  7. 7Bottom-Up Branding: Lessons for National Democratic Organizations

Mentioned

The States ProjectDanielMelissaAdam PritzkerJoanna McClintonMadara MyersNancy PelosiProfessional Jealousy Podcast

Guests

Daniel SquadronMelissa Sklarz

Topics in this episode

The States ProjectGiving CirclesState legislative racesNorth Carolina HousePennsylvania state legislatureJoanna McClintonThe Fourth Branch (book)Madara MyersAdam PritzkerSupermajority politics

Questions this episode answers

How much funding goes to state legislative races compared to federal elections?

State legislative races receive less than one penny on the dollar of total political spending, despite controlling policy on major issues like education, healthcare, and abortion that affect Americans directly.

How many close races was the States Project involved in during 2024?

The States Project was involved in 59 races that were decided by fewer than 1,000 votes, demonstrating how concentrated and winnable state legislative power truly is.

What is a Giving Circle in the States Project model?

A Giving Circle is a peer-led fundraising network where members pool small donations (ranging from $10,000 to $500,000 annually, averaging $25,000), democratically vote on target states, and collectively fund state legislative campaigns.

How did the States Project flip North Carolina's right-wing supermajority?

The organization won a single state House seat in North Carolina by 228 votes in 2024, which was enough to break the right-wing supermajority in that chamber.

What specific outcomes changed in Pennsylvania after the 2022 flips funded by the States Project?

After flipping 12 seats in Pennsylvania in 2022 (including one won by just 63 votes), the shift in power enabled Joanna McClinton's election as the first Black woman Speaker of the House in Harrisburg.

What our scoring noted

Our reviewer’s read on each dimension, with quotes from the episode.

Insight Density

9 / 20

There are genuine nuggets on the economics of state-level political funding and the leverage of giving circles, but the episode spends large stretches on advocacy framing, personal backstory, and vague democratic-values rhetoric that add little for a B2B operator. The ratio of actionable ideas to filler is low.

state legislative races get less than one penny on the dollar spent in politics. That's ridiculous.
it's often cheaper to change the balance of power in an entire state chamber than it is to win a single competitive congressional seat

Originality

9 / 20

The core reframe - go where the big donors aren't, find the highest-leverage arena, and use community mechanics to make giving feel owned rather than extracted - is genuinely counterintuitive versus typical political fundraising orthodoxy. However, the surrounding discussion relies heavily on familiar 'every vote counts' and 'grassroots power' tropes without pushing the argument into novel territory.

we went to a place where none of those folks much cared. Uh, that made it a lot easier.
you're not an observer to the destruction of the democracy. You don't feel helpless because you're not powerless.

Guest Caliber

10 / 20

Daniel is a genuine practitioner - former state senator and co-founder of a real, operating organisation - and Melissa built and scaled the giving circles program from scratch, so both have done the thing they describe. However, their domain is nonprofit civic organising, which is only tangentially relevant to B2B operators, and neither brings hard-won commercial or scaling lessons that transfer cleanly.

I'm a former New York state senator
I was writing young adult novels and middle grade novels and editing teen magazines, uh, when I first met Daniel

Specificity & Evidence

13 / 20

This is the episode's strongest dimension: named races, precise vote margins, specific dollar ranges, and a founding date ground the claims in verifiable reality. The data is used well to illustrate leverage rather than just decorate talking points.

we were able to break a right wing supermajority in North Carolina by a single state House seat that we won by 228
we were able to hold a one seat majority in Pennsylvania that we had won in 2022 by 63 votes

Conversational Craft

7 / 20

The host is warm but consistently softball: questions rarely follow up on a claim, there is no productive disagreement, and the episode repeatedly stalls with 'Yeah, amazing' and personal anecdotes about Nancy Pelosi texts. The quickfire section is particularly weak and the host never challenges an unsupported assertion.

Yeah, amazing. Um, Melissa, talk about. So obviously the aim is to help elect people who are going to be pro democracy.
Yeah, yeah.

Conversation analysis

Computed from the transcript - who did the talking, and the words that came up most.

Share of words spoken

  • Daniel Squadronguest42%
  • Melissa Sklarzguest40%
  • Natasha Jakubowskihost18%

Most-used words

power39state37states36giving35impact29feel20circles19project17important16politics14democracy14circle14melissa13better13best13part12

Episode notes

If you are completely exhausted by national political noise and panic-driven fundraising spam, you are looking at the wrong political map. On this episode of Professional Jealousy, Anomaly’s Chief Innovation Officer Natasha Jakubowski sits down with Daniel Squadron (former NY State Senator, Co-founder and Executive Director of The States Project, and author of the new book The Fourth Branch) and Melissa Walker (Head of Giving Circles at The States Project) to explore how true political power can be reclaimed from the ground up. As Melissa puts it: "We work not where the glamour is, just where the power is." By bypassing traditional, top-down political gatekeepers and focusing directly on community grassroots, The States Project has engineered a model that allows everyday friend circles to completely shift the balance of power in state capitols. They have taken complex, intimidating political systems and turned them into a simple, collaborative math problem that trusted social networks can solve together.

Full transcript

52 min

Transcribed and scored by The B2B Podcast Index.

Natasha Jakubowski: Coming up in this episode of Professional

Daniel Squadron: Jealousy, state legislative races get less than one penny on the dollar spent in politics. That's ridiculous.

Melissa Sklarz: In 2024, the States Project was involved in, uh, 59 races that were decided by fewer than 1,000 votes. There is so much isolation in the world right now. But this is a place where you can have an impact and you can do it side by side with other people in states.

Daniel Squadron: You're not an observer to the destruction of the democracy. You don't feel helpless because you're not powerless.

Natasha Jakubowski: So without further ado, um, hi Daniel and Melissa. It's so good to have you both on here. For people who don't know the States Project, can you give us the elevator pitch?

Daniel Squadron: Uh, sure. Maybe I'll go first. It's great to be here and thank you for having us. Maybe I'll go first and then let Melissa go, which will sort of track uh, a little bit, uh, what we've done here. So I'm a former New York state senator, which is when you start losing your listeners. Uh, and I saw uh, while spending nearly a decade in the legislature that um, when it came to states, the right wing movement, um, was outperforming politically. They were winning more elections than even they did nationally. They had a much better ideas ecosystem. They had both politically potent and also, uh, goal, uh, aligned solutions that their state lawmakers were carrying. And that on my side, I'm a lifelong Democrat, it seemed very, uh, few people much cared and there wasn't much happening about it. So uh, it was extremely frustrating because I saw that even 100 people got in a room and decided to change how uh, their state was working. They could, I would berate any time I could get even 20 people in a room, people. That message. No one ever took me up on it until I met Melissa and some of her friends in a party that she'll describe. And it was so inspiring to me that they did take me up on it, um, that uh, I, uh, along with Adam Pritzker, my co founder of the Stage Project, started this organization in October 2017 to try to make sure that the power of states was something people understood better than they had before on every issue people care about and that we would be more effective, uh, for folks who, you know, really believe in representative democracy and effective government and personal freedom and fair markets, to have power in states by doing better politically and having better ideas.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, amazing. I mean it is just so striking that while everyone has been focused on like the big elections, that the state races can impact People more and cost so much less. Melissa, what was it that, uh, um, kind of sparked your interest and got you to kind of help make this happen?

Melissa Sklarz: Yeah, well, I was writing young adult novels and middle grade novels and editing teen magazines, uh, when I first met Daniel. And, um, as he mentioned, I met him actually at a publishing holiday party in December of 2016. So a potent moment for politics in this country, certainly, and one in which I was looking around for like, places where I could really have an impact. And so exactly what you just said, the idea that it's often cheaper to change the balance of power in an entire state chamber than it is to win a single competitive congressional seat, really galvanized me because I didn't feel like I was someone who could organize a room and Host A, ah, U.S. senator. But I did feel like I was someone who could get my friends and my network together and potentially pool enough resources to help shift power in a state. And after listening to Daniel, I really understood that all the domestic issues that I was thinking about in that moment, education funding, environmental policy, healthcare, civil rights, abortion, even back then, voting rights, gerrymandering. I started to realize that they were all really in the hands of state lawmakers in state capitals and that I hadn't had eyes on that area at all. But it turned out that these were a place where I could make a really big impact and they would be foundational shift for the democracy. So I decided to focus there and, um, eventually helped launch a Giving Circles program at the States Project. And that was a way to help other people bring their networks to this fight as well.

Natasha Jakubowski: Amazing. All right, so why don't we break that down a little bit. Um, Daniel, why don't you talk about what exactly the state's project Art. So you pick a state and a candidate and fund it. And then I'm going to ask Melissa to talk about the Giving Circles idea because it's a super interesting kind of power of community creating the M movement.

Daniel Squadron: Uh, sure. So there's really just four steps. Uh, the first step is to look, uh, at all 99 state legislative chambers around the country and try to figure out where power is on the line. Because, uh, while a, uh, inspiring candidate that's exciting on social media, can make you feel good for a moment, uh, I found in my time in office, if you're in the minority in the legislature, in any legislature, you're just an observer with an all access passed. So where can you actually shift power? Look at all 99 chambers. The second thing is within those states where power's actually on the line, who's really going to be deciding what bills get voted on, whether they're doing harm or good. Uh, who are those candidates and districts? Second step, the third step is provide them with whatever they need to run their best possible campaign. More dollars, the tools and tips that maybe national campaigns get, but grassroots state legislative affairs rarely do get them out there on the doors and not just on the phones with special interests and donors. And then fourth, once they're elected, make sure that they have the ideas and the support to govern well, to represent their constituents in the way they promised during the campaign. So they're doing better communications and constituent services. You know, free turkey giveaways when Thanksgiving approaches. Uh, having a real relationship with their constituents and also having the kinds of ideas that will make a difference. You know, if you think of the 10 domestic policy ideas people most care about, states have done more harm or good on those in the last 15 years than the federal government has. But these are part time jobs, often with no staffers. And so we're just there to take folks who believe in the American promise and give them the tools to be effective at it. That's the work.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Amazing, amazing. Um, Melissa, talk about. So obviously the aim is to help elect people who are going to be pro democracy. Probably worth pointing out that generally Democrats, um, and um, I know that you've had quite a lot of, uh, success. Um, any particular, uh, recent, recent races that you feel good about sharing in terms of this can actually work?

Melissa Sklarz: Yeah, absolutely. I think one of the things that's most important for the folks in our Giving Circles program to see is, um, and we have been involved in many, many races across the years that have been decided by a handful of votes. In fact, in 2024 the states project was involved in uh, 59 races that were decided by fewer than a thousand votes. And in that year, which was actually a pretty tough year, um, nationally obviously, um, we were able to break a right wing supermajority in North Carolina by a single state House seat that we won by 228. Um, we were able to hold a one seat majority in Pennsylvania that we had won in 2022 by 63 votes. Um, that was an incredible year and a wild victory because we were able to flip actually 12 seats in Pennsylvania that year and that last one that was won by 63 votes, shifted power entirely in Harrisburg, let them elect the first black woman speaker of the house, Joanna M. McClinton, who's a wonderful partner of the States Project and Watching those states, um, where there were power has been really wonderful for giving circles who chose those states. So every giving circle can choose what state they'd like to target. After Pennsylvania 2022, I got to call every single Pennsylvania giving circle and say that was you, because if every piece of that basket weave hadn't been there, I don't know if we would have won Pennsylvania by 63 votes. And so I think people just seeing like, this isn't you dropping something in a giant bucket. This is actually something that is going to make a difference because we are winning or losing on. And when you shift power in a state, policies change, lives improve. There are absolute results.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, amazing. Um, how many giving circles do you have? Um, and like, what sort of amounts are people raising? Like, I know that, um, yeah, it's just an amazing idea.

Melissa Sklarz: So I just checked. We have two, ah, hundred one actively working for, um, this year, so for 2026. And hopefully that number will grow. Some over the years, um, have had, um, really a huge range of folks who start and grow giving circles. We see folks who raise, um, you know, we have some, some big giving circles that are raising a few hundred thousand dollars, which is incredible. But we have a lot of folks who are raising $10,000, $20,000 with their networks. And we actually have a program that's kind of an on ramp right now, which is called one K at a Time. Um, and we are watching actually, as younger folks start to get involved and figure out that this is a, have an impact and move resources. And we've seen a couple of those new one K at a Time giving circles starting up as well. I think one of the things about giving circles that feels really good to people is that when you can learn how to move resources and actually raise dollars, it helps you walk with more power in your regular life. And it helps de emotionalize the idea of fundraising. And it can be a math problem. You know, when people say, oh, I couldn't, I couldn't raise a thousand dollars, we say $1,000 is asking 25 people for 40 bucks each. Can you do that? And they say, oh, yeah, sure, I could do that. And so helping people figure out what those steps are is really, really powerful. And I think a wonderful place for people to start. But we've got everything from thousand dollar goals to $500,000 goals in the Giving Circles program. And the average raise is around $25,000.

Natasha Jakubowski: Okay. Yeah. Um, it's just so interesting to see one of the big outcomes is getting people to think about power. Think about local, what you can do actually to impact where you live, your local community. Um, if it wasn't quite so extreme in culture and what's happening in politics, you know, one outcome of all that craziness is the fact that it's probably a good thing for people to get involved and more, you know, more in the know when it comes to what's happening locally and politically. Um, do you find that the, the main driver is like, oh, my God, what, just a feeling of powerlessness? Or how do you find people? And what is the kind of main hook that you think kind of draws people in?

Melissa Sklarz: So I do think that people, everyone is looking for a way to get involved and have an impact right now. I think there's a lot of existential dread and fear and worry about what's happening in the country. And, um, people are looking for a way in. Um, politics can feel like a black hole. It can feel like everything's happening in a dark room and you can't really see the furniture. But it is a place where, um, you can have an impact. And I think our program tries to shine a light on that. Um, not just because the dollars are so much lower, but also because part of our work is to help people develop a political fluency, to start to understand how power really works and why There are these 50 mini congresses across the country that have actually been shaping policy and outcomes on the kitchen table issues. Yes, but also over federal power as well. As we watch state legislatures draw the district lines that decide who goes to Congress. Often when the Supreme Court rules on something, what they are doing is throwing power back to states. So, you know, it was a Mississippi law that took down Roe, and if that one hadn't done it, there were a bunch of other states that had queued up abortion bans with the explicit purpose to challenge Roe. So those laws are coming from states, and when there's a ruling, it's throwing power back to states. So even outcomes of the Supreme Court giving circle leaders say, I'm working on that. I am working in the place where the power lives there. And even on the presidency, you know, states control the vote. Um, they control who can vote and when and how. And, um, you know, if the federal government controlled elections, we would already be in pretty deep trouble. But they don't, because the founders feared a king, and there's a decentralized system here. And I think when people hear those types of stories, they can see that not only is this a place where they can have an impact, but it's Also a place of incredible power. And the combination of those two things is pretty irresistible for someone who's really thinking hard about how and where to get involved and spend their time and resources.

Natasha Jakubowski: All right, Daniel, what's the political, uh, professional, uh, view of that?

Daniel Squadron: Well, I think you might be surprised to hear this from political professional, but, you know, you get how many texts, if you're even glancingly interested in politics, from politicians saying, you know, m. You need to help us. Right. You know, if, you know, among your listeners, uh, you know, how many of them tried to do something in the last presidential race? If people are being honest with themselves, whether they respond to that text or not, or even what they did or didn't do in the presidential race, did any of them really think that they were going to personally have a meaningful impact on the outcome? Which doesn't mean it's not worth doing. We know that everyone needs to make the choice to act, uh, to vote, to participate, among other things. It sends a really strong message. But in states, you're not an observer to the destruction of the democracy. You don't feel helpless because you're not powerless. Literally, a single individual's networks, expertise, um, resources, uh, at any level will have a vastly outsized impact. So it's a little bit of saying. It rings empty when people say, oh, you don't know your power, because people don't know their power. But the presidency is the single worst example of that. Where people really don't know their power in our federal system is to change the entire system by focusing where any dollar or minute they have to commit to the cause will have the biggest impact. And that states, not just for some state campaign, but for every issue Melissa's already spoken about.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, I, I definitely, I think just before we got on, on the recording, I definitely got, I, uh, a text message from Nancy Pelosi telling me, you know, how much she really needed me. And it does feel very well.

Daniel Squadron: Did you respond or decide that we should lose Congress?

Natasha Jakubowski: No, I, I, I definitely, I did. I mean, the, yeah, the problem is that you. I deleted and said, please don't spam me, because it happens so often and it does feel so removed and like it's not real. Whereas, um, having taken part, uh, uh, started to take part in one of the Gideon circles. I think one of the mechanics is not just that you can see, uh, see impact, but you also get to really think about the process. You know, you, you work as a group, um, and you think about it and you debate and then you make A decision. I think that's one of the powers of, um, of the kind of mechanic that you've been using. Um, it truly is like a way of creating that kind of grassroots interaction and, uh, motivation. Was that part of how you're thinking about it, or that's been kind of something that you've seen kind of grow. Like how much of it was planned versus has just kind of evolved as

Daniel Squadron: you've been building, you know, for, for me, and I'm sure Melissa will have a different and also true answer. But for me, um, this is the best way to understand power. So democracies are sort of strange things because, uh, people with less power come together and choose who has more. Sort of the only structure that's set up that way, you know, an elected official is hired by a bunch of people with less power than they have or fired by them. And understanding that can be dry. It can be a civics lesson. It can be the old, uh, how a bill becomes a law. The practice of participating in states really lets you behind the curtain on power. Even if you're not someone who wants to get engaged at all, or you're not sure what side you're on a certain issue, or even in political movements, obviously in this polarized moment, many more people have much more clarity. But, uh, everything that you see in terms of how parties work, in terms of what it takes to get something done, in terms of, uh, the difference between what you and all of your friends think and what your fellow citizens think. These are wonderful, magical parts of democracy. That, uh, fractured media ecosystem. A, uh, nationalized, too big to, uh, impact kind of conversation. Hide. Once you're in this, you become an expert. My favorite stories actually are when someone says, you know, I always thought I didn't know that much about politics. I got involved m in the giving circle. And I was at dinner. I was at dinner with some friends, you know, at a barbecue on a Saturday night, and someone said something about the news and I knew what was really going on. And like, you know, that that itself is a form of power that from the beginning was really important to me. Uh, the worst thing for me is when I'm at a family event and I get asked a question about some national headline that has nothing to do with the actual mechanics of how people are making decisions and what's going to impact our lives.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, yeah.

Melissa Sklarz: And I think, um, your question made me think of a lot of different things. I know that you joined a giving circle that recently just did their state selection, which is something that Giving circles do do. And it's based on the fact that my giving circle did one 10 years ago when we first started, uh, we're on year 10, which I can't believe, but we wanted to vote on the state that we wanted to impact from the States Project's kind of strategic list of states and letting everyone who had given to the circle have a vote, no matter what they had given. So some people a meaningful donation was $25, and some people a meaningful, um, donation was $2,500 and everything in between. But I knew that as we went into that first vote, I was handing a tiny scrap of paper and a golf pencil to people who'd given very different amounts. But we were all heading into whatever state we chose with our total. And the total felt really powerful. And think that to your point about, you know, this. This building community and really engaging with the learning about these states is the glue. Um, and a really important piece of this because there is so much isolation in the world right now, and there is so much, um, you know, just people feeling alone. But this is a place where you can have an impact and you can do it side by side with other people. I think that's. That's very, very powerful. Um, and the last thing that I'll say, the talk about the texts made me think of this. We do have a giving circle right now named coast to coast, who did a challenge a few weeks ago where they asked their members every time they received a text to, um, make a hash mark and add them up and give $5 for each one that they get over the course of a week to the Giving Circle. And that was just a really fun way to have people kind of make light of this kind of annoying thing that happens to all of us. Um, and a really powerful way to bring the community together to laugh and joke about it. And I do think, obviously, you know, the giving circles, raising our electoral dollars has huge, huge impact. But the other impact is that There are now 200 groups across the country that are being led by people who have truly, like, turned on the porch light for strategic political giving in their communities and have become leaders and experts because of their engagement here. And that's grow. Think that's really good for the democracy, too.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Um, I'm curious what you, you know, you've created a political organization that has inverted the usual way of doing things from top down to bottom up. Um, I'm curious, you know, what sort of branding advice or organization advice would you have for someone, like, the bigger kind of national Democrats to start thinking about what are the learnings for, you know, how to build something that feels more interactive and more meaningful.

Daniel Squadron: I talk about this in uh, my book the Fourth Branch. Political parties by definition are focused in the Capitol. They are focused, uh, where the most powerful elected officials, advocates, lobbyists, consultants and donors are focused. And in our country that is geographically bounded by the beltway. And m the uh, idea that uh, some local state senator or children's book author or a uh, leading uh, marketing and branding expert are going to show up in the Capitol and change the shape of that ah Lake is not realistic. Again, it doesn't mean that you should exit because the civic muscle is important, but you also should be honest with yourself about that. So I'd say the first piece is we went to a place where none of those folks much cared. Uh, that made it a lot easier. Uh, the second, and I know this is a cliche, but it has the added our argument. Our kind of counterintuitive uh, case has the added benefit of being true. So when people take the case and try to remember the word salad that I sometimes get caught in or the inspiration that Melissa has shared with them and start searching themselves, they find it's truer even than we were able to communicate in person. That really creates a positive cycle of them wanting to hear more from us, us being able to deliver more. Uh, and then the third, um, and we haven't always been good at this. And with my co founder Adam, and with the team we've had throughout current executive director of the stage project, Madara Myers, it is just an obsessive focus on the fact that you're going to have to go back to these people who are after all contributing without getting anything in return. Accept their sense of impact and never lying to them about the impact. If you know that you're going to have to go back to people who are committing themselves in this way with actual answers for what happened with the time and money they gave you. It is a really clear focuser on just learning and getting better we've made. You know, I certainly made an infinite number of mistakes along the way. Uh, and at any moment there's something that, that I and our team would love to make better. But we know that we need to be on that path because we're asking for a sacred commitment from folks much like the one as a local politician I asked for when I knocked on their doors and asked them to vote for a 28 year old in a Democratic primary for an office they were Only vaguely aware even existed.

Melissa Sklarz: And I will say that within the Giving Circles program, I think one of the most powerful things about branding is that everyone gets their own page and names their own circle and picks their own image and writes their own bio for the circle. And so it really does become an individually branded piece for people to take out into their networks. And some people name themselves after, you know, where they are. Boston protects democracy. And some people name things, um, you know, just based on state puns. You know, um, we have our states, our power, and um, altered states, um, things like that. So they get very creative with it. And that really creates a sense of ownership, um, over their particular circle, which I think is very, very powerful. And then we have things that we kind of say within the program and that become catchphrases for the Giving circles. One rather clunky one that Daniel likes to make fun of is friends don't let friends give non strategic political donations. It's a little clunky, but it does land because people do understand that, as you know, when you're reaching out to people, what you're doing is you're giving them a real opportunity to have impact with their dollars. Um, and then another one that I love is, uh, we work where the glamour is. We work not where the glamour is, just where the power is. Which is, again, a little clunky. Um, but we used to have a sign on our door that said, not where the glamour is, just where the power is. And those types of things, I think, really kind of echo in people's minds. And a piece of identity for their Giving circles that helps them kind of stay with us and continue, uh, to do this work.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, no, it's, it's interesting. I mean, I, I, I definitely think it actually probably changes how people give money m you know, versus the kind of the Nancy text messages and the kind of very generic ActBlue. Um, yeah, it does for me personally, it, it definitely made that sort of thing feel a little like, you know, not frivolous, but pointless. When you have more power to impact something and feel like, you know, where the action is going, um, do you think that's tension that you think about? You know, how do you make something.

Melissa Sklarz: Giving is emotional. You know, giving really is emotional. And there's a lot of non strategic, emotional, political giving. You get angry at someone, you get upset about something, you give to the opponent or a commercial, you know, some candidate's ad makes you cry, you're gonna give. Um, and so with Giving circles, the emotional part is baked in you're doing this with your friends, your family, your network. You're doing this together. And that brings an emotional piece to it. And then the strategy is right there. State, um, legislatures, which maybe doesn't feel emotional for people at the beginning because it's, who are these people and what are we talking about? But I think doing it with friends and family is the emotional hook. And then the strategy can really get in there and start to galvanize people.

Daniel Squadron: And we're really asking a lot of people, which works. Uh, but, you know, it maybe makes it sort of in a certain lane. Right. Because we're asking people, uh, in a world of uh, these very emotional stories on their cable news and their social media feeds and their newspaper website, uh, to do something that isn't there. We're asking people to uh, take the responsibility to have the biggest possible impact they can in the democracy, which is a pretty heavy responsibility, uh, if you actually think you, you have a role in that, uh, and the democracy is at risk. Um, uh, and we're asking people to understand a level of complexity that um, you know, is not, not even a full book long, but is longer than a tweet. And uh, you know, that's a lot. All those three things are a lot to ask from people who are busy and distracted and care but feel anxious and uh, you know, would like at some part in their life, have tough jobs, tough families. Somewhere in their life they'd like just an easy win. And um, this is a real win, but it's a little bit of a harder one.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Um, I think the fact that it's local and focusing on some of the, you know, the things that impact you, you know, the roads, the schools, the, you know, issues that are close, closer by is also something which I guess we're seeing also with the affordability in the kind of national debate too, helps. Um, I'm curious, Daniel, you know, as someone that uh, has never thought about politics as a career, um, I am curious what made you take this route. I'm just, ah, especially as a mother, I'm always, I'm definitely thinking about, you know, what will my teenagers do and how do I set them up for, um, you know, some, some good values and some, you know, thinking about what's important. I'm just curious, what is it in your kind of background or why. Why do you think you ended up in politics?

Daniel Squadron: Uh, it's funny, I, I thought as you were asking the question, you were asking me, as someone who has never personally thought about politics as a career, how did I end up spending more than 20 years in it? Which would have some truth. And I thought you were really getting a little deep. I guess these podcasts are really personal affairs, um, which is a little bit of an answer. I mean, there is sort of a pat answer that has real truth to it, which is, um, that I, uh, grew up in a home that focused a lot on this. My mother, uh, went to the Mississippi freedom summer of 1964 as a White woman who had grown up in the south, uh, in her 20s. Uh, my father, uh, actually, uh, was part of an American Jewish Congress delegation that marched on Washington. Um, these were really important things, uh, in my house growing up. And, um, that's true. But that was also true for my siblings, not all of whom went into politics and all of whom are actually really mission driven, committed people in their own ways. So the career choice is, is a different one, a little bit. I think the truest answer is I dropped out of school, college, uh, for a year and opened a bar restaurant with some friends. Great experience, was, uh, horribly ill qualified to do it. Um, we got it open moderately successful, uh, for a period anyway. But you know what success was? It was more beer and fried food to college kids. And that the building of it, the bad idea, that became a real idea that was, uh, interesting. But at the end of the day, the why felt a little empty. And, um, the one thing about politics, uh, is spend a lot of hours working. I'm a person who's particularly going to spend a lot of my hours working on whatever project I'm engaged in. And a why at the end of the day just helps me sleep well. And, uh, means that more mornings when I wake up, I know what I want to accomplish that day and why it's important. Um, and I guess baked into all of that is a belief that a politician, whether someone who works for them or the candidate trying to get votes, trying to be popular, trying to win enormous power that way, is admirable, not offensive. And I guess that view is just a quirk I have, but it is one that happens to be good for democracy.

Natasha Jakubowski: Um, Melissa, do you think you found your why?

Melissa Sklarz: Um, wow, that feels like a big question. I, um, I do. I mean, I think that I. It's not as wild a path as it might sound to go from writing for young people to doing this work. Um, because I think that people who write children's books are people who explain very, very complex things in the world, um, in simple ways. And that truly is my role in a Lot of this work in bringing in new people to start giving circles, new people to focus on state legislatures as opposed to what they're seeing on the news or in the newspaper. Every think that that actually blends very, very seamlessly. And I will say that with giving circles, often the biggest, um, bump in the road is that people are like, well, I don't, I don't know how to fundraise. I could never fundraise. And when I started this work, after about three months, I had a friend say, oh, how's the fundraising gig going? And I was like, oh, I'm not a fundraiser. I'm flipping state legislatures. And she was like, m through fundraising, right? And I was like, oh, oh my gosh, I think I'm fundraising. But I really hadn't. Because what I was doing was gathering people in rooms and telling them stories, which was what I was used to. I was telling them true stories about the power of state governments and how important they were and how much we could impact them. And that, to me felt very true to my whole career and, uh, like a seamless transition. So it's not as circuitous a path as you might imagine for me to land here. And I do feel every day, um, and I read something in the news that convinces me that, like, this is the place where I can have the most impact and this is the place where I want to see my kids or where I want my kids to see me working at this moment in history. I want them to see me in this fight and doing this work.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, amazing. Um, gosh, time is flying. Um, what is the kind of longer term vision for the states? Project Connect. I'd love to hear both of you, like, what do you, what, where do you see hope it goes? And what is success? What does success mean?

Daniel Squadron: Uh, for me, I really do believe that the American experiment, that the promise that it's self evident, all people are created equal with the right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness, and that government secures those rights with the consent of the government, is pretty much the best commitment that people have ever made to each other. It's a commitment that's taken time. You know, it took some time before the Constitution, then imperfectly reflected it. It was improved four score and seven years after it was first written, and then again 100 years after that. And there's still room. But, uh, that commitment is a wildly powerful one that requires active democracy. And even the imperfect founders and framers knew that the states, each state was not a component part of the federal government. But had its own power. And so for me, uh, really delivering this country, delivering on that promise better requires people to be engaged civically, which is not going to happen nationally. So, you know, for me, success is, is, uh, politics utterly focused on arguing the best way to achieve that sentence with enormous engagement in states. It's not a linear answer. There are some linear answers. Like right now, state legislative races get less than one penny on the dollar spent in politics. That's ridiculous. It's ridiculous. It should be at least, I mean, well, based on purpose, but it should be at least ten times that. Two ideas really matter. And just the idea that we're fine and, uh, it's only gerrymandering is bs. We need to be more popular. Those of us who believe in the American promise. We need a super majority. That's a concrete, measurable outcome. Um, but is that for the states project or for a, ah, fight for my children and grandchildren to take up? I just don't. Timelines are never my strength,

Natasha Jakubowski: Melissa.

Melissa Sklarz: I'll say that I really do want people to understand that they do have power and that it is very, very worth finding the best places to use time and resources, um, and focus. Because I think that the, you know, the defeat comes when people feel helpless and hopeless and when they sit down. And often when people say, oh, I want to introduce you to a friend who works in politics. She'd be great for a giving circle. I say, I would love to talk to that friend. And please also introduce me to your friend who feels like there's nothing we can do, because that's the person I want to meet, because I want to tell that person that there absolutely is something that we can do, all of us. And in these, these fights, every individual matters. So, um, that's what I hope that more and more people kind of recognize their own power when they engage.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, no. Amazing. Um, all right, we're running out of time. I'm going to go to the kind of quick fire section.

Daniel Squadron: So, you know, in political debates, this is the most fraught part of the conversation.

Natasha Jakubowski: Should I. I'm going to ask you.

Melissa Sklarz: Luckily, we're not debating. It'll be okay.

Natasha Jakubowski: I know, not debating. But, but I am curious if, if I put you on the spot by asking the question, who are candidates that you, you want to see run for president on the non, non state level?

Daniel Squadron: Well, I, I, uh, there's a couple state lawmakers who I'd love to have run for president, but they will certainly not do it if I blow up their spot here. Uh, apologies, but I'll say this. Here are the characters, and I don't actually have. I don't have someone I'm supporting. Here's the thing, whoever it is, better actually fundamentally understand that American promise we were talking about before as the core goal of this country, which I think we have issues with on the left and the right. And they better understand the power of states better than any Democratic president ever has. And those are the two things I'm looking at.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah.

Melissa Sklarz: Yeah. I also feel like I can't name a name, but I will say that, um, some of our best folks have come from the state legislature. Barack Obama was a state senator. There are people who rise up from this level and who, um, I hope, like Daniel does, will understand it and engage with state legislatures, even as president, um, not forget that. That, you know, that building block of power.

Natasha Jakubowski: Okay.

Daniel Squadron: But I'd say if we, ah, do have a sitting state lawmaker running for president, you'll know that's our person.

Natasha Jakubowski: Okay. Um, what do you think both of your superpowers are, uh, that have helped you get. Get where you've gotten to?

Melissa Sklarz: I'll say that I feel like in both of my careers, I, um, have chosen sort of a strange iteration of the thing that I'm doing. So, for example, when I was writing for young people, I would often go to book festivals, and I'd meet folks who had written adult novels, and they'd say, oh, your books seem really interesting. You should write a real book. And I'd be like, hmm, M. These are real books and they're really important. And I now find myself in donor room in New York and Los Angeles, and people say, oh, wow, you're really good at this. You should work on federal races. And I say, hmm, I actually think I am working on the most important thing. So I think I often somehow choose the, um, you know, the road less traveled, for lack of a better phrase. And I think, um, you know, that's just. That's been something that's echoed.

Natasha Jakubowski: Daniel.

Daniel Squadron: Uh, you know, um, I've had a lot of different conclusions on this at different points and sort of state it confidently and see if it sticks. It's a hard question. I think, um. I'll tell you some things that I really enjoy. I enjoy, um, creating, uh, things that didn't exist before based on some insight that I think, um, is true and important for other people to also share. I, uh, really care a great deal about, uh, having a clear goal that, um, I understand. But I actually think this might just be to the moment. But there's a funny thing about magic tricks which is at the end of them, they show people a reality they didn't know existed with a sense of delight. You know, so there's the idea of the magic trick where it's tricking you or where it's actually magically or so on. There's the idea where you're actually giving people an insight into a piece of reality they didn't fully understand. But it delights them when they see it. I really like doing that. I've enjoyed doing that in the process of writing this book that's coming out. Process of working with some amazing people to build the States Project. That was the best part of being in office. Uh, so I don't know, um, if that's superpower, but it's certainly fun.

Natasha Jakubowski: I mean there's elements of that that are quite entrepreneurial sounding. Plus the kind of inspiration part of it. Creating an inspirational. What could happen, um, is an interesting one, which I'm sure is important as someone creating a political vision or a movement. Um, yeah, interesting. Um, best career advice, worst career advice you've had?

Daniel Squadron: Uh, I've got worst. Uh, I, uh, was once, uh, told don't rock the boat. Um, someone who cared a great deal about me. But, uh, I'm glad I didn't take that advice. And the best career advice, actually, best career advice. Chucks Schumer. I worked for Chuck Schumer and you know, ah, he has this thing where he says, you know, the test is when you go to bed Sunday morning, are you looking forward to work? And when you wake up Monday morning, are you excited to get. Oh, sorry. Actually, when you go to bed Sunday morning and when you go home Friday night, are you excited to see your family? Because you've seen and like, that's the test of a life well lived. And I think it's pretty much the best advice I could gotten.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, that's pretty good, Melissa. I love that.

Melissa Sklarz: My. I would say, uh, I can only think of best, which, um, maybe I just have tuned out the worst. Maybe my brain.

Natasha Jakubowski: I would say that might be a characteristic.

Melissa Sklarz: Um, but one of the best things. I was very worried about kind of leaving my writing career when I went to work full time at the States Project. And um, I had a writer friend say to me, you know, life is really good for writing. And it reminded me that I will come back to the page, which one day I will, with so many more experiences and so much more knowledge about humans, characters, people, situations. And that has helped Me relax and fully focus on this goal until I can get back to writing.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Amazing. Um, so anything that you're trying to. To work on and get better at?

Daniel Squadron: I thought we were at the end, not the beginning. Uh, it's a long list.

Melissa Sklarz: I'm taking piano lessons.

Daniel Squadron: Wow.

Melissa Sklarz: And I think that is, you know, I'd like to be able to play, like, a song every once in a while, But I also think that I'm working on having my brain operate in different spaces, and I think it opens up creativity in all areas to do that.

Natasha Jakubowski: Amazing.

Daniel Squadron: Uh. Uh, I think I'm working on trying to say yes to those things that will give me the most fulfillment and no to those things that feel most important for a reason other than that.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Yeah. Saying no always. Always, uh, hard figuring out what to say no to. Um, I have so many potential questions, but I think we're kind of out of time. Uh, last question. Tell me about someone that you're professionally jealous of. Um, and why.

Melissa Sklarz: I'm gonna say, um, Stacey Abrams. I, um, think she is a brilliant organizer, um, and a huge inspirer of people. And she also writes thrillers and romance novels at the same time. I'm not sure how she's doing that, but would really love to figure out a schedule where I could do that, too. So I'm pretty jealous of all the things she's working on.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah, she's pretty amazing. I feel like I haven't heard from her for a while. Um, she's still out there.

Melissa Sklarz: She's still working. And I think she has a new book, too, so it's kind of wild.

Natasha Jakubowski: And another person that works on the state level as well, organizing. Interesting. Yeah. Okay, Good on Daniel.

Daniel Squadron: Uh, so the two cop out answers here that I. I want to go, like Jon Krakauer and Bruce Springsteen. They're both spending a lot of time doing things that seem like they'd be a lot of fun. Um. Uh, I'm neither a travel writer nor can keep a note, but nonetheless. Uh, but I'd say actually the true one, the one that I spent a lot of time thinking about, is a guy named Paul Weyrich. He's not alive anymore, but he was a conservative. Conservative, um, conservative Christian, uh, Republican, who founded the Heritage foundation and Alex. The American Legislative Exchange Council and the Moral Majority. But mostly what he did is he had a set of values. They were extremely narrow, uh, and inconsistent, um, with my own. But he really stuck to those values deeply, and then built institutions that were not at all about him, um, that, uh, Made those values more real in the world. And, uh, that's, um, something to really both learn from and aspire to with whatever set of values you carry.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Amazing. I mean, it's a great example of organization and, uh, creating impact. Uh, definitely. Um, thank you both so much for giving me your time. And I'm hoping everyone has learned a little bit about this super interesting and important, uh, organization that I encourage everyone to take a look at. Uh, the States Project. Uh, you can find it on all the places you would expect to find it. The States Project on, you know, social and stuff. Um, any last pitch, and then I'll read out. Um, but, yeah, I think it's such a great organization and such a good kind of, uh, template that a lot of people can be thinking about when they start thinking of both commercial as well as nonprofit, uh, engagement and storytelling and movement building. Any last thoughts? And then I'll read us out.

Melissa Sklarz: I'll just say that, you know, whenever I'm out in the world or looking at social media or seeing, you know, pictures of friends, I. Every time I see a gathering, I think to myself, oh, look, a giving circle. Um, so I think that it is one of the most incredible models to use for anything that you want to bring attention and resources to. And it can look like a potluck, a dinner party, a book club, um, you know, friends over for pizza and wine and sushi and beer. And it is really about that community building. And I. That's what makes it. It fun, engaging, and strong. Um, so just encourage people to look around their worlds and see those possibilities.

Daniel Squadron: Yeah, absolutely. People. It's a democracy. If you say you love it, then you have a responsibility and an opportunity with that.

Natasha Jakubowski: Yeah. Amazing. All right, thank you so much to Daniel and Melissa from the States Project. Um, you know, I think it reminds us of so many things, apart from the fact that democracy is important and actually you can actually have impact. I think having a clear vision from what to execute, a bit like the Heritage foundation, in a funny way, is important. Storytelling, breaking stuff down, messaging, uh, in a way that creates involvement and participation, um, and a reminder that everyone has the power to change things. If we all participate and, uh, have a go, um, please take a look at some of the other episodes we've done. You can find them on Spotify, Apple, and YouTube. Get in touch if you have any questions or feedback or anyone else that you'd like featured. Thank you very much.

Melissa Sklarz: Thanks for having me.

Natasha Jakubowski: Thank you,

Daniel Squadron: Sam.

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